male ticklee reactions

[Wilson]

Tickling can be intense and well....that's the way most of us like it any way! I've read before that female ticklers love when their ticklee men are begging, screaming, and squirming in vain and it's a turn on for those ladies, even if the reactions are somewhat less than 'masculine'.

My question is, in general, in your humble opinions, would non-ticklephile women feel the same way about a less than masculine reaction if they were asked to do the tickling? In the grand scheme, would most women who don't view tickling like we do, be mildly or even strongly turned off by what it causes their otherwise "manly" men to react???

Talk amongst yourselves!!!!!

 

[Wilson]

hmmm, I was kinda hoping for replies but I guess this issue has been visited or revisited in the past. Carry on!

 

[terorizer]

I really think it depeds on "make up" of the woman. What I mean is, if you ask ticklephiles what it is about tickling that draws them to it, you're likely to get a variety of answers. For one person it's the fun of hearing laughter, for another it's the sensuality of the physical touching, for another it's a rush to control someone, and another it's a rush to give up control, and so on. Of course these are all things that appeal to non-ticklephiles as well. It's been my experience that some women, even if they lead a "vanilla" life, will get into reducing a man into a giggling, squirming mess, because it taps into their dominant side. Some get into it because they love the laughter and some get into it because they simply enjoy giving pleasure. Oh yeah, your question! LOL I guess some would get turned off by it, and some wouldn't.

 

[MistressValerie]

I am turned on by the fact that my 'lee is experiencing pleasure, regardless of how he expresses it (laughter, smiling, moaning, or a visible "growing"). I also get turned on by the helplessness of the 'lee, which is by definition "unmanly"; then again, I love sensitive guys who are emotionally accessible, at least with me and in private.

Interestingly, I find that guys who like to be tickled tend to be quite secure and manly in other areas of their life. Submitting to tickling seems to help them keep their perspective; maybe it is a form of chivalry, of "self-sacrifice" to a female as one of my male trample friends likes to say.

Love,

 

[Wilson]

Thanks for the great reply Valerie. That does seem common among the ladie Ler's here. They seem to be turned on by an "out of character" ticklish ball of screaming giggles when tickling a man.

I'm wondering if this is true of women who aren't into tickling like we are. Would it be so far outside of the masculine character for them that it would be a turn off? Especially if the male lee really let loose in his reactions?

Thanks again!

 

[Havsoker]

.........I'm wondering if this is true of women who aren't into tickling like we are. Would it be so far outside of the masculine character for them that it would be a turn off? Especially if the male lee really let loose in his reactions?

Thanks again!

This is an interesting question. I am a ticklish man who enjoys tickling and being tickled. When tickled, I react as one would expect a ticklish person to react. I don't consider my reactions a threat to my masculinity.

At the risk of answering a question with a question, what is the "expected masculine" reaction to being tickled?🙂

Hav

 

[ericr]

I am wondering what people have in mind by a not so masculine reaction to tickling. What comes to my mind is the pitch of the ticklish laughter. I am a very ticklish guy and when some places are tickled my ticklish laughter is in my speaking voice which is baritone. For instance, tickling my knees results in hearty baritone belly laughter. To me, this seems like a masculine ticklish reaction. On the other hand, when I am tickled in some other places or I am tickled more intensely, the pitch of my laughter goes up into the falsetto range. I've heard some people describe this as guys laughing like a school girl, and would seem to be a not so masculine ticklish reaction. Tickling my feet makes me laugh this way. I used to be embarrassed by this higher pitch laughter but became more comfortable as I realized it is quite common for men to laugh this way and it is the only way some guys laugh. When I am tickled very intensely, my higher pitched laughing sounds like hysterical yodelling. My wife says she likes my higher pitched ticklish laughter because it is a good guage as to how successfully she is tickling me. I would be interested in other male ticklees' and female ticklers' comments about the pitch of male ticklish laughter.

 

[Wilson]

...when I am tickled in some other places or I am tickled more intensely, the pitch of my laughter goes up into the falsetto range. I've heard some people describe this as guys laughing like a school girl, and would seem to be a not so masculine ticklish reaction. Tickling my feet makes me laugh this way. I used to be embarrassed by this higher pitch laughter but became more comfortable as I realized it is quite common for men to laugh this way and it is the only way some guys laugh. When I am tickled very intensely, my higher pitched laughing sounds like hysterical yodelling.

