Well, let me say that, DJ: you are quite unforgiving - esp. towards yourself! 😀 😀 😀
Fawning over a feminine dude is possible. With pics you never know, and this is doubly true with amateur pics - where faces are seldom shown.
Still, since it is all a matter of self... [let's choose a neutral word] well, self gratification, fantasy should come first. As they say, it's that special something that makes your boat float what really matters.
Now, I know what you mean: I'm quite choosy myself. Just, I'm not very vocal on this matter.
But when I see an ugly foot, or a dubious ped... well, I get as sick as most discerning guys get.
It's not "just same stuff" to me. Just as it is not for you or Cletus. 🙂
Sure, since I have - what's the word? Laidback? Well, a more relaxed attitude, I don't feel as "dirty over a folly". 😀
If a pic worked once, that's good. If it laters turns out it was something else, I'll just throw it away - or move it under a different folder. 🙂
In some rare cases, it's maybe better to left questions unanswered, for the sake of fantasy and pleasure. 😉
Reg's!