Question about girlfriend

[Spikey]

Hey everyone, I'm Spikey. Long time lurker, first time poster. I have a little dilemna and I was wondering if anyone could help me solve it.

Okay so I have an attraction to the female foot and a minor tickling fetish. My current girlfriend knows this and is completely cool with it and more than willing to indulge in my passions but there is a small problem, she doesn't take care of her feet too well. They arent nasty and gnarled, at least not yet, but she doesnt, in my opinion, care about her feet that much. She doesn't moisturize them so they can be a little dry and rough and she doesnt clean her toenails that well (like I said nothing too bad yet but overtime it can get worse).
I guess she doesn't see her feet as a turn on and because of that she probably doesn't see a reason to care for them.
Maybe as time goes by she'll take care of them better for me but in case she doesnt can someone give me some advice as to how I can convince her to take better care of her beautiful tootsies without offending her?

 

[footickler14]

Hey,
since she knows about your fetish why dont you offer,or say you would like to wash them for her,this wont be seen as rude but like a romantic,sexy thing.then when you wash & dry them she will see how you do it & will hopefully take notes on how to take care of them,hope this helps.

 

[steph]

Welcome "first timer"
This is actually an easy one~buy her a gift certificate for a pedicure. Hopefully once she sees how pretty her feet look, she'll want to keep them that way for you.

XOXO

 

[milagros317]

Welcome to the TMF, Spikey, and congratulations on your first post. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.

Concerning your question, I had virtually the same suggestion as footickler14. Offer to wash and massage her feet. Do the massage part with a moisterizing cream.

 

[JadeUk]

Welcome "first timer"
This is actually an easy one~buy her a gift certificate for a pedicure. Hopefully once she sees how pretty her feet look, she'll want to keep them that way for you.

XOXO

I was going to mention the same thing. Or if you feel close enough to her to discuss hypothetical scenarios ask her how would she feel if .... i dunno you didn't wash your balls or something lol i don't know but something along those lines.

 

[maniactickler]

Give her a deadline to get them in shape or your out the door. this is unacceptable!

 

[E-Dawg]

my suggestion

Along with washing and massaging her feet for her, paint her nails for her in her favorite color (or yours)! When her feet are clean and in better shape, show her how much you love her feet (massage them some more, tickle them, etc......use your imagination).

Good luck!!

 

[scorpionldr]

Hey everyone, I'm Spikey. Long time lurker, first time poster. I have a little dilemna and I was wondering if anyone could help me solve it.

Okay so I have an attraction to the female foot and a minor tickling fetish. My current girlfriend knows this and is completely cool with it and more than willing to indulge in my passions but there is a small problem, she doesn't take care of her feet too well. They arent nasty and gnarled, at least not yet, but she doesnt, in my opinion, care about her feet that much. She doesn't moisturize them so they can be a little dry and rough and she doesnt clean her toenails that well (like I said nothing too bad yet but overtime it can get worse).
I guess she doesn't see her feet as a turn on and because of that she probably doesn't see a reason to care for them.
Maybe as time goes by she'll take care of them better for me but in case she doesnt can someone give me some advice as to how I can convince her to take better care of her beautiful tootsies without offending her?

as stupid as the movie "girl next door" was, they were right about something: the juice is what's squeezed. You have a girlfriend. She loves you and your fetish for feet and tickling. She doesn't have great feet. Most likely she couldn't give a damn to do anything with them by the end of the day other than tease you with them. Do yourself a favor. You love feet so much, YOU moisturize and wash them for her, and you can get what you want

 

[Majestic]

I think E Dawg hit the nail right on the head. I know that would work for me. It would be so wonderful to have my partner wash, moisturize and massage my feet then apply polish. I have always taken care of my feet because I have seen nasty, gnarly feet and it's a total turn off but I wouldnt be offended if my partner offered to do that for me. I would probably think he was trying really well to get down my jeans. LOL. I would be flattered.

 

[OnnaOtaku]

Welcome "first timer"
This is actually an easy one~buy her a gift certificate for a pedicure. Hopefully once she sees how pretty her feet look, she'll want to keep them that way for you.

XOXO

This was going to be my exact reply. Thank you for saving me thought and time.

 

[steph]

'Tis my pleasure lovely one--(doesn't hurt that you're hooked up with a dude that I've always liked either...) 😉
yanno, spike--for many guys this is unfamiliar territory--things like painting toenails well takes a LOT of practice. The pros usually have better tools--like the massage/spa chair and you don't HAVE to spend an arm and a leg to afford a good one!
XOXO

This was going to be my exact reply. Thank you for saving me thought and time.

 

[Spikey]

yanno, spike--for many guys this is unfamiliar territory--things like painting toenails well takes a LOT of practice. The pros usually have better tools--like the massage/spa chair and you don't HAVE to spend an arm and a leg to afford a good one!
XOXO

Yea no doubt, I have never painted a girls toes before or even really given a foot massage. I am just now starting to explore and become comfortable with my attraction, so I guess its a good thing I have a patient and willing partner. Pampering her feet myself sounds like a great idea and I'll be sure to do that next time I see her. Thanks for all the help and advice everyone!

 

[steph]

You're very welcome. Most guys are terrible at it, we love 'em for trying but it's just not the same, yanno? In the meantime, you can always get a book or head to the web for massage tips. Have fun!
XOXO

Yea no doubt, I have never painted a girls toes before or even really given a foot massage. I am just now starting to explore and become comfortable with my attraction, so I guess its a good thing I have a patient and willing partner. Pampering her feet myself sounds like a great idea and I'll be sure to do that next time I see her. Thanks for all the help and advice everyone!

 

[LoveSoles81]

Pay for her to have a pedicure every two weeks.