I wish I had a dollar for every time some guy said that there's no women in his town into this. I'd be able to buy a fairly decent night's entertainment.
I *know* of women in Ireland. Scotland. England. France. Germany....
All over the planet, actually.
Never seen a poster from Zimbabwe, but that doesn't preclude our interest. There's just damned little net access.
It's the reason I push others to have socials, called munches within deviant subculture like the bondage community and the tickling community, in their locale. You start out meeting a guy or two, and then eventually a woman gets bold and shows. Then more guys show. Then more women show.
Funny how that works. Just like any other social activity, it is.
Personals help, but do consider that there are SHY women, and women who see the more juvenile posts from men online, and restrain themselves from responding, until they KNOW something about the guy posting.
Now, both of you are fairly new or fairly quiet. If neither of you get response, which happens, try meetin' one another. Invite others to a pint or three at a pub you can all find, in a safe part of town.
Ain't like you ain't got good pubs there. 😉 Good pints, too!
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