Mmmmm. . .The Thrill Of It!

[CreamySoles]

Sometimes I like to make my Ler work a little when it comes to our fun and games. There are times when I really want him to work for the capture, the bondage, the play. So much fun to run instead of passively submitting, resisting his attempts to restrain me.

Can you pin me?

Hold me still?

Place that cuff on me as I am actively doing everything I can to get away? You see sometimes I need this; the fun, the thrill, the excitement of being made to surrender. Going passively often has its place but to feel whatever illusion of control that I have being stripped from me little by little is such a rush.

After that, sheer intensity takes over. The struggling, the resisting, the exertion of all of that precious energy and I find myself exactly where I want to be. Restrained! Helpless! In full submission mode and yearning for so much more. How outrageously sexy it all feels!

So I want to know, is it just me or do other Lees feel this way? How about you Lers? Do you love the thrill of the hunt, the chase and capture? And let us not forget the Switches, you lucky ones that enjoy embracing both sides of the coin. Do you like the chase or is resistance a futile game you love to play?


Anyone out there care to chime in?

 

[Duke Diablo]

Mm... as a switch, I can definitely say I agree with you. Having my ticklee struggling for every bit of power she has, having her defy and tease me about my tickle techniques, only makes me want to go at her more. There is a much greater sense of accomplishment if the first begs I hear are those of a girl who is broken, one who is willing to do anything to please me, when just moments ago she was being defiant and teasing, than the one who just pleaded from the start. Her teases and insults only make me go harder on her, and then, when she starts begging, it is even sweeter and easier to just ignore her pleas and give it to her even harder, make her beg for more, to see that defiant character turned into a submissive little slave.

As for being the ticklee, here I would just be seconding you. I, too, love to tease my ticklers, put up one hell of a fight as I tease them on and on about how they'll never break me, how they're amateurs, etc, which just makes them go harder and harder on me. I love it when I'm made to beg, completely conquered, broken over and over. It's just way more thrilling than begging from the very start, the power-play on the both sides... everything is just so much more intense and better.

 

[melanie2]

As usual, you have this way with words, Nicole...mmm my fantasy exactly..make them work..over power me, pin me..me struggling for all i'm worth..even though it's fruitless, the thrill of trying to fight someone as they try to pin you down, helpless...their one hand easily pinning your two tiny wrists...mmm yes..

 

[MistressValerie1]

I'm probably in the minority here, but I prefer a lee who requests tickling and eagerly submits to me, because the trust he shows is a big part of the turn-on for me :wub

 

[CreamySoles]

I'm probably in the minority here, but I prefer a lee who requests tickling and eagerly submits to me, because the trust he shows is a big part of the turn-on for me :wub

Valerie,
I'm not so sure that you're in the minority here. More often than not, as his submissive, it is my greatest joy to submit to him. I know that nothing pleases him more than for me to come to him in different and creative ways and ask him, even beg him on occasion, to tickle me.

It isn't always easy, I am extremely ticklish and it can really be both heaven and hell for me at times. Ultimately though, nothing turns me on more than being tickled. So in spite of the fact that it tickles so badly, and that I'd do anything in the world to escape it, my body reacts to it in very positive and erotic ways.

I have to say though, the endorphin rush of being chased, hunted, stalked, *happy sigh* and then the flight or fight urges kick in and the games are on!

 

[Duke Diablo]

I'm probably in the minority here, but I prefer a lee who requests tickling and eagerly submits to me, because the trust he shows is a big part of the turn-on for me :wub

Well, it depends. By being sassy, I don't mean any disrespect towards my tickler... it's just my way of motivating them to get me. Unless I really respect and trust the person, I wouldn't let them tie me up. I would let my tickler tie me up, as there would be no way a normal girl could overpower me. Also, my response to getting tied and tickled would be very positive, but I would try putting up a fight just to entertain my tickler, to make them wish to go harder at me, to drive me to the point where I have to beg for more, where I obediently submit to whatever they wish to do to me.

Also, it would be clear at all times to my tickler, through my laughter and bodily responses, as well as hidden within my words, that I'm loving each and every moment of getting owned by her, and that I love being broken and submitting. Teases are just a way to cheer on to them.

 

[TKLVR181]

Depends on my mood as lee and ler. Sometimes I'm feeling insecure about my leeishness and I just want Senshi to make me giggle while I keep my arms above my head---lets me know I'm not a freak for wanting it :blush But often enough I wanna be chased--the thrill of knowing he's after me and that he will catch up to me before too long drives me crazy, sometimes so that I can't even move to get away from him----but the thrill is amazing!!!


As a ler I think it's adorably cute when Senshi just lies out for me, and I love it---but when I'm feeling evil I like out-wrestling him and hearing his begs
~K

 

[ticklebug101]

Nicely put Karen. Being Norm's ler, I never asked him lol
should probably get round to doing that 🙂

 

[Crushertitan]

Just as the 'lees have a mood for whether or not to have a chase, I think we 'lers have something like that too. Personally, nothing turns me on more than a 'lee submitting to bondage knowing full well she's going to be laughing helplessly the moment I'm finished securing her in place. That's really my favorite place to be when I'm tickling.

Of course, there's a hell of a lot of gratification to be had if the 'lee is trying to escape. As a pretty big guy, my 'lees have been consistently smaller than I so it's just a matter of getting my hands on 'em. From there, the anticipation is a fun weapon... getting them in a grip where leverage gives them nothing and they struggle like mad as I tell the poor girl just how tormented she's going to get for trying to delay the inevitable. Normally at that point I wait until she finally submits to my whims and I bind her up and get right to it. If she's particularly feisty at that point I have no qualms with a hasty bondage and some softening up through pinned-tickling. It's delicious to know that even if they resist I can overwhelm them and remain as ready and willing as ever even as they tire themselves out trying to escape me.

