Is "relationship" a bad word?!

[VeganTickle1]

I see so many ads here of people looking for "cyber", or "sessions" or "fun stuff".

Why doesn't anybody, anymore, say "I wish to fall in love"; "I want a relationship"? I know I am, and I know that I'd really really want to meet somebody who would want to share tickling as an erotic way of touch...

Have you lost your faith you can find it, just comforting yourself with casual things? or is it simply, that you simply, just rather that..?

 

[Canadian Ninja1]

Why would they? Tickling, in my mind, is far too generic to increase any odds of falling in love. It could happen, yes, but tickling can be enjoyed by just about anyone. You find just about every step of life here, and for that reason it gets difficult to narrow it down to a more specific type of person.

 

[maniactickler38]

Variety is the spice of life.

 

[DarthGrinn]

I think love is something that grows and fosters; I can't see myself ever saying "I want to fall in love" because it's something that tends to develop with time.

So who knows; maybe a "fun stuff" session might turn into 3, and that may turn into 10 sessions and before you know it *poof* you're in love...

 

[VeganTickle1]

Ok..

I understand how writing the very words may be "far fetching". Yet, putting the phrasing aside, there is a matter of intensions that is convayed, I think.

When somebody writes about how they look for somebody for "sessions", it makes the tickling the center of the whole interaction. It is true that something serious could come out of it, but the chances that would happen are not very different than the chances something serious evolves from a "regular" one night stand.


I feel, that if a "no strings attached kinda tickling session" is what a person looks for - then it is of course legitimate, and fair, and it is exactly what he or she should write. but what I cannot understand is why people who do not want "sessions" but do want a relationship don't seem to post here!

 

[DarthGrinn]

*shrugs* your guess is as good as mine. Personally, I'd find it hard to look for anything serious online; I'm not the online dating type, heck I don't even cyber...

I can make tons of online friends though, but I don't ever expect anything romantic to come out of my relationships with my lady friends. But then again, life has a way of surprising, so what might start out one way could lead to something unintended.

 

[tk0]

It would be extremely hard to find somebody over the internet that likes tickling and likes you for romantic reasons.

 

[DarthGrinn]

Not any harder than finding somebody over the internet that likes fine cuisine and long walks on the beach 😛

But sometiems you do get lucky...