Kissing and Tickling

[Nonynony]

So I'm currently a virgin and while I have gotten some tickling action from my EX, I consider my self a novice in sex and tickling :blush. With that said, I want to become a passionate love, putting my lovers needs before my own when I can.

So I wanted to know how many people mix tickling with kissing? And more importantly.. Do any of you ladies (well, even if i'm not interested guys as well) on the board like/love that idea? It's as simple as it sounds. While enjoying a tickle attack you would be subjugated to kisses as well as tickles. I hope this would show that your not just a tickle toy but someone I have passion for.

If that wouldn't work.. could you tell me what would? I'm not just interested in being a passionate tickler but a good lover in general so please tell me what you can on the topic in general

 

[Ticklish&InLove]

First of all, I think this is a very sweet post and that you are equally so for caring so much about your girlfriend's satisfaction as well as your own.

Yes, tickling and kissing can go together in many different ways:


1.) use your kisses as an added tickling sensation by making them light and brushing your lips lightly against her skin. If you want to begin with tickling and work your way to more intimacy, it is also fun to use these types if kisses as a segway between playful tickling and more physical intimacy.

2.) tickle ruthlessly while kissing deeply and let her laughter go into your mouth. This sounds a little strange, but when my husband does this he will even use his tongue to tickle mine...it becomes quite fun and playful.

3.) mix the two in a playful "tickle attack" and let it go both ways in a kind of tickle-fight/wrestling match...but only do this if your relationship is already playful in a way where it would be a natural extension of your time together.

4.) Sensually- this is more when tickling is less full laughter inducing and more about tantalizing the skin - once you've traced your fingertips or bails across erogenous zones ( an easy place to begin is behind joints and along the neck), follow the sensations you've caused by kissing gently where the excited nerves linger.

I hope this helps!

 

[Qeust24]

I am in the same boat as you nonynony and am glad you started this I'll be eager to see the response
My very little experience would be with my ex who I would playfully tickle as we kissed, making it random and sporadic so she'd be on her toes we both seemed to enjoy it

Good luck friend! Hope I was some help and thanks again for starting this!

 

[dalekfire]

My fiance HATES (in an annoyed, bad sort of way) it when try to kiss her while I'm tickling. Tickling, then kissing? Romantic. Kissing, then tickling? Flirty. Kissing AND tickling?? Goddamn bastard.

As such, I don't do it in consideration of what's become a big pet peeve of hers. But once I've got her strapped to a bed, she's got no say in it. 😉

Heh, kidding of course. xP I figure that people react differently when it comes to kissing and tickling in the many combinations. Some requires that kiss to be pure and enjoyable. But hey, if it works for your girl or guy, then flirt away! :super_hap

 

[anon0117]

Absolutely. The most important aspect of being a great lover is listening to your partner, and figuring out the intricacies of what gets them going. I commend you for being concerned with your partner's needs as well as your own. You'd be surprised as to how rare that is. Always remain focused on the happiness of your partner, and you will be equally happy.

More specifically, as far as tickling and kissing is concerned, it is both enjoyable and useful. I know many women who get turned on by it with a variety of combinations, the key is to figure out what they like.
My girlfriend and I both love bondage. She likes being dominated and I like dominating, so it works. 😉 I love tickling her, and the two methods I use most often are as follows:

Being much stronger than her, I hold her arms down above her head and gracefully kiss all up and down her sides and stomach. My facial hair lightly tickles her, and though she flirtatiously protests I know she loves it. I often work my way down from her navel and that leads to... Other areas. Lol so it makes a great transition between flirty foreplay and the next step.

The second thing I do is the passionate kissing/side tickling that Ticklish&InLove mentioned. I absolutely love doing that, and having your partner laugh into your mouth and struggle a bit while you kiss is just fantastic.

Again, it's largely up to personal preference, but overall yes. Tickling and kissing is very flirtatious, makes a great transition, and can be highly enjoyable for both people.