Another method, considering your new to the forum, is to take time going through the many threads in the various sections. There seems to be a near constant influx of new members, and there are a lot of these kinds of questions that keep getting asked over and over again. Where do I find a lee? Who is your favorite celebrity to tickle? Which do you prefer, nylons or bare, to sight a few.
Take a stroll though our neighborhood, and all sorts of strange wonders will reveal themselves to you.
As for your question, you'll find there's a number of people here who live the life, some occasionally, others not at all but dream about it a lot, and still others who cry they can't experience it for some reason or another. It's all out there.