Male to Male

[tickleefort]

I have a quistion to ask you all but I need for you to listen to my true story. I met this guy on the net who loved tickling as much as I did and considering I could not find a girl to tickle or to be tickled back , i got with this man. Now I am not gay and i have nothing against people who are gay, but is this ok considering that it is just tickling. We did all sorts of tickling on just of the fetish level nothing more. I ask of you what do u think of this topic.

 

[Haltickling]

Caution!

tickleefort, my advice is to exercise extreme caution for your adventure. Quite a while ago, NJJen posted some very sound advice about security precautions at your encounter with somebody (no matter which gender) you have only met on the web so far. I'll try to find it, or maybe NJJen can repost it.

 

[evilqueen]

Tickleefort, the question is, was it okay with you? That's the only thing that should matter. Asking on this forum you're going to get a lot of disapproval, so I hope you're ready for that. But - did you have fun? Did you feel better afterwards, and not so obsessed with tickling that you could think about other stuff again? 😉 I know how it goes. What happens between two consenting adults is okay by me.

Hal, I think tickleefort already had his encounter, but your advice is valuable nonetheless.

 

[Haltickling]

Sorry, EQ is right. I misunderstood it. Probably because I was distracted by the TV... 🙂

And EQ is right on the other point, too. It only matters whether the encounter was okay with you and the other man.

Anyhow, I've looked up the security thread (for all others😉):

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=3598

 

[tklr5150]

Whatever feels right, I say go for it, so long as you both know where you're coming from and there's no mixed signals. I wouldn't have a problem with it personally.

 

[tickleefort]

After it was done with I felt good. It was my first real tickling session that I have been craving for so long and I could not say enough about it. I laughed for 2 days . And I got alot of the "need to be tickled" Out of my system.

 

[Mimi]

More power to you, tickleefort! I give you credit for having the courage and maturity to put any homophobic fears aside and go for something strictly plutonic, and tons of fun, in the name of tickling. There's nothing wrong with that at all!

Mimi 🙂

 

[dodger]

I have a quistion to ask you all but I need for you to listen to my true story. I met this guy on the net who loved tickling as much as I did and considering I could not find a girl to tickle or to be tickled back , i got with this man. I ask of you what do u think of this topic.

I'm under the impression that my response here really can't (shouldn't) be deleted because you asked me what I think? I'll be kind and to the point. I think its disgusting and I truthfully think there is no way two men can meet to tie and tickle each other and not be gay, or soon to be gay. I'd also be very careful that he is not gay. You asked. I answered. I did not spew names or insults. In my opinion its disgusting and you'd be better off paying a woman for it then for free with another guy. 🙁

 

[Mimi]

If two totally straight females can get together and tickle each other, and nothing is thought of it, why is it so different with men? Just because these two got together and played, strictly plutonically, it does not mean one of them is gay, or that they both will magically become gay just because of this experience. To say it's disgusting IS insulting, and not kind at all. What he did may not agree with you, but some people also feel you must be pretty pathetic and hard up to pay a woman just to tickle her. I am sure you would not like being told that's disgusting, or that you were going to magically develop leprosy because of your experience. Next time you try to be kind, put a little more effort into it, and think before you type.

I, for one, will never understand a man's hangups about *gasp* touching another man. Your anatomy will not fall off, trust me. We women touch you all the time. If we had the same attitudes about men that you guys do, you'd never get any action. 😛😛😛😛

Mimi

 

[Shem the Penman]

To put it simply: it's the guy's body, it's his business what he does with it.

Oh, and you don't become gay by doing stuff like that.

 

[SuperTickler]

Oh, Boy, Here We Go Again!

I, for one, will never understand a man's hangups about *gasp* touching another man. Your anatomy will not fall off, trust me. We women touch you all the time. If we had the same attitudes about men that you guys do, you'd never get any action.

Well, Mimi, I would submit that the reason you don't understand a straight man's "hangups" (a word I resent, by the way, because it implies there's something wrong with ME) about intimately touching or being touched by another man is because you're NOT a straight man!

Quite frankly, I'm sick and tired of hearing the word "homophobia" being tossed like a grenade in the direction of every straight male who shuns intimate male-to-male contact. Believe it or not, there are straight men who have no desire to intimately touch or be touched by another man, and...surprise...THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT! (to paraphrase SEINFELD)

As for the fact that men touch women and are touched by women...oh, please! Could you be more disingenuous?

I'm not usually a "dodger" fan, but I see nothing wrong with his use of the word "disgusting." tickleefort asked, dodger answered. In fact, in light of dodger's past posts on the subject, I think he showed admirable restraint in his response. I get tired of the attitude that some people who post exhibit here that nobody should ever disagree with them.

As for tickleefort's question, my answer is...whatever rocks your boat. But don't post something like this here and expect everyone to say it's wonderful. Thankfully, the thought police in this country hasn't completely eliminated free and independent critical thinking.
😎

 

[evilqueen]

So let's see

Dodger was disgusted by m/m tickling. Fair enough. Tickleefort asked, Dodger replied.

