In need of advice!!

[Ma tickler]

Hey everyone just looking for some advice. So heres the scoop, i have veen dating the same girl for over two years now. She is very aware of the fact that i like her feet very much and is completely okay with it. She lets me rub then whenever i want and play with them. However, i dont think she realizes that i really do have a foot fetish and that her feet actually turn me on. Im afraid of what her reaction may be if i tell her this. Any advicr or tips much appreciated. Thanks!

 

[Jagermeistered]

I am pretty sure she knows you have a foot fetish. Come on now... Two fucking years and you think she is in the dark? Get over it! You are the insecure one in this plot. 😛

 

[ikaiyoo]

Be honest and let her know. If you have been with her two years, I am almost positive that she notice your erection everytime you have her feet in your lap.

A feet are one of the most common "fetish" so I do not think she is going to act weird about it.

 

[Jagermeistered]

Be honest and let her know.

Too late! He is rubbing and playing with her feet already(according to his OP)... What more can he say?

 

[ikaiyoo]

To him it isnt too late. She is already letting him which means she probably knows like i said. He wanted advice. What should he do... He should be honest and let her know. Even if it is while he is rubbing her feet to nonchalantly say something to the effect of, "Hey I know you probably already know this but i get really turned on playing with your feet"

 

[Jagermeistered]

While his girlfriend noticed his erected pecker after two years of foot rubbing? Why do you need positive-reinforcement?

 

[Ma tickler]

Thanks for the advice

 

[Jagermeistered]

Your welcome. 🙂

 

[Mitchell]

I would gently tell her. Honesty seems the best policy.

 

[chicago]

I'd avoid the word fetish, though. People tend to take that the wrong way when they don't understand it. Saying you find her feet "hot" or that they "turn you on" may prove to have better results. But yes, whether she notices or not that you become aroused by them, it still helps to be honest.

 

[voided9]

If she already knows you "really like" her feet and lets you play with/rub them, she's clearly aware that you have an interest in feet. I doubt she'll be wierded out at all, but just be careful of how you word it. Like Annie said, try not to use the word "fetish". But definitely let her know - she'll appreciate your honesty/comfortability with her, and you'll be relieved to have finally gotten it off your chest.

 

[Jagermeistered]

Why throw out the "honest" communication though? None of us can calculate her intelligence.

 

[Mane'o]

After two years of doing what you indicated, if she doesn't know, you have bigger problems in the relationship than articulating your love of feet. Don't over think this