Most girls hate being tickled

[SpongeBob1]

why do you think this is? i'd love to hear your ideas on this. Because the reason i'm asking is because i've talked to several girls online through websites online and they've given me several and different reasons as to why they hate or dislike being tickled or poked.

 

[ultimatetkster]

I as well have asked a few girls why they dislike tickling. I think some dislike it because it is somthing of a weakness. However, i find that most girls don't mind being poked or tickled. Some even flaunt their ticklishness and literally ask for a good poke... or tickle.

 

[SpongeBob1]

I as well have asked a few girls why they dislike tickling. I think some dislike it because it is somthing of a weakness. However, i find that most girls don't mind being poked or tickled. Some even flaunt their ticklishness and literally ask for a good poke... or tickle.

why would some girls see being tickled or being ticklish as a sign of weakness? i can think of far more harder things to over come and be weak about then tickling. But thats just me.

 

[alf1]

why do you think this is?

Well i never *fortunately* 🙂 found girls that do not like to be tickled.
Tickling leads in most cases to laugh of course but the important point is that it's also irritates some people - you can even say they hate it.

 

[MJM841]

My ex-girlfriend was very ticklish but absolutely HATED to be tickled. I always asked her why, but all she would say is "because it makes me mad." I think that in her case, it might have been related to bad childhood experiences while being tickled. She had once told me about her two older sisters who tickle tortured her when she was younger...

 

[SpongeBob1]

My ex-girlfriend was very ticklish but absolutely HATED to be tickled. I always asked her why, but all she would say is "because it makes me mad." I think that in her case, it might have been related to bad childhood experiences while being tickled. She had once told me about her two older sisters who tickle tortured her when she was younger...

poor thing :sad:

 

[steph]

Well as a fem lee, I love it to the point of not being able to get enough, but IMHO, not everyone is good at it, even though they think they are (LOL) It's little bit like being good in bed, yes?

XOXO

 

[jdtickler]

Yeah most girls actually hate to be tickled, one of my friends told me that she hates it cuz its kind of a annoying feeling most because of the surprise factor of tickling and the lack of control over it, and the worst thing is that some of them have really violent reactions, when i was in high school one of my friends actually punch u and kicked u if u dared to tickle her, she always reacted like that, i must say that i took my share of hits from her back then, but it worth it, she was so hot !!
Ohh and once i met this chick who couldn't stand to have her feet touched, and im not talking about just tickling, she hated to have her feet touched in any way, shit that was really ackward, it was a shame cuz she was hot too and had really nice feet, she had some kind of "feet issues" i think......

 

[g-ster1]

I think the reason is because it is simply like pain to some people...although it doesn't hurt them it does cause a feeling that causes the to react and lose controll...but thats just my opinion.

 

[SpongeBob1]

yeah there is nothing more worse off then having a girl that really hates to be tickled or poked. thats why the innocent girls are nice. The ones that tell you not to tickle them but once you do they start giggling and wiggling around telling you stop and keep tickling away all at the same time. 🙂

 

[Mjthom18]

yeah you right. i have a cousin named brianna that is really ticklish but she cant stand it. one poke or tickle on her and she goes bolistic, but i enjoy it though.

 

[andymac1]

Well, I read somewhere that people into bondage find tickling far more torturous than whipping or spanking and simply won't endure the tickling! It went on to say that the tickling was a continuous sensation which could be drawn out indefinitely, so they prefer the 'short, sharp, shock' treatment. Also, tickling has been used as a method of successful torture throughout history (mainly China and Eastern Europe), even saying people were literally tickled to death when put through it! So maybe it is the worst thing on earth to some people!

 

[jmedic20]

I've seen a number of women who were quickly tickled in social situation react with a laugh and a "hay, quit it!" kinda reaction. I can't say that I've ever heard a woman say she hates being tickled. I can see where someone might not care for being tied up and tickled, that would be/is torture.

As for women that have 'feet issues' I know a lot of women think their feet are ugly and don't like having them handled or bothered with. Not sure what the deal is there. One thing is certain though, feet are a part of women's fashion, there is no question. Between toe rings, nail art, and the summer sandals that are out there, you can't deny that displaying feet is a part of fashion. I mean come on, french tips on toe nails? When I saw that I knew feet were going mainstream.

 

[Veedubnut]

Its the sad truth! Ive known a few girls that enjoy having their feet tickled, but that is all. Ive never known a girl to be able to stand (let alone enjoy!) being tickled on any other part of the body.

And as for why it is, I dont know!

