My girlfriend Dumped me :(

[Powerhousegym04]

ya , for the stupidest reason , she said she really didnt know anything bout me , its like well shouldnt she have relized that BEFORE sayin yes to me

anyway im alittle depressed so ya

not like anybody cares

 

[lazy_tickler]

damn dude that sux. o well if she dumped you then she wasnt meant for you.
dont worry you will find someone

 

[Reaper_666]

my girlfriend dumped me 2 i know how u feel but i know were right 4 eachother

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

It seems to me neither of you were ready for the commitment of what would have been (at that point anyway) a shallow relationship. It was probably for the best that you two seperated so quickly. Maybe later, when you get to know eachother better those feelings you have will be rekindled and she'll return the sentiment. At least it would prove whether or not it was a mistake to be with her or not.

If she doesn't feel the same way you do after this lapse of time, theres plenty of people out there, and the right one will come along sooner or later. Don't you worry about it.

I'd suggesting getting to know people better before you make a commitment like this, however shallow or deep it may be.

 

[alchemy1]

Hang in there man.

I'm there with you bother. My wonderful, beautiful girlfriend of 9 months left me 3 weeks ago. Granted, we had been growing apart for a while, but I was trying to repair the relationship...we never fought...we had a wonderful friendship and a close relationship...but prehaps not close enough... My efforts failed. One day, she just stoped talking to me. She wouldn't return my calls. I hate to even think it, but i'm convinced that she simply found someone that she liked better...I guess I can't blame her all that much...I'm not exactly the most exciting or interesting person to be around...oh well...as long as she's happy I guess. I wish nothing but the best for her.

 

[masterandticklee]

Hey guy...it happens to the best of us. Figure out where you went wrong and fix them. Oh one more thing... have fun!!! The ball and chain are off so go meet tons of new women! Try new things..take up new hobbies...Dress better...workout..focus on school. And don't think about her. Some how ex g/f's know never to come back till you forget about them. So don't wait for her...just enjoy being a young man and the ladies will flock too you. This breakup should be an excuse for extreme self improvement.And the awesome thing about the hurt( I know it's another paradox) is that you now have freetime...money...passion and the energy to do things that will better your life for years to come.
GQguy
The glass of beer might be half full...but it's enough too get me fvcked up!

 

[Powerhousegym04]

ya but she was my first gf so it was sorta special

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

most guys get dumped all the time brother. just stay tough like the hollywood brother. the hollywood brother heart may break but it still beats true to the principles held true by the hollywood brother and you too will continue to function without this girl and you too will survive because that is what the hollywood brother and the millions and millions of hollywood brother fans do each and every day brother

 

[masterandticklee]

Yeah...first love is tough...It's safe oo say that you will never forget her. But it is also safe too say that your current feelings at the moment won't last. Take my advice...shake up your life a lil bit and try something new. Trust you will be a new man and better than what left you behind

 

[piano_er1]

The breakup from your first love is never easy to get over. But despite the sad feelings you have now, you will, trust me, WILL get over her.
When my first girlfriend dumped me, I was a miserable wreck, and people told me exactly the same thing. I thought they were just saying that to try and console me because EeEEeEeEeEverybody always tells you that, but it actually does happen. Granted, it took me a DAMN LONG TIME (like, 2 years, which goes painfully slow if you spend every minute of the day pining for her)to properly get over her, but it does happen eventually.

Haha, I'm not saying it'll take that long for you though, I just think I'm not as strong-willed as some people.

Benjamin Disraeli said that "The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end." That's why first relationships are always hard to move on from when or if they end. But it also makes you emotionally stronger (obviously I mean once you have gotten OVER her) and more experienced. If you were to get dumped again by your next girlfriend (AND I'M NOT SAYING YOU WILL BE!), I'm sure it won't affect you as much.

So keep your chin up; I promise you your sadness will eventually dissipate. 🙂