Simon Mills
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'ello there! Thanks for checking this out! This is the second "personal" type ad I've posted in the last two days, and the third I've posted ever, so bear with me. I'm kinda taking advantage of the whole "no cost per word" thing.
For starters... 34/M. I'm currently in Pennsylvania. I'm a switch, with a preference for 'Ler. I'm a dominant personality; pretty accommodating, but with a slight emphasis on "stubborn." I like feet. I'll tickle elsewhere, and enjoy it, but I absolutely love pretty feet, and that's always my go-to spot. I'm into giving foot worship too, not so much on receiving (either way; my focus on feet isn't so extreme when I'm the 'lee; I enjoy it as much as anything else, just not so much *more*). If that doesn't work for ya, I totally understand, but y'might as well stop reading now.
I'm looking for a friend, or friends---whatever happens, but as far as friends are concerned, the more the merrier. I've got no expectations as to what will or won't happen beyond that, kind of a "no idea what tomorrow will bring" mindset. I'm very much into role-play, preferably with a detailed plot going well beyond tickling and crossing over multiple sessions (gmail is great for keeping track of individual plots by putting each into its own "conversation"), and I don't take role-playing as being implicit of some sort of relationship. RP aside, I enjoy chatting about shared interests. I love writing, TV dramas, horror films, anything fantasy or science fiction based...
Basically, I'm a travel-minded person who's been stuck in the same small town for ten years, I haven't had a car for about six years, and there's nothing so much as a movie theater up in this hootenanny (I live somewhere where people say "hootenanny").
This is it for being social. So while I'm still stuck, I'd like to make some friends, and be as active as I can in that regard! I hope to relocate sometime in the next year or two, possibly quite far away; I have friends in California and Washington state, so anyone in Cali/Washington/Oregon/Nevada or whereverabouts (new word!) is particularly welcome.
I'll happily make/talk to male friends, but just to be clear... I'm not into tickling with men, or one-on-one role-plays with guys. I don't assume I'm going to wind up having sex with every woman who talks to me (my grand total so far is... 4, and I'm pretty good with that number, it sounds alright for a dude in his mid-30's who isn't much of a player) but I do find the subject of sex and tickling to be much easier to discuss with women. And, er, in case it wasn't obvious, I *am* looking for role-play.
To be fair, I should probably be upfront about something that's a recently-grasped concern...
I don't "expect" to ever meet anybody in person, nor do I assume it *won't* happen. I don't assume that a relationship will blossom at some point, ever. I'm not after guarantees, or promises of sex, or anything like that. As with someone met for the first time face-to-face, things work out whichever way they will. If you're someone who's got a solid standpoint either way---"So you're gonna visit me two weeks after we've spoken for the first time, right?" or conversely "I've only known you eight months, I feel funny telling you about how my day went" after telling me you're on the verge of a nervous breakdown---we're unlikely to work out well in the long term: the first is much too clingy for me, and I've already had about as much as I can tolerate of the second. I'm an easygoing, friendly guy who cares about his friends and prefers to be treated accordingly; if you'll give someone you've known in person for two weeks your phone number because you happen to be coworkers, or you'll take a guy home from a club for casual sex, but you won't share your name with me after months of talking online? We're not going to work out in the long term. I'm an understanding and accepting guy, provided you'll at least make an effort to *let* me be. Unfortunately, I do need that much. I need to be treated with the same openness to possibilities as someone you've met in person without a prior online acquaintance.
I know how that sounds. I mean it when I say "unfortunately." I'd love to be the most understanding, perceptive, and accepting guy in existence, willing to put up with every last ounce of personal quirks and previous baggage that a good friend *totally* deserves to have put up with. There are people out there who are *so* worth that, but I can't do it. Life has taught me this. Whether "for the time being, while I deal with the shit going on in my life" or simply as me being who I am, I need something a little less impersonal than that.
