Possible Tickle Coming Up (HELP!)

[bass]

Ok here's the deal... on Friday night I helped my best friend "Julie" (you will know about her if you read my story in the stories section) set up for her parents 25th anniversary party, which took us all day... but anyway we finished and me and my friend "Drew" decided to leave and go to this other party, and Julie gave me a HUGE hug and thanked me about 20 times for my help, and said she would pay me back somehow... joking around she said she'd throw us a pizza party, but i gave her a look and said no, so she still owes me...

What I'm thinking, is should I ask her if I can tickle her feet? or somewhere else? i know she is extremely ticklish, but i dont know if she would let me do it or not, do you think i should take a chance???

or instead, maybe i should ask her if i could take pictures of her feet? that way you all could see the beauty 🙂 (with her permission of course)

I don't know... I'm just getting confused... cuz i REALLY REALLY want to tickle this girl... i mean i've given her playful tickles, but so has everybody else... or am i just being stupid?

HELP PEOPLE, PLEASE

 

[JoshLyman]

Do you like her as a person? Do you feel comfortable with her, to share unusual and personal information? Does she like to experiment, to do and think things unusual? I'm not so sure if you should ask to tickle her as compensate for your assistance. It should be between friends, as something fun, as something she understands and enjoys.

 

[bass]

yes i like her as a person, shes my best friend... she already knows about my fetishes, so she knows completely that i enjoy tickling and i like her feet... she has experimented a couple times before, and seemed to enjoy it...

see, we are GOOD friends, like basically if i didnt have a g/f and she didnt have a b/f we would be going out... so it would completely be between friends... i just dont know if she would let me do it... so im contemplating whether i should even ask or not...

thanx for the input bro

 

[Helena]

My opinion (hope this helps)



Hello,

I read your post about asking your friend to tickle as repayment for helping her set up for her parents anniversary party. From your post it sounds like you have a crush for her, and find her really attractive...you seem to lust for her...but, alas, you have a G/F, and she has a BF. Here is my opinion.

If you are sexually attracted to your best friend, and want to date her you might wind up doing more than just tickling her. You both might get really aroused from the experience and wind up having a wild, untamed, lustful romp. I get the feeling from your post that you are hoping it may go that way. HOWEVER, IT PROBABLY WON'T BE LIKE YOUR FANTASY. Your best friend is involved with another man.

I think honesty is the most important thing in any relationship. The girl is involved with someone else, and probably won't accept your advances. She may actually get angry with you if you deceive her by telling her you just want playful tickling when that if not the case.
Inviting her into a tickling scene is a bad idea.

 

[terorizer]

Sounds Like A...

...possible catastrophe waiting to happen. I'll admit that I know not you nor she and let me say I can totally understand your desire and willingness to share tickling with this person, especially since you are so close to her. The thing is, there are two other people you have to take into account. Your girlfriend, because I assume you are committed to her and "Julie's" boyfriend, because even if you don't know him well or care for him, you do care for her and I assume she's committed to him. I know I wouldn't appreciate a request like this made of my girlfriend, even if it did come from a good friend of hers and it wasn't tickling. It could also place her in a very awkward position, since she knows this is a fetish of yours. I do think though, it's a bad idea to suggest it as "repayment" under any circumstances, because it calls into question your motives for helping her initially.

Now there is a huge BUT! LOL You know yourself, Julie and everyone involved a whole lot better than I do. It's possible that she would be happy to oblige and her boyfriend wouldn't mind...or she wouldn't mind not letting him know...and if you and she can live with that, more power to you. Ultimately, it's all about the relationships. If they are worth not jeopardizing, then my opinion is not to jeopardize them.

 

[bass]

well first of all, thank you everybody for your input...

ive decided not to even bring it up, mainly because of her b/f... i dont think my g/f would mind very much, cuz i mean she accepts the fact that im good friends with other girls (like 3 or 4 others), where we hug and stuff and ill walk around w/ my arm around her, and ive talked to her about it and she said it doesnt bother her because she knows i wouldnt cheat on her... now Julie's boyfriend... im good friends with him too, he is the guitar player in my band and we hang out all the time and stuff... but ya i dont know if he would like me tickling his g/f...

yes i do like julie, but shes been my best friend for a while now so i cant even imagine myself doing anything sexual with her, so that answers that question... and see i wouldnt deceive her at all, because i would JUST want to tickle her, nothing else...

i dunno, thank you all for your input, its been very helpful, so now you know that im not gonna even bring it up... kinda disappointing, but for the best...

