Lee, Ler or Both

[TKForce]

In our profiles we must define ourselves as a lee, a ler or as both and I don't fit into one of those.
I'm a ticklephile to be sure but I'm a watcher, I like to watch a girl being tickled, read about a girl being tickled or look at a pic of a girl being tickled.
The idea of taking part in tickling isn't offensive to me but I'd much rather watch somebody else do the tickling.
Especially if one girl is tickling another, I wouldn't want to spoil such a wonderful moment by inserting myself into the action.

I just wonder why we can't write in what we should be defined as instead of picking one of three options.
Even in 'gender' you get to write it in but 'lee, ler or both', they have to know and it has to be one of the three. 😕
I chose ler because as I mentioned the idea of taking part in tickling isn't offensive to me but it's just not really my thing and I'd prefer a new choice.

 

[drew70]

Maybe it's just as simple as adding "neither" as a fourth choice, like so.

• Lee
• Ler
• Both
• Neither

Anyone and everyone will fall into one of those four categories.

 

[-Hari-]

this was asked recenty, i belive the conclusion was that your still a ler if even if you just like watching, as it's still the reactions that interest you even if your not causing them, as if your preference is defined by a mindset not an action. Something like that anyway 🙂

 

[His Divine Shadow]

Indeed, our Master and Commander Myriads spoke on it in this thread.