The_Crusader
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So, first off let me start by saying that this may or may not turn into a rant of epic proportions. Thou hast been warn-ed.
Now then, to business. So, I have several friends, who are constantly coming to me with their problems. I have no issue being there for my friends but this is getting ridiculous. One friend in particular is butting heads with her boyfriend every other damned day, and then comes to me to ask what to do! How should I know?! I am not Dr. Phil people! I do not have nearly as little hair or as awesome a moustache as him. Its like, look, I can only do so much. Another friend, comes to me for advice...Never takes my advice, and then wonders what went wrong. Now I apologise if I'm coming off egotistical here, but I regard myself as an intelligent human being able to see these things from an objective perspective, but I feel I must be a bit selfish towards my friends at this point because I am at the end of my rope with this ridiculous banter! I personally do not see the point in asking a trusted comrade for advice if I don't intend to take it or at the very least, ATTEMPT their idea. But to do the exact opposite? Come on. Now I don't fancy that I can, or have any right to, make choices for people, it just irritates me that A) they don't really listen anyway and B) don't think about how all this stress makes ME feel. I don't get paid NEARLY enough to be everybodys therapist.
My question to you, dear friends, obvious though the answer may be is; What in God's good name do I do? tell 'em to bugger off and take myself a vacation? or keep going crazy?
Now then, to business. So, I have several friends, who are constantly coming to me with their problems. I have no issue being there for my friends but this is getting ridiculous. One friend in particular is butting heads with her boyfriend every other damned day, and then comes to me to ask what to do! How should I know?! I am not Dr. Phil people! I do not have nearly as little hair or as awesome a moustache as him. Its like, look, I can only do so much. Another friend, comes to me for advice...Never takes my advice, and then wonders what went wrong. Now I apologise if I'm coming off egotistical here, but I regard myself as an intelligent human being able to see these things from an objective perspective, but I feel I must be a bit selfish towards my friends at this point because I am at the end of my rope with this ridiculous banter! I personally do not see the point in asking a trusted comrade for advice if I don't intend to take it or at the very least, ATTEMPT their idea. But to do the exact opposite? Come on. Now I don't fancy that I can, or have any right to, make choices for people, it just irritates me that A) they don't really listen anyway and B) don't think about how all this stress makes ME feel. I don't get paid NEARLY enough to be everybodys therapist.
My question to you, dear friends, obvious though the answer may be is; What in God's good name do I do? tell 'em to bugger off and take myself a vacation? or keep going crazy?