Meeting your tickle friends in chat rooms

[j-e-l-l-o]

Anybody here that explores different chat rooms(Besides the TMF one all the time) ever meet any Guys or Girls that were into tickling just like you were or any other fetish that you might happen to be into?

Ive meet a quite a few Girls through thier msn chat rooms that were really interested in my tickling fetish and i didn't mind that i i didn't mind that a had a fetish like that at all🙂 or they either liked being tickled🙂 ive also meet Girls through thier that were cool with my other fetish for Girls stomachs/belly buttons as well. And to this very day the people that ive meet(talked on email and Chat room) we have shared a very nice friendship level but we still also share a tickling level as well or what have you. Its great i agree not as good as meeting up with Girls in real life and tickling them but im one of thoses that wont meet with anybody offline no matter how long ive know them(inless if i had a group of friends go along) then i pro would but other then that i wouldn't the risks are to Great to harm yourself. so for now i'll contiune to meet and talk with Girls online about my two fetish's im sad i know hehehe im just so shy thats ALL!

anyways bye everyone

 

[crydun]

I met one person from this forum. SmileyTkls. We talked for a year and a half before meeting and met on campus during finals week. We had a nice visit and he even managed to get my socked feet😎 Also, ticklebear2 and I are hosting NWOT July 26 and that will be a great way to meet fellow ticklephiles in a relaxed setting. shotglass8 and I are supposed to meet sometime next year. *crosses her fingers and toes anxiously awaiting the arrival of her prince from New Jersey!😀 * You should get to know someone first, definately. After that, follow your gut.

 

[BigJim]

I've met 3 people through this forum, all of whom I also chatted with on Yahoo. It took me something like 3 years to achieve that first meeting though. Getting to know someone online is just the same as doing it in real life. If you've got the patience to persevere, then it'll happen.

 

[ShadowFyre]

I have met a few people from online in real life, and I am pleased to say it was always a good experience for all involved. I took mucho time in getting to know them, and I think it helped in making the meetings more pleasant. As my fetishes are numerous, I can go into many chatrooms and make "friends" there, which is always a bonus😉

 

[TicklingDuo]

Back when I first got into chatting on AOL, I would check out all the adult and fetish related chat rooms. I generally found at least one person who was interested in talking tickles. But, I chose not to do so in the main room if there was other conversation being focused on. I just don't think it was appropriate. There were a couple of times when others saw the mention and jumped in though.

Ann

 

[Tiffany]

I've tried to find other tickle chat rooms, but when I do, there's never anyone in them. If I mention my love of tickling on OTHER fetish chat rooms, I'm usually ignored. I'm probably too shy, or scared to meet with someone offline, but have been considering attending a gathering, sometime. (Girls can tickle other girls as well as guys at them, right?) Anyhoo, j-e-l-l-o, I'll chat with ya in the room anytime you like.

 

[ShadowFyre]

Tiffany,

Nothing wrong with being a little shy. I am sure most of us were before we met anyone. It just takes a little time. I know I was shy at the beginning. Gatherings might be a good place to start for you. Tickling is not mandatory, just encouraged! 😀

 

[Phineas]

'ey ShadowFyre, always good to meet another Jerseyan. there aren't enough of us in the Forums. 😀

 

[Limeoutsider]

I met a few people on AIM, back when I was underage and not a member here, who mentioed it to me. Actually, one of those friends referred me here. The other one swears up and down he's a member, but he won't tell me his username here.

 

[TickledToDeath]

There are plenty of people who meet. Some on a regular or semi regular basis. Whether at gatherings or one on one. Gatherings are a bit better especially for first timeers since that is a safer atmosphere. Afterwards once trust is established and you have already met that person in a group, things could blossom from there to a great tickle time!
Getting over ones' shyness is the hardest step but must be taken eventually if you want to get together with someone for some great tickling times. It is a step that has to be taken eventually.
Chatting in chat rooms is a great start, yes however it is difficult to know a person behind a screen name online but at least you get something of a bead on who the person is and what they are like etc. .

Bottom line is you must take that first plunge into actually getting out there and meeting that person or persons.
Public meeting places should be the first step. Casual meets to get to know one another. Then you take if from there.

I have met plenty of folks and I consider them all friends and love every single one of them.

TTD

 

[njjen3953]

If you are considering meeting someone from a chatroom, please read.

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28478

 

[The Pianist]

Yeah, you've really gotta be careful about meeting people from the Web cause theres always gonna be the chance for it to screw up royally.

One of my oldest friends recently worked out that he was gay and the easiest way to explore this was through chat lines and the like. Unfortunately, because he's very new to the scene and quite nervous... he was very quickly used and abused by a couple of guys... which of course were not very nice experiences for him and the guys weren't exactly that nice either (surprise surprise).

Though all is not bad, recently he visited me (we live in separate states) and dragged me along to a dinner with some of the people he'd met on the net. This went really well (for him at least... it was..... odd being the only straight guy at the table) for a few reasons.

1. I was with him so he had some back up if anything went wierd.
2. One of the guys he'd met is actually a great friend of mine so I knew that he'd be alright around him.
3. Everyone had brought along a friend or partner of some sort.

Though I havn't had any proper experience myself... I'd suggest if you do meet someone... try not to do it alone, bring someone along you can escape with if things arn't what they seemed online and do it in a public place instead of at thier house or something.

I'm sure theres more things... but perhaps because of those things my friend had his first un-damaging meeting of other people.