My dilemma...

[lilharleydude]

Once again my mind seems to be constantly occupied with thoughts of tying someone down and tickling them...For example, had a meeting at work where a speaker from corporate came in. Fairly attractive brunette with a pretty nice figure, my guess is she's close to thirty. Long legs, nice smile, etc...Anyway, I, to this day, would not be able to tell you what the meeting was about because the entire time she was speaking, I was only curious what her laughter would sound like if my fingers spidered over the soles of her helpless feet. Would she beg? Would she scream? Maybe she'd enjoy the whole ordeal....
I seem to be having this dilemma everywhere I go. The barista at Starbuck's with the sensitive looking sides, the guy at the gym who's underarms look like they could use a good tickling (I'm straight, but don't mind tickling guys), even the cute college girl who likes to read at the bookstore while exposing her undoubtably ticklish feet...I am willing to bet that if I could have one good tickle session, these thoughts might suppress a little...Any takers?

 

[Rox_My_Sox1]

My advice is to stop fantasizing and actually try and meet a woman (or man) who shares your interests (including tickling) and develop a relationship. I heartily recommend relationship matching sites (just remember to be HONEST when filling out the info about you and what type of person your looking for). Also, be wary about ignoring people from corporate. Believe me, it can bite you in the buttox.

 

[lilharleydude]

Thanks Rox

I appreciate the advice. I've tried matchmaking sites, but haven't had any luck. In all honesty, I'm not obliviously open about my interest in tickling. Once I've known a girl for a while I usually make a subtle point that it's something I enjoy( I'm usually drunk when I decide to do this. ;p). I can typically avoid being awkward about it by throwing it into a random topic, Ex. "What's the most interesting thing you've done during sex, foreplay?", to which I confess "I was with a girl who liked to be tickled, ever since I've enjoyed it during foreplay." I then either carry on or avoid the topic based on how she responds. This is my typical pattern.

 

[Beckers1]

Heyyy DJ long time no see 🙂 Sorry to hear you're having a hard time dealing with your urges. I know the changing seasons doesn't help either.

But yes you are an awesome guy and very affable. Any girl (Or guy) would be lucky to have a session with you. I know that probably doesn't mean much, but trust me I would have a session with you without a moments hesitation.

 

[MaxDragon]

If you have enough money try an escort service.

 

[lilharleydude]

Thanks Beckers, that was very nice of you to say. We'll have to catch up sometime, it's been a while since we've chatted.
Max Dragon, thank you for replying, but I refuse to pay that kind of money for something as simple as tickling.

 

[MrTicklefeet1]

...but I refuse to pay that kind of money for something as simple as tickling.

For something as simple as tickling, your previous posts show it hasn't been so simple for you. Maybe laying off the alcohol for a while might help, I don't know. What I do know is after having a few experiences, the confidence level goes up, and you're not as closed up when talking with women afterwards. It's just fun, but I understand where you're coming from. I use to be there. Don't necessarily have to go for escorts, as they are kinda pricey, but finding someone who does sensual massage who's into it can reap benefits that will leave you walking around in a meditative state of bliss for days afterwards.

 

[lilharleydude]

All I'm saying is that paying fort ANY service like that seems completely unnecessary. I'm not asking to have someone tied down and tickle tortured, just a friendly tickle fight to help relieve stress. Hell, they can even tickle me back..if they are able. 😉

 

[Cosquilludo1]

Once again my mind seems to be constantly occupied with thoughts of tying someone down and tickling them...For example, had a meeting at work where a speaker from corporate came in. Fairly attractive brunette with a pretty nice figure, my guess is she's close to thirty. Long legs, nice smile, etc...Anyway, I, to this day, would not be able to tell you what the meeting was about because the entire time she was speaking, I was only curious what her laughter would sound like if my fingers spidered over the soles of her helpless feet. Would she beg? Would she scream? Maybe she'd enjoy the whole ordeal....
I am willing to bet that if I could have one good tickle session, these thoughts might suppress a little...Any takers?

Reading about this powerful distraction I inmediatly think in my adult atention deficit disorder. Just in your case it is align with your fetish. Anyway, if this is interfering with your life (ie. you can´t attend meetings) you might want to ask for profesional help.