I'm just glad to know there are 'lees out there who love to be overwhelmed 😉 y'all know who you are.

 

[melanie2]

well Crusher you sound perfect...😉

 

[juggernaut]

Ahem...

 

[melanie2]

Ahem...

you sound perfect also you attention hound...:stickout

 

[juggernaut]

There you go.

 

[Excess]

I actually PREFER that to someone that is just extremely submissive. Give me an actual reason, y'know?

 

[CreamySoles]

Absolutely Mel! It is wonderful, that thrill of being overpowered, completely dominated, tickled to complete submission. Thanks so much for posting 🙂

As usual, you have this way with words, Nicole...mmm my fantasy exactly..make them work..over power me, pin me..me struggling for all i'm worth..even though it's fruitless, the thrill of trying to fight someone as they try to pin you down, helpless...their one hand easily pinning your two tiny wrists...mmm yes..

 

[meteor]

Well embraceable you do have a way with words i always need a cold shower when you write, it is the thrill of the chase and the stuggle, the control and tickling to the limit,just on the limit tittering on the edge, gags spoil the pleas and screams and giggling quick were is that water, thanks for the post

 

[sadi]

For a Switcher: 😕
As a reluctant'lee, I always smartmouth and poke at my 'ler, trying to keep it going as long as I can, my adrenaline only increasing more and more with all the passing time. And I try my darndest to escape that inevitability, as being comparitively tiny to my chaser.
I figure, if they want to hear me laugh, they better be prepared to work for it. 😉 'Cause I'll try as hard as I can to switch the roles.
The VERY VERY rare times I'm submissive as a 'lee, it drives me wild having to wait and wait; not wishing to verbalize my desires. This wait only works me up all the more, infuriating me while my pride still holds my tongue.

As a 'ler, I hate to see a fully submissive 'lee. Knowing I could likely be overpowered by most/all my male 'lees, there has to be some level of submission, so I can start torturing them. :happy: But once I'm able to get them restrained either way, I WANT to see them squirm and fight! If they just lay there placantingly, accepting my attack in full submission, it's no fun really. I want to see them squirm, writhing and fighting what little they can. Fully fighting for all the girls I end up getting 😛 - and I will get you. 😉

 

[iamnothere]

I almost always feel that way.

 

[FTtickler1]

Well all I can say is....

Sometimes I like to make my Ler work a little when it comes to our fun and games. There are times when I really want him to work for the capture, the bondage, the play. So much fun to run instead of passively submitting, resisting his attempts to restrain me.

Can you pin me?

Hold me still?

Place that cuff on me as I am actively doing everything I can to get away? You see sometimes I need this; the fun, the thrill, the excitement of being made to surrender. Going passively often has its place but to feel whatever illusion of control that I have being stripped from me little by little is such a rush.

After that, sheer intensity takes over. The struggling, the resisting, the exertion of all of that precious energy and I find myself exactly where I want to be. Restrained! Helpless! In full submission mode and yearning for so much more. How outrageously sexy it all feels!

So I want to know, is it just me or do other Lees feel this way? How about you Lers? Do you love the thrill of the hunt, the chase and capture? And let us not forget the Switches, you lucky ones that enjoy embracing both sides of the coin. Do you like the chase or is resistance a futile game you love to play?


Anyone out there care to chime in?

It is great to see you back online sweetie

Adam😉

 

[kered]

The chase to me is as exciting as the actual capture. It has been a while but my SO at the time would dictate the mood by daring me to chase her when the mood struck. She enjoyed it more than I did.

 

[babinsky1]

I'm probably in the minority here, but I prefer a lee who requests tickling and eagerly submits to me, because the trust he shows is a big part of the turn-on for me :wub

...Yes exactly..I like to look at it as a session.
We have this weekly appointment see...

 

[Camel26]

Wow...this thread describes exactly what I enjoy...the struggle, the intimacy...the power struggle...

*drools profusely*

It's my favorite kind of tickling...the kind the ler earns...and so do I...😉

 

[meangry1]

I'm sorry, but the fact is, there is nothing I can stand less than coyness. Fuck the coy middle ground beating around the bush bullshit. I know exactly what you want; my hands grasping, pawing at you, tossing you down, putting the fear of God into you. Perhaps you are like most women; being picked up as if you are nothing but a package of down and roughed up in the most subtle ways makes you melt like butter. Perhaps you need to make up a lie to justify your own twisted needs; to justify them to yourself and make it seem as if you are not as sick as most would think of you as.

I don't think you are sick; I think of women with the need to run their mouth as nothing more than compensatory creatures, constantly testing and stressing the patience and abilities of the brutish sex. What they desire are not the wispy little creatures who have no spine. What they desire are not the partners who feign interest and softly worship them, make them into prized jewels.

No, to be that jewel you must forsake your own vanity and be made to feel like a possession at times. Because, deep down, there is an inborn desire to submit at times. The jewel does not wear that which owns it; the owner does.

In a world gone soft, in a world with mediocre men who are too often creatures of this idiotic coda whereby women are gentle creatures, there is a sudden erotic truth about the chase, the stalk, the hunt. And that truth? That in this exercise, there IS true equality. No allowing someone to win.

He who seizes takes all. And the king takes his queen.

 

[Smilesallthetim]

wow

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

the hollywood brother find this a interesting topic. as a ler the hollywood brother sometimes like the easy submission, but then after a while it gets too easy and too boring. having the lee put up a fight or a struggle changes things up and makes it more entertaining. also it prolongs the amount of play time by taking time to secure the lee and to capture the ticklish lee. the other fun part of putting up a fight is that it could go either way and there is always a small chance that the lee wins and becomes the ler. all the hollywood brother knows is the thrill of the chase and the hunt can be a great thing