Thankfully, no, ya weren't. Known you around here for a while, brother.
I'm explaining why there's so few public responses, and why a woman would post and then remove it. Once posting, there are some men who will send "wannas" with poor taste and crude content, and there really AREN'T more than a couple women in the whole community who LIKE that behavior.
If I don't mention such, others here will continue to say things like joking plans that would, if done in serious, freak a woman out. Guys would privately declare such desires.
In short, I'm *trying* to help you. We brought a gathering to your area once. Ain't like we neglect the central valley.