BTW terorizer... r u the terorizer from that romantic tickling site?

 

[Strelnikov]

Dissenting View

Aw, hell! Go for it! Tickle her till she's speaking in tongues!Years from now, when you look back on your life, the only temptations you'll regret are the ones you didn't give in to.

Strelnikov

 

[Ticklish9's]

Tickle those feet!

I'm with Strel on this one...you trust her, she trusts you, all involved trust all involved...what have you got to lose? One kick ass time, that's what you've got to lose, if you don't go for it. She knows about your fetish and knows you as well as anyone. I'd say go for it. You know you'll be kicking yourself for weeks if you don't.

 

[talons]

Ya, tickle her till she pees. Besides, whats the worst that could happen, you tickle her you both get horny you have wild sex you fall in love get married and live happily ever after. Personally, I think you are smitten with this girl and are in denial. Deep down inside you would love to inject your demon seed into her love cavern.

 

[Strelnikov]

Well...yeah, that too. Not very delicately phrased, perhaps, but direct and to the point. Like I said before, go for it!

Strelnikov

 

[MadKalnod]

I don't know, even if there isn't any planned sexual connotation involved, you still would derive pleasure from doing this to her, and your post descibes your desire to tickle her the same way many others on this forum express their desires to tickle (insert celebrity or tickle video model du jour here) like sharks needing to feed. Also, you mention that you would be dating only if there were no others with prior claims on your affections involved.

I seems to me that if you did this with her, you would be crossing a line in your relationship with her that would change things, and you wouldn't be able to go back to normal after doing so. It sounds like 31 Flavors of Pain waiting to happen.

 

[Strelnikov]

And with that, we segue into a related thread, "Is it better to have loved and lost..." MK has a good point, but I still say go for it.

Strelnikov

 

[bass]

OK well I have reconsidered my decision, based on something that happened today... today in class i wrote Julie this note, and we wrote back and forth... here is EXACTLY what it said... what she said will be in quotation marks... This was in our AP Physics class (im a senior in high school, OF AGE FOR THIS FORUM just before anybody raises any complaints or anything on me)

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Jen let me tickle her feet yesterday 🙂 I'm sure you care, but I just had to tell somebody... it was great

"aww that's so sweet. Does she know about your fetish?"

ya she does, she doesn't like it but she deals with it... you've never let me do it to you 😉 *wink wink* haha

"why doesn't she like it? it's not a bad thing. you shouldn't be embarassed or ne thing, it's something that makes you unique. So what did you do for her in return?"

I think she just doesn't like me touching her feet... I dunno, I'm not embarassed about it anymore, but its not something I just go telling people... Actually she did it in return for me, cuz she was tickling me all day... I seriously do want to tickle your feet, but I don't know how you feel about it so I never asked... and I wouldn't do it here in school haha it'd have to be in private

"maybe Friday I'll let you tickle my feet. I'm used to Manuel trying to tickle my feet. I just want to warn you that sometimes my feet are ticklish & sometimes they aren't, sometimes they smell like roses and sometimes they r yucky. But I'll make sure they're clean. and look I painted my toenails!! 🙂"

Well if they aren't ticklish I'll be used to it... Jen's feet are only ticklish up at her toes

"It's weird cuz sometimes it tickles other times it feels like a massage, but if it'll make you happy then I don't care. Whatever, they are just feet, i only use them to walk. I have the hiccups. it sux. They may have stopped. I dunno, im confused 😕"

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so in conclusion to this post... I AM TICKLING HER FEET ON FRIDAY, AND SHE IS GOING TO ENJOY IT 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

oh i forgot the best part... at the part where I said "you've never let me do it to you", she kicked off her shoes and offered me her foot to tickle... i was so happy... well anyway I'm sure a story will follow this, so you all will get the details probably on saturday or somewhere around there...

thank u all for your advice

 

[ForgottenTcklr]

I think, if you two have a close relationship; just take a stab at it. If she is really offended then don't pursue it. You never know, she may take it well and think that you're flirting. However, if she knows you're a tickler, then you'll have to be honest and tell her you really like her; and see where you get.

 

[terorizer]

BTW terorizer... r u the terorizer from that romantic tickling site?

That's me! :- )

You're welcome for the input. Sounds like she's a great friend!

 

[bass]

haha that is awesome... i got input from terorizer... ive been to your site so many times man... its great 🙂