Thanks Ericr. This is exactly what I was referring to in my original post. Sorry if I wasn't too clear to everyone about that. My main concern is opinions about how they think women who aren't into tickling would perceive this kind of laughter and reaction.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i'll jump in here

like others my laughter changes depending on where i'm being tickled. the more intense the sensations, the higher the octaves.
i've been tickled by women who weren't "one of us", and they were very pleased by my "hysterical reactions". i've yet to meet a lady who didn't grin from ear to ear when they caused me to laugh uproariously from oral sex, or intercourse. and at those times, i do indeed qiggle like a "school girl".
steve

 

[TickledToDeath]

In my opinion, I believe any woman would get a thrill and or even turned on to have a man at their mercy in such a circumstance where she just has to tickle him and turn was is normally a strong masculine male into a hysterical mass knowing,finding and exploiting such a wicked weakness.

In their Non ticklephile world, more women would be apt to love TO tickle as opposed to wanting,loving and or allowing themselves to BE tickled.

Just my nickels' worth.

(First of the year the rate increases to a Quarter...😀 😛 😉 )


TTD😎 🙄

 

[MistressValerie]

In my opinion, I believe any woman would get a thrill and or even turned on to have a man at their mercy in such a circumstance where she just has to tickle him and turn was is normally a strong masculine male into a hysterical mass knowing,finding and exploiting such a wicked weakness.

In their Non ticklephile world, more women would be apt to love TO tickle as opposed to wanting,loving and or allowing themselves to BE tickled.

Interesting observation, TTD, and very much what I have seen as well. MOST women that I know who would not consider themselves "ticklephiles" nonetheless enjoy tickling males at least sometimes, and the "unmanly" laughter is a turn-on for them as well as it is for me. It shows us the man's sensitive or vulnerable side, and that in itself is arousing.

Love and laughter,

 

[Maria_Rose]

I don't even care for males on a sexual level, but I have to confess, I love tickling guys who respond in a sensitive manner. It's just a fun thing for me, especially if he gets shy or embarrassed by his own reaction. I don't have to be straight to think that is really cute. Mind you, I also wouldn't target a macho guy in the first place...I would be more likely to tickle someone who is emotionally open and not afraid to be sensitive. The bottom line..don't be afraid to show your feelings guys, in tickling or otherwise. It's not as "feminizing" as you think.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

I don't even care for males on a sexual level, but I have to confess, I love tickling guys who respond in a sensitive manner. It's just a fun thing for me, especially if he gets shy or embarrassed by his own reaction. I don't have to be straight to think that is really cute. Mind you, I also wouldn't target a macho guy in the first place...I would be more likely to tickle someone who is emotionally open and not afraid to be sensitive. The bottom line..don't be afraid to show your feelings guys, in tickling or otherwise. It's not as "feminizing" as you think.

since when is being a "macho" guy, automaticly the antithisys of being open, and sensitive? i thought the term macho was spanish for manly, or man?
i found this statement to be highly insulting.

steve

 

[JPie1]

Interesting observation, TTD, and very much what I have seen as well. MOST women that I know who would not consider themselves "ticklephiles" nonetheless enjoy tickling males at least sometimes, and the "unmanly" laughter is a turn-on for them as well as it is for me. It shows us the man's sensitive or vulnerable side, and that in itself is arousing.

I agree 100%, I myself find a mans sensative laughing a total turn on. I love to see the man's sensative and vulnerable side. I do not find it unmanly actually quite the opposite. A sexy man is multi faceted.

JPie

 

[TickledToDeath]

I agree 100%, I myself find a mans sensative laughing a total turn on. I love to see the man's sensative and vulnerable side. I do not find it unmanly actually quite the opposite. A sexy man is multi faceted.

JPie

Good to know JPie!!! I will remember that IF and or WHEN we ever actually get together!😛 😉 😀


TTD

 

[JPie1]

I have opened up and experienced some play TTD, hopefully it will be sooner then later! Oh, and I can tickle well my friend!


JPie

 

[TickledToDeath]

I have opened up and experienced some play TTD, hopefully it will be sooner then later! Oh, and I can tickle well my friend!


