influence?

[nobody_reallyy]

hi all, i dont post much here, but hey what they heck~

i was wondering if anybody has ever been influenced to like tickling or not like ~ for example, my gf hates being tickled, ~ infact she gets pretty moody about it even if she is tickled by accident or something makes her itch ~ (advice anyone?)

kindda unusual huh~ but anyhow, after being really interested in tickling, overtime it's made me kindda go neutral with it also~ for example if one day she tickles me out of the blue, i dont react to it very well~ not sure why~

how about you guys? does influence usually get u? for example positive influence (encouragement) or negative influence off others?

 

[ttheocjones]

Yeah that work for me too. For example if i had a girlfriend who isn't ticklish it just takes all the wind out of my sails. I'm not happy and choose to find fun elsewhere. Although it doesn't ruin tickling for me on a broad scale it does with that particular person.

 

[nobody_reallyy]

yep, indeedo...

any experts (lol) know how to handle a non-tickle lover? or is it just a "that's the way it's gonna be"

 

[johnttickle]

When I was younger I had a couple girl friends that hated to be tickled. I put my fetish in the closet and tried not to tickle them, but I was unhappy. Now that I am in my mid forties, I won’t get involved with a girl that isn’t into tickling and feet. That’s what I like about being older, it’s that you know what you want and you don’t waste time with someone that doesn’t make you happy. Also, I have found that the women at my age are tired of missionary sex and are looking for something different, and are easy to get into tickling. I was asked out the other day, and I was so cocky as to come right out and mention my tickling. Now I have another lady to tickle, she liked the fact that I knew what I wanted and I was confident about it. This intrigued her and therefore she wanted to try it.
In conclusion, life is too short to be unhappy, be confident and go get what makes you happy.

Aloha, John.😉

 

[Cavum]

When I was younger I had a couple girl friends that hated to be tickled. I put my fetish in the closet and tried not to tickle them, but I was unhappy. Now that I am in my mid forties, I won’t get involved with a girl that isn’t into tickling and feet. That’s what I like about being older, it’s that you know what you want and you don’t waste time with someone that doesn’t make you happy. Also, I have found that the women at my age are tired of missionary sex and are looking for something different, and are easy to get into tickling. I was asked out the other day, and I was so cocky as to come right out and mention my tickling. Now I have another lady to tickle, she liked the fact that I knew what I wanted and I was confident about it. This intrigued her and therefore she wanted to try it.
In conclusion, life is too short to be unhappy, be confident and go get what makes you happy.

Aloha, John.😉

Amen dude! I can't call myself old, but what you say is so true. My fetish side is such a big part of me and I will NEVER spend time in a relationship with a girl that is not in the SM scene and don't like tickling and getting her feet touched again. Made that choise 3 years ago and I now live happy with a girl I can tickle torture whenever I want! :super_hap

 

[Kittamaru1]

I've found the opposite to be true - my g/f and I have managed to get a girl who's extremely ticklish but HATES being tickled to start to enjoy it and even get revenge once in a while 🙂

Pairing something like tickling with a good foot rub / home-pedicure really helps to open them up to it and being gentle enough to cause giggling and happy laughter instead of torturing them helps make them enjoy it more too 🙂

 

[TickleKay]

I don't know if this fits in here or not, but I was influenced to enjoy an aspect of tickling I ever did before---

I have a thing for tickling people awake. I see a foot poking out, or make it poke out to be more precise, and then I tickle them into spasms. It pisses most people off for sure. Okay sometimes I do it nice and light just enough to make the murmur in their sleep- I may even pull back the covers slowly and dap some itching powder on them or between toes without waking them and sit back and wait for the reactions while pretending I'm asleep too. But mostly I like to tickle [as in torture] in the morning and really wake them up with it. I absolutely can't resist getting their feet.

Now this was a learned trait. I didn't always have it. When we were camping at a renaissance fair a really close friend of mine into tickling got me into doing it with him - and got me in trouble for doing it lol- seves me right though :redface: but I'll never change back now.

Kay