Last call for female lee’s in Massachusetts

[CageTigerShark]

Hey everyone.

I’m a 31 year old switch (mostly dominant) located between Boston and Plymouth MA. I’d like to meet a female lee or switch in my area, near my age (24-32). I have been contacted by a few of you, and I’ve reached out to many more, but it’s now undeniably clear that NONE of you are serious about meeting in real life, and I don’t think that’s fair.

You’ll meet other random guys from here. Why not me?

I went to one gathering in this community, and while it was not a bad experience, I was disappointed.

I hate to sound like a negative prick, but I’m not looking for pen-pals or people who pretend to be my friend. I want someone to meet up with and tickle, and be tickled by. That’s the only reason I am on this site.

Please do not contact me unless you’re willing to meet and be tickled in person. People meet others from the internet all the time... it is NOT a big deal. People do this every day and I really don’t appreciate having my time wasted.

If you want it... come get it. I am here and I’ve done this many times before. We’re all here for the same reason, it’s what we like. Please don’t ghost me or reply with one-word answers for 2 weeks. Be brave and just do it.

If there’s really no one out there, then I’m setting myself free from this crap. I’ve been patient. I’ve tried being nice and friendly... and it’s not worth waiting for someone who doesn’t have the maturity to follow through. If you’re out there, and you’re open and confident, I really hope to hear from you.

 

[PhoenixWing]

I understand how you come to this conclusion

As far as meeting random guys from here, I’m really not sure that happens often at all

The nature of this stuff is different. Using online dating to meet up with somebody, you presumably know something about, for a date and a potential relationship, is different than meeting up with somebody random so that they can put their hands on you for a quick thrill.

Women have to be guarded. They receive tons of messages. Some guys also have no chill.

Let’s also be honest though. Guys have been pretending to be women on these sites for over a decade. It’s been revealed again and again. Why they insist on doing that when there are guys perfectly fine with meeting other guys, I don’t know, but they do it.

At any rate, it’s a mutual agreement. There’s no obligation because one side is ready.

There’s also no reason to depend on this site for anything. So much easier to introduce this stuff into a relationship you already have. A lot of people like this stuff. Many don’t know it.

 

[CageTigerShark]

No point in getting all worked up this site is loaded with catfish profiles which is unfortunate because this site could have potential personally I think they should be a screening process to be allowed to have a profile

Yes thank you I agree

 

[chicago]

You could see who's verified and maybe verify yourself

Good luck

 

[Stocks22]

There are enough people in MA we should do a meetup some place public. Maybe that way there is no pressure to do anything and possible lees can get a sense if they would trust anyone. We need to keep in mind, lees are put in a vulnerable situation. A meetup at a bar was tried before on here but never happened.

 

[CharlieBlade]

I was able to meet a few people in real life through this site. It’s possible, just takes a lot of effort and patience. And catfish can’t hide who they are if you video chat first!

How do I “verify” myself? Never heard of this.

 

[CageTigerShark]

I’ve met a few people from here, too. Female lee’s who had no problem with meeting up after some vetting and casual conversation. It’s the ones who are wayyyyyy too guarded or the ones who want the attention more than the actual experience that piss me off. Lol I probably sound like such a dickhead but it’s true. Like, just do it. It’s not that weird.

How do I get verified? Is that what the blue check means? I’m also considering going to NEST, I was at Albany last year and it was okay, but not worth the money I spent.

 

[CageTigerShark]

I’ve also met lee’s and partners on sites like Okcupid, Pof and Zoosk. There are lots of women out there who are open to being tickled. You will get rejected a lot but you’ll also get laid if you’re open about your intentions and what you like. I’m not some desperate horny dude, I’ve had lots of actual sessions and even a few relationships. That’s why it’s frustrating when I meet someone on here, where we both already know about this, but for some reason it’s not enough excitement to spark a meeting. Doesn’t make any sense to me

 

[chicago]

I mean, a warmer disposition would probably garner more interest but yeah, the blue check mark means a person is verified. You can get verified by messaging TMF Jeff and setting up a time to have a short (probably only a minute) Skype call.

I would imagine many people here would rather play / develop a play relationship with someone they feel comfortable with. A lot of times, just having the right kink / role / orientation is not enough. Imo that chemistry between folk who are familiar and trusting of one another makes a scene a lot better.

 

[PhoenixWing]

What exactly are they verifying? That you’re a man?

 

[chicago]

That you are who you say you are in your profile. It's just an option for folk here and I think it can be helpful

 

[CageTigerShark]

I mean, a warmer disposition would probably garner more interest but yeah, the blue check mark means a person is verified. You can get verified by messaging TMF Jeff and setting up a time to have a short (probably only a minute) Skype call.

I would imagine many people here would rather play / develop a play relationship with someone they feel comfortable with. A lot of times, just having the right kink / role / orientation is not enough. Imo that chemistry between folk who are familiar and trusting of one another makes a scene a lot better.

It’s hard when they don’t really give you a chance to begin with. Or if they get scared away by the general creepiness on here

 

[CageTigerShark]

There are enough people in MA we should do a meetup some place public. Maybe that way there is no pressure to do anything and possible lees can get a sense if they would trust anyone. We need to keep in mind, lees are put in a vulnerable situation. A meetup at a bar was tried before on here but never happened.

There’s a BDSM munch at the Village Tavern in Salem on the 2nd Tuesday of every month. Tickling does not have a big following at all, but it’s something. “North of Boston Munch” on Fetlife I think. I went this past week. It’s a real nice venue and good practice for larger events

 

[chicago]

It’s hard when they don’t really give you a chance to begin with. Or if they get scared away by the general creepiness on here

Then move on to the next one.

I promise the tone of this thread is doing you no favors.

 

[CageTigerShark]

Thinking about coming to NEST.

If you’re a female lee in the Boston area and you’re serious about meeting for sessions, hit me up!