Life is easy when your a Ticklee...

[Martin2]

I am a Male Ticklee, may I add I am also 100% straight.

Is there anyone else out there who is a straight male ticklee? I just wondered since I consider myself quite a rare phenomena lol.

Anyway, as a ticklee I find getting tickled is easy. Virtually all girlfriends Ive had in the past have literally jumped with excitement at the idea of tying me up and tickling me. One girl even wanted to do it the instant I told her about it. I find a really brilliant way of getting the whole tickling concept into a relationship or even with a friend of the other sex is to talk of your belief in its power to release energy and boost health.
Talk about how you want to be tickled becuase its healthly etc, and they will probably want you to tickle them once they begin seeing it as a health thing 🙂

Personally though I tend to be very straight with my partners and even a few friends who are female. I find most females love tickling males cos they like breaking the male down physically and mentally, a power thing, and at the end of the day, let them tickle you, and then getting them to allow you to tickle them back is the most natural thing in the world 🙂 They cant say no, its only fair.

 

[Fiend1]

I gotta agree with you there. I am also a Male ticklee (well I'm willing to do both, but I prefer being tickled) and I am also 100% straight.

As far as I'm concerned, willing to be on the recieving end doesn't make you any less of a man. Hell if you think about it, plenty of men are into being dominated in a variety of ways, and I bet most of them are 100% straight.

 

[ericr]

I am an older straight married guy who is also a ticklee. My wife tickles me intensely when we have private time. I cannot help laughing loudly. She sneaks in little tickles the rest of the time. I suspect that there are a lot more of us straight male ticklees than you may think. They just don't talk about it.

 

[caden1]

Not so easy...

Hey all,

It's not as easy as you think if you don't live in one of the big cities. Seems like not too many folk in this area are interested in that sort of thing. Whatever happened to the gatherings in Oregon, anyway? Looks like they kinda fizzled.

 

[blktk75]

It's true!

I live in Italy and I'm a male both tickler and ticklee (50% and 50%), and I always find a way when I want to be tickled by a girl; I think that girls like very much to tickle guys, more than be tickled. Now I have a girlfriend that knows and enjoys my fetishes for tickling and nyloned feet, and she's a 'ler and a 'lee too. I'm very lucky, and I hope every of you will have my fortune.

 

[Exile1]

My Two Cents Worth...

Well since so many other people have already jumped on the bandwagon before I even noticed this thread, I'll just go ahead and toss in my two-cents worth.

I'm totally straight and I am definitely a ticklee. Unfortunately my well of experiences with tickling is very shallow indeed.
But that does not detract from the fact that I desire immensely
to be tickled eventually by a woman who I am in love with.

I would have to say I agree 100% with the gentleman who posted earlier about saving the more intense tickling for private
situations. I'm the same way and I would find it embarrassing
to be tickled intensely like that in a public scenario.
It has nothing to do with macho-ism. It has to do with my viewpoint on the entire topic of tickling.

Call me odd but I view tickling as a very erotic 'baring' of the ticklee to the tickler in more ways than just the obvious physical implications. I feel that if I am letting someone tickle me in an erotic fashion or a more intense way, then I am making myself
ultimately vulnerable to them and in that way showing them that I love them. So engaging in more intense tickling such as that in
public would be almost a 'tainting' of the experience, making
it less enjoyable for me. I don't speak from experience, remember,
just how I feel deeply about the topic.

I admit to being a hopeless romantic and so my thoughts on tickling/tickle-torture may seem a bit out of place or even strange
to some of the people on here who think differently, but that's how I feel.

I would have to say I seem to be one of the much smaller segment of the male tickling community who desires very much to be the ticklee. None of my wishes have come true just as yet but there's always time. 😉

 

[nstklr]

I feel quite similar. I'm a male who would rather do the tickling. However, I wouldn't mind receiving some from the right woman. I have usually had no problem in the past to get any female to tickle me. However, the opposite is a biiiiig problem. I have yet, in the last 15 years or so, been able to convince any female to let me tickle her. I've offerred equal time on me, and in some cases offerred to let them tickle me twice as long as I would tickle them, but no way was I even remotely successful in getting them to agree.

They all loved to dish it out, but that was the limit. It's been frustrating to say the least. But, ya live with it. Ya got no other choice. 8c(

 

[tkl_me_2_death]

im a male ticklee too.....and strictly straight...i dont think its that rare....and i totally agree with wat ur sayin.....unfortunately ive neva been tied and tkld, ut i get wat ur sayin bout girls loving to tkl men...my girlfriend clearly enjoys tickling me, hopefully i'll b able to take it one step further nexx time!!!!

