LACK of privacy a turn-on?

[strtbottomjim]

Sunday night, I was in heaven 😛. You can read about it here:

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=11130

Is anybody else attracted to doing tickle-play with as many other kinkypeople around as possible? In my case, it's both extra fun, and extra safety, as being tied/controlled in a 'ler's private space would require a whole lot of trust on my part, but in a public play space all fear just evaporates.

Anybody else see things my way?

 

[mysterytic]

Different tastes

Actually for me a lack of privacy is a turn off. I can write about it, share my experiences with others of the same persuasion, but I just cannot tickle when others are present. To me it is too private. Just different tastes on the tickling buffet, I guess.

 

[dvnc]

That's exhibitionism, strtbottomjim. It's the reason that nightclubs do such strong business. Some folks dig having others see them show themselves.

Not all of them are kind enough to share, as you are, though. 😉

 

[strtbottomjim]

I realize that 🙂. But when we're talking about being tied up and helpless, public scene spaces with professional monitoring ("dungeonmasters" or whatever) would seem one HELL of a lot safer in reality?

So even if one wasn't an exhibitionist, it might be practical for some situations (as in, how well do you know the 'ler?) to try and overcome modesty, incorporating the shyness into the "'lee experience" in exchange for safety?

 

[dvnc]

Most 'lees are overcoming shyness just to show up, whether to a one-on-one meet or a gathering. Public showings are a hard limit for many, but as you play, out in "public" at a club, so may others. Likely, more will realize that the Power Exchange goes out of their way to make sure that each scene is handled well.

The rest, then, is up to the 'lee in question.

 

[QBWeaver]

I know for me public play is pretty intimidating. Meeting for a one on one is scary but ok. But reacting to tickling in a public setting to me is embarrassing.

We have regular monthly gatherings and I'll do just about anything to get out of doing a scene. It's a double-edged sword though because although I retreat from it, I also want it. I want the panic and the bondage. It's what all my fantasies are made of. I could NEVER lie still anticipating someone would come up to tickle me. I've accidently hurt guys who have tried that so with me bondage is a must.

Plus... the turn-on part of the scene just doesn't generally happen for me in a group scene. Don't get me wrong... it's great fun. But my brain turns off the "turned-on" part in a group.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Either scenario is fine with me. Whether it be one on one or with an audience!

The latter is exciting seeing the faces of all watching the scene.
Everyone usually having the same playfully evil smiles on their faces!



It's a wonerful thing!😀 😉


TTD

 

[dvnc]

Yeah, but you're one of a special type of 'lee, sir - the everlasting variety. There's a handful or so of such as you, that go and go, mindless of the environment, diggin' the play.

The only major difference is that you're the only one, thus far, that reverse things within seconds of being untied. 😉

You, my friend, are unique. In your case, this is a positive thing, too.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Yeah, but you're one of a special type of 'lee, sir - the everlasting variety. There's a handful or so of such as you, that go and go, mindless of the environment, diggin' the play.

The only major difference is that you're the only one, thus far, that reverse things within seconds of being untied. 😉

You, my friend, are unique. In your case, this is a positive thing, too.

Why Thank you sir, from YOU my brother, that is one of the kindest and one of the BEST compliments I have had in ions!


TTD😉 😀

 

[shy girl]

in regards to the previous post

hey babes , I could watch you 24/7!!!!!!!!

 

[TickledToDeath]

Re: in regards to the previous post

hey babes , I could watch you 24/7!!!!!!!!

LMAO! I bet you could, my love and owner of my heart.
You would probably be the one cheering the loudest from the front row too😛 , before charging the "stage" and joining in!
However, my sweet, turnabout is fair play and will happen just as fast as it did up in Albany!😛 😉 😀


I love you shygirl.



TTD