predicament with Tickling

[pitticklinger1]

Hey guys, I know it's pitticklinger with another predicament involving tickling! But I figure no one but the awesome community that is Tickle Theater could help me with this problem. So here it goes.... I have been with my girlfriend for two years now, I love her to death, she's gorgeous and she knows all about my fetish, she's extremely ticklish and she will let me tie her up and tickle her and we can incorporate tickling during sex and she will be absolutely fine with it, she even likes to tie me up sometimes! By now you're all probably thinking (what's the problem here) right? lol. Well the problem is that when I hang out with an attractive female friend of mine, or even when I'm not hanging out with them, I think of them and I really, REALLY want nothing more than to tickle them, just for the smallest reaction I would do almost anything. Granted I never feel that way when I am with my girl, but when I'm alone, I never fantasize about her, just the multiple other girls. I always feel terrible about it because I don't act on them, so I'm not unfaithful or anything, I just hate feeling this way... Does anyone else have this problem? Any suggestions? Anything would really be a huge help for me!
Thanks in advance!
~Pitticklinger

 

[likeasong1]

You've got a good thing going already. Don't blow it. Your gf will probably take it as infidelity if you do tickle these other girls.

 

[Mash]

I really have to agree with likeasong on this one. You really have no idea how lucky you are to have a girlfriend willing to let you indulge in your fetish. Be happy with what you have.

I know I sound like a complete dick, but really man. You're living the dream as far as I'm concerned.

 

[Carnivore]

I have to agree with everyone. Dude:

http://www.first-school.ws/theme/fables/dog-reflection.htm

 

[pitticklinger1]

Yes, I know I am lucky, that wasn'tmy question... And like I said, I was not going to act on them, I just wanted to know if other people ever have this problem? Also if there was anyway to get there thoughts out of my head. I don't feel sexually towards the girls, I just really want to tickle them, and like I said before, I never have/will act on these feelings

 

[likeasong1]

The obvious thing is to either spend more time with the gf, or take up a hobby. Do something that will keep your mind off the other girls. It's pointless to say, "Don't think about it then!" because that will make you think of it. But just find something else to occupy your mind... woodworking, video games, movies, something.

 

[stroker]

relax, this is normal ,it is part of the male phsyce to acquire or at least fantasize about acquiring extra sexual partners .This also applies to fetishes because of the underlying sexual element,The reason you dont fantasize about your g/f is that you already have her .look at it this way if you bought a ferrari the first thing youll do is stop fantasizing about owning a ferrari.The important thing is not to act on it

 

[Inverse]

I don't know your girlfriend, but have you ever really openly talked about your fetish~ what it means to you from a sensual/casual sense...? For all you know she'd be completely fine with it. Transparency shouldn't be so difficult after two years.