paradoxical question on tickling...

[lust4feet]

are there any members here who, despite their ardent passion for tickling, haven't actually engaged in a tickling session with someone? While I myself have been poked around every now and then accidently, I haven't really explored the potential and limits of my tickle spots....just wondering if anyone else here is in the same scenario, thanks again 😛

 

[Limeoutsider]

yep. 😛

 

[Battousai]

I've been lucky enough to have some good tickling memories, but I've never seriously engaged in a session with another fanatic. My time will come!!!! >_>x

 

[Ayla ny]

until less than a year ago, that was me.

I have talked to others who were in the same boat and the consensus seemed to be that they were afraid reality would never measure up to their fantasies. in a way that‘s true. if your fantasies are not realistic then they can never be realized. I still have a few that I would be better off never realizing lol but most of mine were always pretty attainable... I just couldn’t live them for ‘life stuff’ reasons.

regardless of the reasons... I hope everyone finds a way to make it real. it’s so worth it.

 

[amk714]

Have we met, lust4feet? Your description of me is right on the money! 🙁 😛 I haven't been tickled by or tickled someone in a LONG time. Must go to a gathering one of these days.... 😀

 

[bticklishfeet]

That fits me🙁 Thought I was the only one😕 I haven't had a good tickle in sooooooooo long that it isn't funny!

 

[ShiningIce]

I haven't had a good tickle in sooooooooo long that it isn't funny!

You're telling me. 🙁 🙁 🙁

 

[lust4feet]

it's especially going to be painful with Valentine's Day coming up...oh how one can only imagine the feelings petals of a rose or another flower can initiate having them stroked up and down on his/her delicate skin 🙁

 

[46and2]

Although I've had rather lengthy non-bondage experiances in the past, (man I miss those!) where the 'lee really enjoyed themselves, I've never had a formal session with anyone. I know exactly what you mean, in the way of frustration. It seems tickle fights are instigated less and less, and noone wants to play when your the instigater
It's as if the older people get the more scared of physical contact they become. Truly a human tragedy. (I know, there's the world's smallest violin and it's playing for me).

 

[TicklingDuo]

I'd be willing to be that half the community would fall into that category. For some, it's that there's truly nobody around that they can play with. For others, they haven't really looked. Still others (though thankfully few) are turned away before making RL contact because they come across in a way that makes others uncomfortable. I'm a firm believer that the best way to start out in finding people is by attending a gathering. I wouldn't say to go just for that reason. But, it's a way to meet others in the community and share experiences (good or bad) and learn from one another.

Ann

 

[venray]

I've got to agree with Ann on this one..though my wife and I used tickling (her ler me lee) when we were intimate with one another, it wasnt what one would call a tickle seesion...then we attended the first SBG last year and have "played" with many members of the community since in safe and commfortable settings...I will never forget being tied down for the first time ever by 4 women and tickled into euphoria with my wife leading the way and giving up all of my "spots"...nor will I forget the pleasures of unleashing the ler side of me as well...needless to say, we would not have had half of the experiences nor met half of the awesome people that we have if we didn't get our "feet wet" by attending our first gathering....

Ray

 

[ohsoticklish]

Hi everyone,

I'm new here, and I wasn't going to start contributing to the discussions for a while, precisely because I haven't had any tickling experiences to speak of and was a little embarrassed by this. This thread, however, gives me hope🙂
Thanks

 

[tickled_a_lot]

That descriptin fits me pretty well. I've been tickled, but never had a "session".

 

[Krokus]

Yep

I have never had a "Session" before. Never been tied and tickled. Ah well, one day..maybe. 😀 😎

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I'm with you guys

I feel like I'm reading about myself lol I've never been tickled for more than a few seconds at a time, and even then I've yet to encounter a more than mediocre tickler.

 

[ericr]

I was without ticking experiences from my late teens to my ealy thirties. As has been mentioned, adults don't touch, let alone tickle each other, much in our culture. I dated and married a wonderful girl who often tickles me casually and on several occasions has given me tickling sessions. I don't get tickled nearly as much as I would like currently because my wife does not want the kids to hear my hysterical laughter. I'm looking forward to becoming a tickled empty nester.

 

[robmic]

Paradoxical question....

This is interesting to me. Why, you say? Well, when I was as young as ~4, I tickled. I can vaugely remember recieving brief tickles, and I was definitly ticklish. I can remember never wanting to be barefoot, too. Maybe, because I had been tickled on my feet. I don't remember. I just know this. I was ticklish, and I avoided getting tickled quite sucessfully. I also loved to tickle others. I remember tying up childhood friends and tickling them silly. Why they never got me back is beyond me. As I grew up, my victims were just females, and as I reached puberty, I discovered that there was more to tickling than I realized before. Still, I avoided being the victim myself. Now, as an adult, and understanding this fetish more, I regret never being tied and throughly tickled by someone else. I've tried it in the last 10 years or so, but I must have convinced my subconcious that I'm not ticklish because, well, I'm not, really. I still wish I could be the victim of 4 or 5 expert female ticklers. I wonder if my ticklishness I had when I was a kid would come back???????

 

[Texas_Tickle]

are there any members here who, despite their ardent passion for tickling, haven't actually engaged in a tickling session with someone? While I myself have been poked around every now and then accidently, I haven't really explored the potential and limits of my tickle spots....just wondering if anyone else here is in the same scenario, thanks again 😛

I have not found too many people who were "into tickling", or if they were, they would not admit it, possibly for fear of what everybody else would think (I was in that stage myself for a while)

But last year I was so desperate for a tickling session, that I actually called around for an escort, because I could not find anybody who was willing or thought it was too "sick".

A few of the escort agencies advised me that they did not provide any extra services, other than the "vanilla" type

But as luck would have it, I did find an escort agency that advertised that fetishes were their specialty and called and a very pretty lady from Costa Rica, whow as about 20 yrs old (I also happen to have "a thing" for Hispanic ladies as well as Asian ladies) was sent over, and we had a great time, and she had the cutest laugh, and she was also very skilled in tickling, as well. But alas the last time I called, their phone was turned off, so I do not know what has happened.

Ah well.

 

[Iwantobticklish]

Re: Paradoxical question....

This is interesting to me. Why, you say? Well, when I was as young as ~4, I tickled. I can vaugely remember recieving brief tickles, and I was definitly ticklish. I can remember never wanting to be barefoot, too. Maybe, because I had been tickled on my feet. I don't remember. I just know this. I was ticklish, and I avoided getting tickled quite sucessfully. I also loved to tickle others. I remember tying up childhood friends and tickling them silly. Why they never got me back is beyond me. As I grew up, my victims were just females, and as I reached puberty, I discovered that there was more to tickling than I realized before. Still, I avoided being the victim myself. Now, as an adult, and understanding this fetish more, I regret never being tied and throughly tickled by someone else. I've tried it in the last 10 years or so, but I must have convinced my subconcious that I'm not ticklish because, well, I'm not, really. I still wish I could be the victim of 4 or 5 expert female ticklers. I wonder if my ticklishness I had when I was a kid would come back???????

This is scary. robmic you took these words right out of my brain.
I would love nothing more than to have a lady or ladies tie me down and have it really tickle like crazy. Oh to be like a child again.😀