People that talk about others who or just being themselfs

[Frost King]

What is up with people who talk about others when they are just being themselfs? now i have had a incident with a friend of mine who i have known for many years and he had been talking about me behind my back saying that i'm weird and that all i put up is weird shit on facebook because i often quote band lyrics that fit my mood or i put up my own stuff that i write. and he told a friend of mine this talking behind my back and she told me about it. but the funny thing is there is someone who i know that he doesn't get along with that often talks about him behind his back and he always asks me did he say anything about me. and i would always defend him when the other person would talk about him and now i feel stupid because i sat there and defended him and he goes and talks about me its like wtf so much for trust and it seems like the betrayal just doesn't stop i'm still healing from my former bestfriend that ditched me and betrayed me and never told me why and then this it confuses you and its made me wonder should i trust anyone anymore? but the point i was getting to is why talk about someone when there just being there self and especially when he gets mad that someone else is talking about him behind his back but then he talks about the person who always defends him. so i deleted him from my facebook and thats it with him but its like what a hypocrite. and most of my friends on there also quote lyrics or write whatever so its nothing new really and no one else has ever said anything to me about that i mean aren't i aloud to write whatever i want to? i just wanted to get everyones thoughts on this.

 

[the_jimmy_james]

Fuck Facebook.

 

[11225]

Talk about messed up..being betrayed by the person you're trying to defend....talk about fake friend you have. That actually reminds me of 'Total Drama Island" When Heather betrayed Linsey (I think that's her name) just because she wants to win and said that they're not here to make friend. Very cold.

So I know what you're talking about and how you feel. Lyrics are cool, depending on that beat and what the saying is. 🙂

 

[hazelf1]

To be honest i think a lot of social networking sites cause problems because its not face to face.

In real life its less likely to happen but does.

I hold the idea that if a person has not got the courage to say something to your face they are not worth bothering with.

Just be yourself hold your own council and to hell with what anybody says or thinks, you are you and thats it don't change to suit what some idiot thinks or does not think.

Example is school, work, you worry if buts and may be's and what ifs but when you leave does any of it matter, do you see any of them again other than may be one or two very close ones.

I'am not just saying this to you, i say it often to people in similar possitions and its my policy not 100% but close.

 

[Bator]

I was once told that your true friends could be counted on one hand, I believe that it might not take one hand. When you are sad or hurt or ill you will find out who they are.

 

[JackVanderson]

It's tough determining who really is a "friend" or not, because it's human nature to judge others on a constant basis. Where maturity shows is if they hold their judgements to themselves or gossip it to others. Like my best friend for example, the kid was awesome in grade school, we were like brothers practically, in highschool... that changed a bit. He became a jackass and I became a loner, but after highschool and over a year for him to be left with no one else, his attitue straightened out right quick.

Basically if they're being all gossipy and such, screw 'em. It's all high school level bullshit that just tacks onto existing problems and worries. Cut 'em off and see what happens.

And Jimmy is 100% right, Fuck Facebook. All it's done is destroy privacy and ***** it's users out to marketing companies.

 

[Frost King]

Thanks you all brought up good points i mean i'm not gonna change who i am to please someone its just you would think that a friend would accept you for who you are but atleast i do still have people that are friends and they never have a problem with who i am its just i always take friendship as sacred and it hurts when you put trust in someone and then they betray you. but i guess if someone doesn't like who i am then fine but say it to my face.

 

[PurpleStyle]

No offense intended, but it sounds like you're writing an episode for One Tree Hill. Fuck Facebook and all that silly high school drama. Check out Failbook instead!

This is probably my favorite one.

 

[Frost King]

Yeah i do agree facebook can suck alot but i'm not sure if everyone understood that this friend was someone i knew in person not a online friend but yeah the thing is there's so many tv shows that describe the whole thing lol so i know what you mean.

 

[11225]

XD Man...from what I'm reading, it's becoming ridiculous! First there were negative feedback about Myspace and I somehow lost interest in it....now I'm seeing small negative feedback about Facebook.

Why...I was convinced to go back to Facebook to find my friends that goes there as well...now I'm not so sure if I wanna continue going there. ^^;

 

[bluemoose]

What is up with people who talk about others when they are just being themselfs? now i have had a incident with a friend of mine who i have known for many years and he had been talking about me behind my back saying that i'm weird and that all i put up is weird shit on facebook because i often quote band lyrics that fit my mood or i put up my own stuff that i write. and he told a friend of mine this talking behind my back and she told me about it. but the funny thing is there is someone who i know that he doesn't get along with that often talks about him behind his back and he always asks me did he say anything about me. and i would always defend him when the other person would talk about him and now i feel stupid because i sat there and defended him and he goes and talks about me its like wtf so much for trust and it seems like the betrayal just doesn't stop i'm still healing from my former bestfriend that ditched me and betrayed me and never told me why and then this it confuses you and its made me wonder should i trust anyone anymore? but the point i was getting to is why talk about someone when there just being there self and especially when he gets mad that someone else is talking about him behind his back but then he talks about the person who always defends him. so i deleted him from my facebook and thats it with him but its like what a hypocrite. and most of my friends on there also quote lyrics or write whatever so its nothing new really and no one else has ever said anything to me about that i mean aren't i aloud to write whatever i want to? i just wanted to get everyones thoughts on this.

fuck em, as said by hypocrisy "Let the knife do the talking" 😛 most people that talk shit about their friends do so because of their own insecurities, trying to bring up the bad in others to make themselves seem better by comparison, much the same way political ads work. besides anyone who judges you on posts on facebook is a fuckin Dbag and thusly deserves a swift kick in the ass lol i do the same thing man, so i know where youre coming from, besides what those kind of people lack in character they make up for in their cowardice haha

 

[bluemoose]

XD Man...from what I'm reading, it's becoming ridiculous! First there were negative feedback about Myspace and I somehow lost interest in it....now I'm seeing small negative feedback about Facebook.

Why...I was convinced to go back to Facebook to find my friends that goes there as well...now I'm not so sure if I wanna continue going there. ^^;

facebook is great in certain situations, say for me ive lived in 3 states in 2010 alone, so since im movin around alot its a super convenient way to keep in touch with people

 

[Frost King]

Yeah i really don't have a problem with facebook because what happened had nothing to do with it because my other friends never said a word about anything i posted most people will comment or like my status if they know the song or if they just like what i wrote.

 

[Journia]

Well, I will say this: I was involved in a bnit of drama involving facebook, and real life. I defended someone, and the person I was defending my friend from, told me some things about what my friend said about me.

Tsk. Tsk.

Anyway, some people just can't be themselves, because they've been trained to be a certain way, and so, they try to destroy those who are themselves.