Mimi was disgusted by Dodger's disgust. A little off topic, but still valid.

And SuperTickler was disgusted by Mimi's disgust of Dodger's disgust. Even more off topic, but still valid.

So now that we're all disgusted, can we just move on?😉

 

[SuperTickler]

Re: So let's see

Dodger was disgusted by m/m tickling. Fair enough. Tickleefort asked, Dodger replied.

Mimi was disgusted by Dodger's disgust. A little off topic, but still valid.

And SuperTickler was disgusted by Mimi's disgust of Dodger's disgust. Even more off topic, but still valid.

So now that we're all disgusted, can we just move on?😉

LOL! Nice one, EQ! Sounds like a re-cap of a bad soap opera! Yes, indeed, let's move on! 😎

 

[Mimi]

Just defending my quote

I, for one, will never understand a man's hangups about *gasp* touching another man. Your anatomy will not fall off, trust me. We women touch you all the time. If we had the same attitudes about men that you guys do, you'd never get any action. 😛😛😛😛

Nowhere in there did I say "intimate". I meant merely touching another man platonically. I can understand where intimate touching would create some unpleasentries. I should have been clearer on that.

Moving on.....

It's been said a million times here, and I'll say it again: To each their own. Tickleefort, I personally see nothing wrong with what you did. You got together with another male who was in the same mindframe you were, you had some platonic fun, and released some tickling stress. If both you and the other male you participated in this session with were both cool with that, then that is all that matters. What anyone else thinks should not matter. You do what you have to do to fulfill your own needs and desires.

Please do be aware that 99% of straight men would be very uncomfortable in that situation, though. And because of that, you will not get much support from the straight males in the community. You are opening yourself to some very heated differences in opinion by asking for approval on this topic. The reason for that has a lot to do with the fact that tickling, for many, is a sexual fetish. And if you are straight, participating in an activity you would normally find arousing, would be completely impossible with a member of the same sex. It's just too intimate for most folks. You were very lucky to have found another male willing to participate in such a scene.

Mimi

 

[Frink]

ROFL! EQ, u slay me!

 

[SuperTickler]

Re: Just defending my quote

...I meant merely touching another man plutonically..

By the way, the word is "platonic," after Plato, the Greek philosopher (and Sal Mineo's character in "Rebel Without A Cause," and, as we all know, Sal Mineo wasn't very "platonic," if you know what I mean and I think you do). "Plutonic" describes the relationship between Mickey Mouse's dog and Goofy.

(And, a bit off topic..but why was it that Goofy--a dog--could talk, whereas Pluto--also a dog--could not.)

Anyway, Mimi, no hard feelings. Live and let live. 😎

 

[sushi854]

I'd like to start by saying that I am a sraight male, and that tickling is very sexual in nature for me. That said, I will admit to being attracted to f/f tickling because I am attracted to females in general. M/m tickling does nothing for me because I am not attracted to males, and I would not be at all interested in participating in an m/m tickling session. Males who thoroughly enjoy f/f but are repulsed by m/m because it is "gay" often stand accused of hypocracy. The fact that women are usually more accepting of f/f tickling on this and other forums than the men are of m/m material is no doubt a societal phenomenon about which I can only hypothesize. I won't do that now because it's off-topic and I simply wanted to address this issue briefly.

The topic of this thread, of course, is to address what we think of this topic. In that case, I will say that if tickleefort received satisfaction from his encounter, then great. He should feel no shame in what took place no matter what anyone else on this forum says. If other men think they can derive satisfaction from such and encounter, then I would tell them to go for it. Furthermore, the posting of m/m material to this or any other forum does not bother me in the slightest. Personally, I would not want fans of m/m to feel unwelcome here just because their preferences are not appealing to the majority. I hope this answers the question.

 

[Dave2112]

I am utterly disgusted that disgust is discussed as often as disgust is discussed...

And Frink...doesn't Ralphie have great quotes?

😀 😀 😀

 

[CDFGA]

Howard Stern quote:

To repeat a quote from the (unfortunate) Howard Stern episode with Yaqui,: 2 men tickling each other. "Nothing could be gay-er"
Yuck!

 

[Frink]

I am utterly disgusted that disgust is discussed as often as disgust is discussed...

And Frink...doesn't Ralphie have great quotes?

😀 😀 😀

LOL... cleverly said, Dave.

and, yes, Ralphie does have some classic one-liners! 🙂 (You should add a few to the thread in the General Discussion.)

as for the topic... I say, as long as nobody's getting hurt or wronged, do whatever makes you happy. You're clearly secure in your manhood, and can separate tickling from sex. You may feel like a "pioneer" right now, but rest assured that others do/have done the same thing and/or think the same way but are likely too afraid to admit it. (Start a Yahoo club on the topic it and you might be surprised how many join and/or feel the same way you do!)