Best of luck.

 

[Merciless11]

Loose the fantasy and find reality.
It is out there and they are out there.

MOne

 

[lilharleydude]

Cosquillodo, it hasn't affected my life to such extremes, but I appreciate your concern. Tickling is an interest, but it doesn't prevent me from moving forward in life.

Merciless1, a very powerful statement, thank you. I agree wholeheartedly, but I'm subtle in my efforts. If I find an individual who shares the interest, I intend to open up to them. However, until such a person presents themselves, I will be patient.

 

[RangerLoki]

I am willing to bet that if I could have one good tickle session, these thoughts might suppress a little

There's a very good chance they will. It's also possible to get burnt out on tickling, so a little fantasy between reality is healthy. I wouldn't worry.

 

[poliuretano1]

Well, you could try a tickling fetish chat site, that way you don't have to go through the awkwardness of mentioning your interest in tickling, so you can skip that difficult step. Some of those sites have a fair amount of members, and the majority of the users are very approachable. I've tried it and I met awesome people, I even ran into a girl who shared the same tickling interests as me. It's worth giving it a try.

 

[imirritated]

Loose it or lose it?

 

[Beckers1]

And I still say I can drink you under the table!

 

[LadyInternet]

I'd say if you're finding it getting obsessive, you might want to take a break for a few days. A week. Think about other things, focus on a hobby or something. Exercise the crap out of yourself. Then maybe come back to it with some perspective. But that's just my two cents.

And I still say I can drink you under the table!

Dude, he's starting out drunk. That is not fair at all.

 

[Beckers1]

He raised the bar both figuratively and literally

 

[lilharleydude]

My ability to hold my alcohol is a point of personal pride. Have fun, but drink responsibly everyone!

 

[Bator]

That's good advice. I live and play hard, although I don't drink, so I always end up being the designated driver. I have an aversion to alcohol anyway. I don't mind socializing with happy drinkers. If they are sad or depressed, argumentative without making sense or they are hugging me one minute and the next they become belligerent and want to fight, I'd much rather not be around them. I have another much more personal reason.

 

[lilharleydude]

I live in Las Vegas, so dealing with drunks is something I do on a daily basis. After a while you learn how to handle each specific "type" of drunk. Ignore the belligerent ones, because if they don't get attention, they move on and try elsewhere. If you acknowledge their behavior, they just get worse. I've actually had to throw a few to the ground because they felt that they had the right to grab me.
To anyone planning to visit Vegas, take this advice with a grain of salt. Enjoy your stay and have a great time, but this is also someone's home, and not your fuckin' playground.

 

[oldskool]

lol this might sound a little crude but you might want to rub one out in the morning to some good tickling videos. The refractory period will lower your sexual desire, and if the tickling is connected to sexual desire like I'd assume since you are on a tickling fetish website it should help.

It sounds like what is happening is there is something you desire strongly (tickling) but for whatever reason you aren't doing anything about it. Your mind is screaming at you. You wanted to tickle the woman at the office, did you approach her? Why not? Wanted to tickle the barista, did you approach her? Why not? It doesn't matter what it is in life, if we desire something our minds will scream at us until we achieve it, attempt and fail, or stop desiring it.

You said it's not a big deal but if you are thinking about it like you make it sound, it is a big deal to you. Did you start this post as your dilemma? You said you wouldn't pay money for it, why? You live in Vegas! You are in the perfect place to start a tickling video company. This could be a passion for you that you can really follow if you want it.

 

[lilharleydude]

The advice is appreciated, but I started this post a while back. I go through phases like that every now and then where I really want tickling in my life, but I've come to realize that it's not something I will aggressively pursue. Yes, I do like tickling, but it would be a stretch to say I have a tickle fetish. I suppose I just don't like the idea of having to reveal this interest to someone who isn't aware of, or also interested in it. I joined and continue to visit this site because we all have that interest in common. None of my friends are aware of my fondness for tickling, and that's fine by me. Perhaps I'll find someone on here one day who would be able to meet up. Until then, life goes on.

 

[Bator]

Hopefully you will meet someone who shares the same interest. Good luck to you and all the best🙂

 

[lilharleydude]

Thanks Major Tom, I hope so too!