problem with my girlfriend

[tyu22]

hey guys, iv been mostly browsing around the site since i signed up but i need some help. if anyones reading this so you can help me get my girl friend into tickling this isnt the thread for you so instead of wasting your time il just tell you to leave this thread now but if you really want to help me i would really appreciate it.
well unfortantly i seem to be one of those guys who is only obsessed with tickling, iv never really been interested in having sex or anything like that, i mean i love to kiss her and hold her but iv never really wanted to have sex so i knew i was going to have some trouble in life but i didnt think it was gonna come so soon. lately my gf has been getting frustrated at me cause i dont seem to be interested in having sex. i really dont know what to do cause i can not tell her about how i like tickling and id never break up with her just because i love tickling and she loves sex. does anyone have any advice?

 

[laughingboy2000]

Just come out with it and make a compromise. Ask her if you can do your tickling stuff, and then have sex with her, so both of your needs are met.

 

[Michael514]

My wife and I had the same similar problem at first. I liked tickling her as a foreplay but she just wanted to go right to intercourse. We compromised, If she would let me tie her up and tickle her feet as a foreplay then the intercourse afterward was the best we had. Soon we just would tie and tickle each other as foreplay and 17 years and two sons later we're still married. I'm not suggesting you go my route but nevertheless I hope I was some help to you.

 

[morgandee]

Goddamn Fucking Have Sex With Her

 

[ticklenick]

If you're not into sex at all, it's not exactly easy to get it up for intercourse. It would be hard to just 'have sex'.

 

[Goodieluver]

you arent in the mood for sex at all after tickling? Also, is it just sex you dont do or do you guys not do oral\hand sex at all?

 

[tyu22]

we havent done anything like oral/ hand sex and i cant just tickle her like crazy before sex cause she doesnt know about my tickling fetish and there is no way i could tell her yet. thanks for the input guys

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

the hollywood brother can dig your problem but here the thing brother. you got to step to the plate and have sex with her. if you are smart you will bring her to not one but numerous orgams first to make her very ticklish. this will make your tickle time better. Now the other idea of the hollywood brother that has worked for people is to combine the two. You can tickle her while you are pumping away to get both of you off. then you can keep tickling but focus on the vaginal area until you has a orgasm or two from tickling. the hollywood brother think if you do this enough then she will love tickling because mentally she is putting tickling and orgasm together. you wil leventually like sex because you are putting sex and tickling together.

This should work for you. The hollywood brother does believe in his advice and hopes that it will help you to continue your relationship with this person and eventually live happily ever after

 

[ticklenick]

you arent in the mood for sex at all after tickling? Also, is it just sex you dont do or do you guys not do oral\hand sex at all?

With my girlfriend, all we do is oral/hand sex and it's amazing. The sex thing is something that will take some time for me to get into/get used to (I'm young), but tickling is definitely going to be part of our foreplay.

 

[laughingboy2000]

we havent done anything like oral/ hand sex and i cant just tickle her like crazy before sex cause she doesnt know about my tickling fetish and there is no way i could tell her yet. thanks for the input guys

Telling her now is better than telling her later. If you wait and wait and it turns out shes not understanding of your fetish, you've just wasted years of your life.

 

[tyu22]

ok, well thanks a lot guys for the help. im just afraid shes gonna find it a little weird if i start tickling her while we are having sex, i dont think she enjoys being tickled all that much so i dont know if thats a good idea

 

[Goodieluver]

everything feels weird the first time

 

[cpr1815]

Telling her now is better than telling her later. If you wait and wait and it turns out shes not understanding of your fetish, you've just wasted years of your life.

I totally agree here. If the only way you think you can involve actual sex is through tickling foreplay, then you are going to have to come clean with her.

If even tickling doesn't get you interested in sex, then I do NOT say this to be mean, but you're going to have to see a counselor. Your partner is going to expect intimacy, tickling fetish or not. Good luck, bud.

 

[Taj]

lately my gf has been getting frustrated at me cause i dont seem to be interested in having sex. i really dont know what to do cause i can not tell her about how i like tickling and id never break up with her just because i love tickling and she loves sex. does anyone have any advice?