JPie

Yeah Yeah sure sure😛 , You can tickle as well as your Yankees played against the Angles in the playoffs😛 😛 😛 😀


TTD

 

[JPie1]

Yeah Yeah sure sure , You can tickle as well as your Yankees played against the Angles in the playoffs

I helped break Venray! And I am so going to take care of my nails for a while!

I so owe you for such a long time, possibly longer then anyone else here. Remember all those bets you lost way back, well I feel them coming due on my next opportunity!


JPie

 

[Maria_Rose]

areenactor, I am very sorry that my comment offended you. I should have been more careful with my wording, because I really misused the term "macho". Actually, I don't at all think that maleness is the antithesis of being open and sensitive, and I am so sorry that I came off sounding that way. You're absolutely right, and I apologize sincerely for the comment.

 

[MistressValerie]

I don't even care for males on a sexual level, but I have to confess, I love tickling guys who respond in a sensitive manner. It's just a fun thing for me, especially if he gets shy or embarrassed by his own reaction. I don't have to be straight to think that is really cute.

I'm glad that you also feel that way, Maria -- I have had a lot of fun tickling guys that I am NOT sexually attracted to, because some of them have the cutest reactions 🙂 🙂 🙂 If I were to have limited myself to the very few guys that I have found sexually interesting, I would have missed out on a lot of pleasure, friendship, and laughter. Tickling platonic friends can be GREAT!

Love,

 

[Maria_Rose]

Mistress Valerie, I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. Platonic tickling is great, I would be so happy if I had a friend right now willing to do that with me. I don't think it necessarily has to be sexual, it can be so much fun without any sexuality at all. Some guys just have reactions that I love to elicit..plain and simple. But it's hard to find guys who will let you do that without expecting a sexual relationship in return.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Mistress Valerie, I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. Platonic tickling is great, I would be so happy if I had a friend right now willing to do that with me. I don't think it necessarily has to be sexual, it can be so much fun without any sexuality at all. Some guys just have reactions that I love to elicit..plain and simple. But it's hard to find guys who will let you do that without expecting a sexual relationship in return.

Us guys ARE out here who are exactly what you are looking for.
I am or would be one of them since I am in a permanant relationship.

In fact my GF would even help you!😀


TTD

 

[Maria_Rose]

TickledToDeath..sounds like fun, and sounds like you and your GF have a very secure and open relationship. It's great to see that, and I envy you. My GF would have a fit if she seen me posting these things lol. I love her to pieces but when it comes to this sort of thing she can be a little insecure.

 

[MistressValerie]

Hi, Maria Rose -- I actually think that in some cases platonic tickling is preferable to "sexual" for two reasons: first, the tickling can be enjoyed for its own sake without the distraction of jockeying for sex later, and secondly, I have found that romantic and sexual relationships tend to be much shorter-lived than platonic ones.

I had a couple of tickling partners (female) who wanted to turn the relationship with me into a sexual one. In every case, our friendship was doomed. Eventually the sex became more important to them than the tickling, whereas I just wanted tickling and a bit of cuddling. This is one of the things that killed it between me and Rachel, I believe 🙁

I would tickle a LOT more guys if I could be assured that they would not pressure me into sex. I have a monogamous relationship with a male partner, even though I would LOVE to tickle other M's and F's -- just without the sexual baggage. At the moment, I only tickle F's, because I get tired of guys playing games with me, but I must say that some of my best tickling was of male platonic friends. (Given a choice, in fact, between sex and tickling, I would honestly have to say that I prefer tickling!)

Love and platonic tickling,

 

[Maria_Rose]

I wish it weren't always so, but I also prefer tickling over sex. Sometimes after a good tickle session I am aroused and ready, but other times I am fully satisfied and really not in the mood for sex at all. Very hard to explain to a non-ticklephile. They figure it's a fetish (I'm still not so sure about that) and therefore always contributes to arousal. Mistress Valerie, I can definitely hear where you are coming from. I would do anything to have another female that I could cuddle and tickle with and not feel guilty, or as though I have cheated on my girlfriend. The truth is she lives across the ocean from me, and although I would rather die than betray her, it gets lonely with absolutely no physical (or social) contact with another person whatsoever. I see a massage therapist when I can afford it, but it's just not the same as having someone to share innocent touching with. ahhh now I'm ranting lol. Sorry about that.