Ladies, a question

[ticklebug101]

Hey gang it's me again. Y'all are soooooo lucky :stickout
Anywho, I was reading a fanfic the other day. There's 2 guys that the girl has to choose between. The first guy she has a crush on is great, he's really sweet, always there for her, he's a gentleman. The second guy is the complete oppisite. Rude, thoughtless and really arrogant. She dates the 2nd guy to make the first jealous, initialy. But as much as she wants to hate him, there's something irresistible she finds about him and she ends up with the arrogant guy. So my question to the ladies, (maybe some of the guys,) is has anyone ever found someone so arrogant you wanna punch him in the face, irresistible? Opinions and feedback and stuff, as always, is appriciated. Thanks,
Bug 🙂

 

[hazelf1]

Hello Bug

I can't answer this in a sentence because life isn't that simple.
My exhusband was like the first guy till he hit the drink, then he would become the second guy, at least to other women who saw the little boy lost aspect in him, and his charm.

So i had the shit and they had the danger man, the adventure, and the fasination.

He lost jobs, homes was a waster in every sense, my dad who was alive then, was for ever bailing him out.

It was the rows and fights that helped my dad to an early grave, to this day women still chase my ex.

Now getting back on track one of my life long friends has just moved in with a older guy and what a guy he is.

He combines the both classes you mention in one, he is big very big, looks easy going and appears harmless,but is a loose canon and does crazy things.

Being semi retired he seems to be into everything, apparently he was high flier and now constantly looks for challenges, and undertakes dangerous things for charity.

He is not for me but he fasenates me to hell and gone, the mere presence when he walks into a room has to be seen to be belived, he stops the room dead, there isn't much in our area he dosn't own, he appears calm and nice, but is short fused and was a marine commando or something so people tend to be careful.

A real jekell and hide type guy, my friend is straight 36 and he is something like about 61 but looks younger and does everything she tells him to do, and he is so sweet.

I only go home weekends and about a month ago my friend picked me up from the station and dropped me off at the end of the village, and i saw big alan come out of a shop dragging quite a big guy out of the shop and then dangled this guy by his ankles over the sea wall, i quickly went in doors and watched the police come and all the fuss.

Apparently this guy was caught by the elderly lady shop owner (recently widowed ) with his hands in the till as big al walked in.

Sue says he so exciting crazy yet gentle and kind and she is in love with him.

Iam fasinated but no i like the quiet life.

 

[ticklebug101]

Thanks Hazel, your post, as always was interesting to read 🙂

 

[hazelf1]

Thanks Hazel, your post, as always was interesting to read 🙂

Thanks for the nice comments glad your ok with it, i try and relate and keep things relivent but sometimes go astray.🙂

 

[Pat_the_Baker]

I only go home weekends and about a month ago my friend picked me up from the station and dropped me off at the end of the village, and i saw big alan come out of a shop dragging quite a big guy out of the shop and then dangled this guy by his ankles over the sea wall, i quickly went in doors and watched the police come and all the fuss.

Apparently this guy was caught by the elderly lady shop owner (recently widowed ) with his hands in the till as big al walked in.

He was trying to kill a man by throwing him of a bridge into the sea just because he shopped lifted? Okay, this "big Alan" has issues. If I were a police man, I'd have arrested him for vigilantism.

 

[Bator]

I wouldn,t have, I,d have said "need any help throwing him in", just imagine, robbing an old lady. He,s lucky that he got off with just being frightened, maybe he will put more thought into it before doing it again.

 

[hazelf1]

He was trying to kill a man by throwing him of a bridge into the sea just because he shopped lifted? Okay, this "big Alan" has issues. If I were a police man, I'd have arrested him for vigilantism.

He wasn't trying to throw him off a bridge, or kill him he was holding him by the ankles and teaching him a lesson, he could have killed him easy i mean come on ex marine commando of that age must have seen action. The stuff he does for charity and people local runs in to thousands so he is a good guy.

 

[melanie2]

Hey gang it's me again. Y'all are soooooo lucky :stickout
Anywho, I was reading a fanfic the other day. There's 2 guys that the girl has to choose between. The first guy she has a crush on is great, he's really sweet, always there for her, he's a gentleman. The second guy is the complete oppisite. Rude, thoughtless and really arrogant. She dates the 2nd guy to make the first jealous, initialy. But as much as she wants to hate him, there's something irresistible she finds about him and she ends up with the arrogant guy. So my question to the ladies, (maybe some of the guys,) is has anyone ever found someone so arrogant you wanna punch him in the face, irresistible? Opinions and feedback and stuff, as always, is appriciated. Thanks,
Bug 🙂

yes.. i think it's like that old saying..good girls like bad guys..but do they wish to spend the rest of their lives with that guy? hmm no..

 

[ticklebug101]

Thanks Izzles *hugs*