Listen, I know you would'nt break up with her but I gotta tell ya dude. If she gets frustrated enough, she will leave you. If she's not getting joy from home, she will look elsewhere. Now don't get me wrong. I ain't tryin to scare ya into having sex when you don't want to, or don't feel ready to. Whichever the case may be. But from her point of view, if ya don't want to have sex with her, she might feel you don't find her attractive or she does'nt turn you on. Telling someone about a fetish, especially tickling can be a very hard thing to do. I don't think just tickling her out of the blue while having sex is the way to go in this case. Especialy if she does'nt like it, and lets face facts. A lot of people don't like being tickled for long periods of time. This post probably does'nt help ya much, and for that I'm sorry. But I figured I should drop my two cents in. Best of luck.

 

[Tremere]

If you know for sure that you aren't interested in sex then for all those saying he should just have sex with her anyway, that's not helping much. I don't know about you, but if you're not aroused about what you're doing, it'd be like hammering a gummi worm through a 2x4. If tickling truly is the only thing that excites you, then you need to find someone that shares that because chances are most truly ticklish girls (with the exception of the ladies on here I would imagine) would find it counterproductive to be tickled while having sex, because women need their head to be in it to get the most out of it (please correct me if I'm wrong here girls). It may not be what you were hoping to hear, but if you don't feel comfortable sharing that side of you with her, then chances are you two will not be together long. Hopefully whatever the outcome it turns out well for you in the long run.

 

[blackmagicjack1]

It's been said in one way or another on this thread, but TALK TO HER! Most people want sex, women included..it's one of the ways she feels close to you. If you don't want sex with her, she isn't most likely going to think what's wrong with you, she's going to think what's wrong with her (which is basically cruel). BTW there isn't anything wrong with you, everyone is different, but we do need to be with people who meet are needs and wants. You deserve this and so does she. So communicate with her, if it doesn't work out there really are lots more women out there..even ones that get sexual satisfaction from just tickling (speak up if anyone fits this bill). You both deserve to get what you want. So be a man and tell her what's up. I know that it is hard to talk to peopel about somethings, but honestly you have nothing to be ashamed of. Besides if you don't talk to her, it's just going to get worse.

 

[Vyse]

Does tickling stimulate you sexually?

If this is the case, make a comprimise, first, she enages in your tickling desires, surely after this you will be stimulated enough where it counts to engage in her desire, although it might not do anything for you, it will make her feel good and thats all that matters, all you have to do is act as though it is making you feel good to, sex that is. You never know it might actually stimulate you too, whether it does or not dont matter, the bottom line is!

YOU GET WHAT YOU WANT AND SHE GETS WHAT SHE WANTS 😀

 

[Betchass1]

but if you're not aroused about what you're doing, it'd be like hammering a gummi worm through a 2x4.

lol
ow

 

[Betchass1]

hey guys, iv been mostly browsing around the site since i signed up but i need some help. if anyones reading this so you can help me get my girl friend into tickling this isnt the thread for you so instead of wasting your time il just tell you to leave this thread now but if you really want to help me i would really appreciate it.
well unfortantly i seem to be one of those guys who is only obsessed with tickling, iv never really been interested in having sex or anything like that, i mean i love to kiss her and hold her but iv never really wanted to have sex so i knew i was going to have some trouble in life but i didnt think it was gonna come so soon. lately my gf has been getting frustrated at me cause i dont seem to be interested in having sex. i really dont know what to do cause i can not tell her about how i like tickling and id never break up with her just because i love tickling and she loves sex. does anyone have any advice?

I bet intercourse will grow on you. I'm guessing tickling appeals to you partly because you've experienced it a bunch of times and remember it... while maybe that isn't true of intercourse.

It's totally not unnatural for a young man to tickle his g/f spontaneously, especially during the early part of a relationship. Just be smiling when you do it, no unblinking sweaty-forehead glares. There's a good chance your boner could become kind of a reward for her.
I bet some music, dancing, and ass-slapping would go a long way toward arousing the urge in ya. If you have testes, the desire to copulate can't be completely unsalvageable. 🙂

 

[tyu22]

well i decided to just go with it and have sex, she knew it was my first time so it was ok and it ended up being pretty nice, thanks a lot guys for all the input.

 

[Betchass1]

well i decided to just go with it and have sex, she knew it was my first time so it was ok and it ended up being pretty nice, thanks a lot guys for all the input.

Go you.

 

[Budweiserbob!]

Yay! Xd