Is being tickle tortured worth it if I get to do the torturing after?

[JaredG]

I had a huge sigh of relief a few days ago because my girlfriend told me that she has a tickling fetish. Once she told me this, I was also able to let out the secret of my tickling fetish that I have been keeping locked up for such a long time from her. Neither of us have ever been tied up and tickled, nor tied anyone up and tickled them, but I asked her if she was willing to let me tie her spread eagle to the bed and tickle her, and with almost no convincing, she said yes. But, under one condition: I could do it to her if she could do it to me. I really want to tickle her because she has the kind laugh that makes you want to tickle her all day, but I just dont know If I could take the torture, which is what it would be for me. I know that she would really let me have it. I would really let her have it too, but she was extremely open to the idea, while I am not. She has long fingernails and she knows that just touching my sides/ribs/underarms ever so slightly makes my laugh and jerk away. I am really not sure if being in a position where I cannot move my arms down at all is something that I can take. If any of you guys were in my place, and the thought of being tickle tortured was too much for you, what would you do? Is being tortured worth it if I get to do the torturing after?

 

[nessonite1]

Never close yourself off from new experiences. If you're wary of being too vulnerable use a safeword. And you could try a less intimidating position. Please just give it a shot. You don't have anything (much!) to lose. 🙂 Count yourself lucky that you have someone else of our ilk to even try it with 😀

 

[-Kunoke-]

Hell, I say go for it. You never know, it could turn out feeling great! You'll notice in my "preference" that I'm a lee in the right mood? Well if I had just tickled a girl senseless, it's the perfect mood, and I'd also do it because it would make her happy. Like Ness said, just use a safeword if you're that worried.

 

[Dude'sonfire]

Jared, dude, i just have one thing to say to you: DONT BE SUCH A WIMP!!! Are you really just gonna let this girl outdo you?! Have you no pride man?!!? GUH!!!!
... 😉 😛

 

[-Kunoke-]

Jared, dude, i just have one thing to say to you: DONT BE SUCH A WIMP!!! Are you really just gonna let this girl outdo you?! Have you no pride man?!!? GUH!!!!
... 😉 😛

Well I didn't want to be rude, but I agree, I'd do ANYTHING to get the chance of doing that. 😛

 

[drizzay01]

If you really love her, it's not even a matter of pride. If she wants to do it to you, and you love her, you should let her. Especially if she'll let you do it back.

Maybe you should do something like...only let her tickle you for three minutes, see how bad it is...

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

the hollywood brother tell you to go for it. did rocky back down from apollo creed? Did the hollywood brother back down form anyone? The hollywood brother point here is for you to just do it and have fun.

 

[Camel26]

My ler, my girlfriend, hates to be tickled. HATES IT...unless it's very light tickling--fingertips barely touching her skin. So when she said she was ready to tie me up, she let me tie her up, too...only for a short amount of time, and I wasn't allowed to tickle her hard...just enough to make her squirm and moan and giggle a little...but even though she hates being tickled, she was ok with that experience, maybe even enjoyed it. We had a safeword, and when she was done, I got tied up and tickled for a while...I understand your concerns--I happen to be quite ticklish myself--but give it a shot. If you trust her to stop when you say the pre-established safeword, then there's no problem. If you don't trust her...well, then there's a problem, and I can't recommend doing it. There HAS to be trust in order to be put in such a compromising position. Let us know what you decide and how it turns out!!! Good luck!! And congrats on your girlfriend having similar interests!!! Ya lucky bum!!! 😛

 

[Dude'sonfire]

Hmm... 11 exclamation marks in four sentences... not bad! lol 😛

 

[Camel26]

Jared--I feel as though a good idea would be to have us tie Dude'sOnFire up and tickle him, as a method of making you more comfortable with the idea...plus he deserves it!!! Whatcha think? 😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛

 

[Kalamos]

Mmm...

Been there, done that.

Let her tickle you before you do the same, so she won't know what you have in store for her. 😉

Maybe avoid bondage for the first few times... It takes trust and all; maybe times are not ripe yet for that.

