daddy.....
(first off, I love ur screen name...lol)....I love ur question of whether or not ticklishness is genetic....I have a few points to make about this...First, I am going to make the distinction between "being ticklish" and "wanting to be tickled"....primarily because some of u have included references in ur posts pertaining to both...and I would like to address them both because I feel they are derivative of differing origins....(I also have a personal interest in both...real personal..lol)
First, I will say it is my understanding that levels of "ticklishness" are indeed genetic in that the tactile function (or dysfunction) of children has been scientifically linked to one or both parents that have a similar dysfunction....if memory serves , I believe there have been many studies done and that scientific data exists to support humans being genetically predisposed to levels of tactile sensitivity.....
..thereby typically placing everyone on a spectrum of tactile function (or dysfunction) ...the extremes being hypo-sensitive and the hyper-sensitive....to the point of being repulsed by touch to craving deep and frequent touch....
I feel that "wanting to / liking to" be tickled is not genetic, it is environmental in that....regardless of whether u are born with a genetic predisposition to be ticklish or not...I feel it is your personal experiences with and exposure to being tickled that determines whether or not you "like it, dislike it, tolerate it, hate it )
the way u perceive being tickled...the comfort level with which u respond to it...has more to do with the way it has been introduced to u than whether or not ur parent is ticklish . That said, the level of trust u have with the person who tickled/tickles u....would be strongly influential in your emotional responsiveness to being tickled as well.....I could go on about this subject forever...I am fascinated by it... my daughter and I are cases in point of the above mentioned....cliffnote version...my father has a strong tickling fetish...he has tickled me like mad (very severely, albeit with much love and affection and playfulness) since birth.,..(I am not unconvinced that this is an illogical conclusion for me to make...lol)....I also have always had abnormal sensory reactions to things in my environment...I have always craved touch...tickling being a major form of it....and I was very lucky, my dad obliged...so he and I had a good thing going (no there was no incest)...he loved and loves to tickle...I crave/craved being tickled....having a close loving relationship with him I always associated being tickled by men as a sign of affection.....needless to say , on that same note...when tickling is void in a relationship , I feel extremely unfulfilled....emotionally and physically...on a different note...my 10 year old daughter has many sensory issues as well....she is also extremely ticklish and craves deep touch...I, being tickle deprived after leaving my dads home...*sniffle*...tickled my daughter from the time she was an infant and she loves and craves being tickled today as much as I do.....(funny how ticklees naturally tickle to "get" tickled back...rarrr...lol)...because of my daughters sensory needs, and her experience with being tickled with love and trust...she has a positive response to tickling and being tickled...if ur wondering...yes, I am in the midst of an informal study....soon to be formalized, I hope...lol...(sorry this was so long but I am fascinated by the origins of tickling as I guess at least some of u are or u wouldn't have created this thread and responded to it
🙂 ***btw, daddy, are u by chance the "daddy" of "diva and daddy???*** if u are, it's a good thing, if ur not, well, that's a good thing too I suppose...lol...anyway....just curious
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byeeeee...
~ticklemmmeeeeeee
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