 

[SpongeBob1]

well i guess it's just safe to say from reading your guy's ideas. That we as people should only or try to only find girls that like being tickled from now on. which i know can be harder said then done sometimes. and if a girl says that she really truely hates or dislikes tickling for any given amount of time. we should respect her wishes and to stop tickling her for long periods of time and not to tickle her any further.

 

[BoundToTickle]

For years I acted like I didn't want to be tickled because I was afraid everyone would see how much I liked it. It took over a decade for me to accept it about myself and to finally tell my husband. Turns out he never knew what a good time we'd been missing and it's sparked our marriage like never before.... What I'm saying is the love of being tickled could be there in any person, hiding, waiting for a safe moment to let loose.

 

[SpongeBob1]

For years I acted like I didn't want to be tickled because I was afraid everyone would see how much I liked it. It took over a decade for me to accept it about myself and to finally tell my husband. Turns out he never knew what a good time we'd been missing and it's sparked our marriage like never before.... What I'm saying is the love of being tickled could be there in any person, hiding, waiting for a safe moment to let loose.

so true indeed. well said 🙂

 

[coloman]

I think most girls hate to be tickled because it shows they are vulnerable. How sensitive the nerves in their feet are is what makes them ticklish to one level or another and they can't control that either so that may be another reason they hate being tickled at least on their feet. Laughter is an involuntary response to being tickled and I am sure many girls don't want to let their laughter betray the fact that they are ticklish. On the other hand I have known a few girls who enjoy having their feet tickled because they say it feels good and even relaxes the. Well there's my two cents worth on the subject.

 

[andymac1]

Ogleme, I have your situation, only the other way round. I really enjoy (probably obsessed by) tickling. But, my wife hates it! I feel like my fetish has hit a brick wall and is now driving me into frenzy of frustration! I actually feel that the marriage is in danger of boring itself to death!

 

[SpongeBob1]

Ogleme, I have your situation, only the other way round. I really enjoy (probably obsessed by) tickling. But, my wife hates it! I feel like my fetish has hit a brick wall and is now driving me into frenzy of frustration! I actually feel that the marriage is in danger of boring itself to death!

why because your wife hates being tickled? thats why your getting bored with the marriage?

that is pretty sad if you ask me. But if your really that in frustartion just because your wife doesn't share your love for tickling or hates it with a passion then you could always try to find a new Lady andymac.

but just like the saying says ''till Death do us part''


hope i didn't offend you in anyway though andymac

 

[BoundToTickle]

Ogleme, I have your situation, only the other way round. I really enjoy (probably obsessed by) tickling. But, my wife hates it! I feel like my fetish has hit a brick wall and is now driving me into frenzy of frustration! I actually feel that the marriage is in danger of boring itself to death!

I feel for you. It was agonizing before I told my husband because if he didn't accept it I'd feel like a total fool and be stuck with no hope of tickling for the rest of our life together. I'd sit there wanting to say something for days, weeks, months, but the words would always get stuck in my throat....
I don't know your whole situation but have you tried to seriously tell her? Or maybe ease her into it, set up a really romantic evening away from home and explain your going to try to bring her to new heights of pleasure. Give her a really relaxing rub then use some tools that are sensuous but don't tickle too much like ribbons, feathers, fur, and see what she thinks. From there you might get further than if you just point blank told her and you may satisfy your needs just a little....

 

[blktk75]

After one year I told my g/f about my feet/nylons/tickling fetishes; it took all my courage but I had to do it because I really love her and I want to share everything with her. Her answer was "why are you telling me this only now? You should have told me before!" By then I'm one of the happier man 🙂. I think that if you've found the right woman she'll accept you like you are.

 

[jmedic20]

I don't think it's such a great idea to start off a relationship by saying, hey I love feet, I do not know why. Makes you seem kinda weird to some people and can ruin the relationship before it even starts. Let the woman get to know you first so she sees that you're a normal guy. The rest should come out in time. No one spills their guts and tells all their deepest secrets early in a relationship. Fetishes should be no different.

Of course, I am able to function outside of my fetish, not all fetishists can. I feel for those people.

 

[Raichyll1]

I think for most people, male or female, they dislike being tickled for much the same reason I love being tickled--it's all about control and the loss of it.

As far as when to tell someone about tickling in a relationship, I think it varies from person to person. I do not seek out romantic entanglements with people in general, nor am I really the kind of person people seek a relationship with. But, there is no way I'd ever actively pursue a relationship with someone who has no interest in tying me up and tickling me. This is because I tried it once, and I had a very bad experience attempting introduce it into the established relationship. It's not something I'm likely to ever attempt again.