 

[Anti-Social]

I like both, so I was the lee for a good year before my ex would let me tickle her, as we built up trust. She quite enjoyed it when she finally did it, although perhaps not quite as much as me 😉

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

I'm In The Desert, But I Don't Know About This Cold Water Thing...

Hell, Dude, The Sheets Probably Need Washing Anyway. Go For It. You Have Scored The Holy Grail Of Tail. You Can Use My Safeword, "lonely". I Hope You Two Enjoy The Tickling As A New Way To Explore, Expand(duh!) And Enjoy Your Relationship. Color Gt Green With Envy( Except For Those Two Tiny Blue Spots........) Lol!

 

[Kylrad]

A perfect opportunity! Do not hesitate to try! Since your gf is a tickle-fetishist as well you're both going to have lots of fun. I would never have got my girlfriend into tickling-bondage if I hadn't been the first to go. And the only thing I regret is... that she's too merciful as the tickler 😀 after I tried being the lee I took to it so much that for a while I prefered being tickled to tickling. Since your gf is a tickle-fetishist she should understand your needs well so she won't tickle the hell out of you as long as you don't agree to take the next step 🙂 however from my own experience I must tell you: don't go without bondage. It may not be very strict but you musn't protect yourself from the sensation. I'm telling you, it ruins all the fun, makes the tickler less focused on tickling (which doesn't actually mean she will be more merciful), makes you stressed about hurting her accidentally and removes the very attractive factor of being helpless. I suppose that even people who aren't into tickling at all could feel some arousment as they are anticipating the ler's actions being unable to move. Give it a try.

 

[Wade1]

I can understand your reservations. I've never ben tickled while tied up; I've often been tickled while pinned, outnumbered, or otherwise helpless, by friends or girlfriends in spontaneous informal outbursts of their gleeful sadism. Which means I had absolutely no control. My concern about being tied and tickled would be that I'd jump to the safeword too quickly out of panicked desperation. Or, if there was no safeword, that I'd, well, become a basket case.

That said, if I were in your shoes I'd probably go for it, albeit with apprehension. After all, I survived all those tickle-torture attacks, so how bad could it have been?

 

[Dude'sonfire]

I'm kind of claughstraphobic, and i hate being tied up, but i let girlfriends do it to me anyway because i kind of see it as a matter of pride lol. I hate feeling like a coward in any situation, and i feel almost that if i was too scared to do it, i would be being beaten in some way; that in some way i had let something else win. But hell, that's just me.

 

[Dude'sonfire]

Jared--I feel as though a good idea would be to have us tie Dude'sOnFire up and tickle him, as a method of making you more comfortable with the idea...plus he deserves it!!! Whatcha think? 😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛

Bring it on bihatch! 😛 😎 lol

 

[z284ca]

just my 2 cents, told my girlfriend I liked tickling, she was fine with it now it always ends up she tickles me more than I get her 🙁 no fair but It's all fun still hehe. It's worth it, you can't just be selfish if they are doing this for you then you haev to give something back.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Go for it. Yes indeeeeeeeeeed do it and yes indeeeeeeeeeeeeed it is worth it. That relatiohship has to be give and take. If you tickle torture her and she wants to do the same to you, my friend you must induldge her if you want the same in return.
Pretty simple. No rocket science here.

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I had a huge sigh of relief a few days ago because my girlfriend told me that she has a tickling fetish. Once she told me this, I was also able to let out the secret of my tickling fetish that I have been keeping locked up for such a long time from her. Neither of us have ever been tied up and tickled, nor tied anyone up and tickled them, but I asked her if she was willing to let me tie her spread eagle to the bed and tickle her, and with almost no convincing, she said yes. But, under one condition: I could do it to her if she could do it to me. I really want to tickle her because she has the kind laugh that makes you want to tickle her all day, but I just dont know If I could take the torture, which is what it would be for me. I know that she would really let me have it. I would really let her have it too, but she was extremely open to the idea, while I am not. She has long fingernails and she knows that just touching my sides/ribs/underarms ever so slightly makes my laugh and jerk away. I am really not sure if being in a position where I cannot move my arms down at all is something that I can take. If any of you guys were in my place, and the thought of being tickle tortured was too much for you, what would you do? Is being tortured worth it if I get to do the torturing after?