 

[Blackstar216]

I say I'm 25% lee but that's probably because I don't get the opportunity to be tickled very often (100% straight, since everyone else is mentioning that too). A lot of it has to do with where you reside. If you're anywhere in the south/bible belt, you can pretty much forget about it, unless you're completely open about it and people around you are comfy with it. If you're in a large city, opportunities are much better because you can be more open and not worry about anything, since there are a billion other people around who either don't care or you can meet and try and play with later. In rural areas, you have to be careful who you tell.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Well I am 100% straight. 50% LER and 50% LEE. Actually I like to put it that I am 100% LER and 100% LEE. Being a Gemini, I think I can get away with that. :happy: 🙄

I have always been very forward with past girlfriends about my love for tickling and would have little problem getting them to tie me down and tickle the living hell out of me. Took alot of doing to get them to allow me to do the same to them but they all eventually did although not all of them got into being tickled.

For the most part. Any female I have told about it and gave the opportunity and or offer to tie and tickle me to their hearts content, took that opportunity and loved every second.


TTD

 

[drew70]

I have to agree with Martin. I've been a Lee since early childhood and I'm convinced we have the better part of the bargain. I've found that most women are willing to tickle a guy if the circumstances are right, but out of all the women by whom I've ever been tickled, only a couple have asked for some tickling in return, and both of them are members of the tickling community.

Most of the women by whom I've been tickled were female friends with whom I worked, many of whom were married or attached to a significant other. Most of them didn't look at it as a fetish. They just knew that Drew likes being tickled, and were happy to oblige. Sometimes it doesn't need to be any more complicated than that.

 

[Tklpro1]

nstklr

I feel quite similar. I'm a male who would rather do the tickling. However, I wouldn't mind receiving some from the right woman. I have usually had no problem in the past to get any female to tickle me. However, the opposite is a biiiiig problem. I have yet, in the last 15 years or so, been able to convince any female to let me tickle her. I've offerred equal time on me, and in some cases offerred to let them tickle me twice as long as I would tickle them, but no way was I even remotely successful in getting them to agree.

They all loved to dish it out, but that was the limit. It's been frustrating to say the least. But, ya live with it. Ya got no other choice. 8c(

Nstklr, you have more choices than you realize. You're just not playing your cards right. when you have the straight, you don't ask to trade your card to get the flush. It is true that it is more difficult to find a woman that likes to be on the recieving end. But my experience has been that there are two main times that a woman will not give you a hassle about tickling them: When you're first dating (provided there is chemistry) and, if the subject is broached and handled correctly, when you are in love.

A woman that you are first dating- especially on the first or second date- is usually wide open for playfulness because you're in the "honeymoon stage" of the romance. Everything is fun, no problems, no issues, just drunk on happiness from being with each other. In that instance, you do not ASK if you can tickle her, because she'll almost never say "Sure, go ahead!". You just do it! Again, make sure the chemistry is cool- we're not talking sexual assault here.

I have tickled almost every date I have ever had. This ties in to the psychological aspect of the tickling which was discussed. In a playful atmosphere, she will not scold you for being playful. So it's real easy to test the waters by giving her a pretty long tickle when you hug her, or if she's hot, while taking off a pullover sweatshirt, or even a tickle under the table. I'm talking more than a poke also. I've used hugs to initiate tickling that would last a good 20 or 30 seconds. Her reaction afterward will let you know if she's cool with it, mildly ok, or if she attacks you back- you have it made. I am not lying when I say that I have had long tickling sessions with dates just because I initiated and they went with it.

Finding a life partner is more difficult becaue you don't want to lead with your fetish. But you also want to be honest. I think if you introduce the tickling in a fun way and she seems ok with it, let her in on the fact that you like it early on- if she's someone you think you want to be with in the long term. She will let you know how she feels about it and you will be amazed that thee are women who like to be tickled by you, if for no other reason than the fact that it turns you on.

I'm not saying that I'm an expert on women but my experience has been that women as a rule (not as an exception, ladies) are twice as shy as men when it comes to exposing anything that can lead to rejection because of that quirk, and tickling is no exception. when I met my wife, I would have NEVER known that she would like to be tickled. To her it wasn't the main thing but when I introduced it, she told me about how when she was a little girl she used to always ask her next door neighbor's mother to tickle her feet. She didn't know why she liked it and it was like a sleeping giant that wasn't awoken until she met me. When I tickle her now, it turns her on like a lightbulb! Keep testing the waters. They are out there.

 

[Kalamos]

This is quite weird, you know? My personal experience, I mean.
I've had less troubles talking girls into letting me tickling them [and sometimes tying them too] than into tickling ME.

Prolly I haven't tried hard enough. Maybe I wasn't so keen on taking it either.

Sure, since I've always considered my tk fetish quite weird on its own, I was content with being a tk'er.

Switching roles would require much more trust and a deeper relationship - like others said - so it's been quite rarer on the whole. 😀

Reg's!

 

[sirboggle]

I am a Male Ticklee, may I add I am also 100% straight.

Is there anyone else out there who is a straight male ticklee? I just wondered since I consider myself quite a rare phenomena lol.