You'll find a few other interests of mine on my profile page, but in general, I'm trying to get used to the idea of being an open book---so if you're interested, or curious, feel free to ask me anything!
For starters... 34/M. I'm currently in Pennsylvania. I'm a switch, with a preference for 'Ler. I'm a dominant personality; pretty accommodating, but with a slight emphasis on "stubborn." I like feet. I'll tickle elsewhere, and enjoy it, but I absolutely love pretty feet, and that's always my go-to spot. I'm into giving foot worship too, not so much on receiving (either way; my focus on feet isn't so extreme when I'm the 'lee; I enjoy it as much as anything else, just not so much *more*). If that doesn't work for ya, I totally understand, but y'might as well stop reading now.
I'm looking for a friend, or friends---whatever happens, but as far as friends are concerned, the more the merrier. I've got no expectations as to what will or won't happen beyond that, kind of a "no idea what tomorrow will bring" mindset. I'm very much into role-play, preferably with a detailed plot going well beyond tickling and crossing over multiple sessions (gmail is great for keeping track of individual plots by putting each into its own "conversation"), and I don't take role-playing as being implicit of some sort of relationship. RP aside, I enjoy chatting about shared interests. I love writing, TV dramas, horror films, anything fantasy or science fiction based...
Basically, I'm a travel-minded person who's been stuck in the same small town for ten years, I haven't had a car for about six years, and there's nothing so much as a movie theater up in this hootenanny (I live somewhere where people say "hootenanny").
This is it for being social. So while I'm still stuck, I'd like to make some friends, and be as active as I can in that regard! I hope to relocate sometime in the next year or two, possibly quite far away; I have friends in California and Washington state, so anyone in Cali/Washington/Oregon/Nevada or whereverabouts (new word!) is particularly welcome.
I'll happily make/talk to male friends, but just to be clear... I'm not into tickling with men, or one-on-one role-plays with guys. I don't assume I'm going to wind up having sex with every woman who talks to me (my grand total so far is... 4, and I'm pretty good with that number, it sounds alright for a dude in his mid-30's who isn't much of a player) but I do find the subject of sex and tickling to be much easier to discuss with women. And, er, in case it wasn't obvious, I *am* looking for role-play.
To be fair, I should probably be upfront about something that's a recently-grasped concern...
I don't "expect" to ever meet anybody in person, nor do I assume it *won't* happen. I don't assume that a relationship will blossom at some point, ever. I'm not after guarantees, or promises of sex, or anything like that. As with someone met for the first time face-to-face, things work out whichever way they will. If you're someone who's got a solid standpoint either way---"So you're gonna visit me two weeks after we've spoken for the first time, right?" or conversely "I've only known you eight months, I feel funny telling you about how my day went" after telling me you're on the verge of a nervous breakdown---we're unlikely to work out well in the long term: the first is much too clingy for me, and I've already had about as much as I can tolerate of the second. I'm an easygoing, friendly guy who cares about his friends and prefers to be treated accordingly; if you'll give someone you've known in person for two weeks your phone number because you happen to be coworkers, or you'll take a guy home from a club for casual sex, but you won't share your name with me after months of talking online? We're not going to work out in the long term. I'm an understanding and accepting guy, provided you'll at least make an effort to *let* me be. Unfortunately, I do need that much. I need to be treated with the same openness to possibilities as someone you've met in person without a prior online acquaintance.
I know how that sounds. I mean it when I say "unfortunately." I'd love to be the most understanding, perceptive, and accepting guy in existence, willing to put up with every last ounce of personal quirks and previous baggage that a good friend *totally* deserves to have put up with. There are people out there who are *so* worth that, but I can't do it. Life has taught me this. Whether "for the time being, while I deal with the shit going on in my life" or simply as me being who I am, I need something a little less impersonal than that.
You'll find a few other interests of mine on my profile page, but in general, I'm trying to get used to the idea of being an open book---so if you're interested, or curious, feel free to ask me anything!
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