Married guys at fetish clubs

[jloon66]

You married guys ever go to a fetish club or experience your fetish with someone different just for something different? I haven't done it, but i'm curious to how many people do this...

 

[dalekfire]

Not married here (engaged), but my girl and I are wanting to do stuff like this in the near future. We're part of a local FetLife T.N.G. group (The Next Generation, a group for kinksters on the younger side of the spectrum) that hosts a vast spectrum of events, from movie-nights to specific play nights. There aren't anything specifically for tickling so far, but we're looking forward to engaging with others with bondage sessions and some other interesting play.

Though we are in a monogamous relationship, we'd find it fun to include others in our play, yet still preserve the integrity of our relationship. It's all about the communication. 🙂 It's a fantasy of ours to be tied (and tickled) together, or helping other kinksters do kinky things to each other. 😛

 

[jloon66]

Not married here (engaged), but my girl and I are wanting to do stuff like this in the near future. We're part of a local FetLife T.N.G. group (The Next Generation, a group for kinksters on the younger side of the spectrum) that hosts a vast spectrum of events, from movie-nights to specific play nights. There aren't anything specifically for tickling so far, but we're looking forward to engaging with others with bondage sessions and some other interesting play.

Though we are in a monogamous relationship, we'd find it fun to include others in our play, yet still preserve the integrity of our relationship. It's all about the communication. 🙂 It's a fantasy of ours to be tied (and tickled) together, or helping other kinksters do kinky things to each other. 😛

Sounds great Dalekfire 🙂

My girlfriend is ok with the fact that I have a foot fetish. It isn't something we talk about at all, she just knows by my actions. I'm not comfortable talking about it with anyone, even her it's a little embarrassing for me. I found this private foot fetish club downtown, I haven't been to it but I've found a website for it. I feel wrong if I do this behind her back, but i'm a little curious and my urges are strong. Just wanted to know if anyone has felt the same way I am that's all.

 

[dalekfire]

Have you ever wanted to talk with your girlfriend about it? I'd personally warn against going to the club without her knowing; if she ever found out, that might ruin any chance she might have of warming up to your fetish. If you're positive she knows about it, then the hard part is technically over - should probably work on discussing it with her further, and maybe she'd indulge you more if she's comfortable with it. 🙂

Even if she doesn't want to indulge you, if you tell her about that club, then maybe she'd be fine with you going there. Either way, you still honor your commitment to your relationship with her. Otherwise, she might see it as a form of cheating.

But that's just my personal opinion. Best of luck, whatever choice you choose!

 

[the_jimmy_james]

Try it and see...