I solved the problem of finding a female tickler by letting guys tickle me. No, I'm straight. And yes, most of the guys who've tickled me probably weren't. My rules they have to abide by: 1) No sexual contact 2) No bondage. 3) No last names. It seems to work. If they go home and jerk off afterwards, I don't care.
Would I love to be tickled by the new girl at my bank or maybe that black female sheriff's deputy (as long as she wears her uniform!)? Well, of course. But those things probably are not going to happen. I'm ticklish no matter who's doing the tickling.
So I guess this makes me the biggest pervert here, right?

 

[nessonite1]

Not at all. Straight m/m tickling is not nearly as uncommon as you might think. There is certainly a lot more of it going on than I thought there would be. You're not peverted at all. You just have the balls to get what you want without being freaked out about what other people might think. I aplaud you!

 

[sirboggle]

Not at all. Straight m/m tickling is not nearly as uncommon as you might think. There is certainly a lot more of it going on than I thought there would be. You're not peverted at all. You just have the balls to get what you want without being freaked out about what other people might think. I aplaud you!

HeeHeeHee. You said "balls".
Thanks for the applause.

 

[Kalamos]

-> Sirboggle

There was a thread about enticing ppl INTO tk'ing you.

Many pointed out that occasional involuntary tickling could be turned into deliberate tk - it was just a matter of assessing one's odds.

Some teased their tk'er into tk'ing them more by looking defiant, while other tried to look harmless and therefore more ticklish.

It really depends on the character and nature of the tk'er, the setting and the situation. Not to mention the relationship between the 'ler and the 'lee.

I would never allow a stranger to tk me... but I could let a close female friend, if the mood was right - and payback possible. 😉 😉 😉

Thinking of it, to get what you want, often you must show you don't need it...
So, if you want to be tk'ed, you could tickle first, and then wait for sweet revenge.

It could work, especially if you are no big deal about it - as if it were only a friendly joke and nothing else. 😀

Just keep in mind, time is of the essence. 😉


My two eurocents!
Good luck!

Reg's!

 

[Martin2]

Nice to see the thread still alive!

Hi, I posted this thread quite a while back now and am pleased to see your still discussing this topic. Funnily enough someone replied to a thread I posted in early 2000 on ticklingforum.com the other day! And guess what, it was a complaint that my link for a clip "didn't work"!

I have actually evolved somewhat since I posted this thread. I put out the gauntlet so to speak and asked if there were others like me, and I am pleased to see there are. The thing is that I have now realised what many have said on these forums, that ticklee's tend to have an easy time getting what they want and this applies with male ticklees as much as females, infact I would argue it is easier for males to get tickled due to the way girls love dominating a male in such an innocent yet effective way as tickling 🙂

I've had two partners since I posted this thread. One of them was pretty up for anything, she even admitted to me when I got talking about sexual fetishes that she enjoyed being tied up by her partner and played with. I asked if that included being tickled and her response was on the lines of... "i've never thought about that"! I then told her of my ticklee fetish and the whole tickling fetish on a whole and she understood. I ended up getting tied and tickled by her on three separate occasions and each experience was highly erotic. I never mentioned it to my other, more recent partner. I felt intuitively that she wouldn't be so open minded about it. She was one of those sexually imprisoned people who considered "fetish" a dirty word. The relationship didnt last long but thats another matter.


As for being tickled by males, as others have mentioned on this post, this is something I personally would never go for. For me the whole foundations of my fetish about being a male ticklee are based on the fact a female is tickling me. The feminine energy fuses with the masculine in playful teasing and two halves merge. I also have this thing about being "at the mercy" of a female which is something I have read alot about in other forums. And when a female is tickling a tied male the male is well and truly at her mercy!

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

I am a female ticklee, I do not mind being tickled by a female, but I would not want to be tickled by a man if he is not my husband, I do not connect tickling with sex, but I do not want to have any man that close to me (except my husband). I wander what tip you can offer to make a female friend tickle just for fun (nothing else). What is the best way to trigger others to playfully tickle you just for fun?

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

Not at all. Straight m/m tickling is not nearly as uncommon as you might think. There is certainly a lot more of it going on than I thought there would be. You're not peverted at all. You just have the balls to get what you want without being freaked out about what other people might think. I aplaud you!

i agree with ness that it takes balls to have tickle encounters for guys with guys. there is a certain stigma on guys that if you touch another male, then you a sissy. i do not think it true but i tihnk since most guys see sex and tickling as the same thing that they associate tickling guys with being gay. i am not saying there anything wrong with being gay in reality but there is a evil stigma against it in america

 

[Tkpro]

i agree with ness that it takes balls to have tickle encounters for guys with guys. there is a certain stigma on guys that if you touch another male, then you a sissy. i do not think it true but i tihnk since most guys see sex and tickling as the same thing that they associate tickling guys with being gay. i am not saying there anything wrong with being gay in reality but there is a evil stigma against it in america

I believe you're right. Balls would be a requirement for M/M tickling. Otherwise it would be F/F.