Question for all the tickle experts

[jpb40]

My question guys N gals is what would you do if your partner being married or single was not into tickling at all. In other words he or she can't stand to be tickled. How do you entertain your fetish? look at this page like i do and wish like I do?

 

[maniactickler38]

id never get involved with a woman that wasnt into tickling. got to do your homework first. 😉

 

[MistressValerie1]

If my subby hubby didn't like being tickled, I'd have to find a secondary (ticklee) partner to indulge that part of my life 🙂

 

[MayDay1]

This may be a question for the Savage Love column.

 

[maverick83]

As for the question itself, it wouldn’t bother me all that much. As I am primarily a ‘lee, being able to tickle my g/f is not absolutely necessary for me to remain satisfied. (Though, don’t get me wrong, it would certainly be a plus!) But I will assume a situation necessary for me to accurately analyze your situation. i.e. what would I do if I had a g/f who, for some reason, would never tickle me? Myself, personally? I wouldn’t become committed to her in the first place. But it is a matter of priorities, what one feels is ‘acceptable’ for themself, and what one’s significant other is okay with. Look within, and have a discussion with her. Identify your priorities, figure out what will be necessary to satisfy your needs and devise methods for accomplishing that which is deemed necessary, allowing only methods which she does not have a problem with, of course. Hopefully this process will yield effective results.

 

[tummynavelboy]

My question guys N gals is what would you do if your partner being married or single was not into tickling at all. In other words he or she can't stand to be tickled. How do you entertain your fetish? look at this page like i do and wish like I do?

Im thinking this should be in the Tickling Discussion forum? But anywho... in time i think you can teach pretty much into anybody anything really within reason including to like tickling alot i feel. But if my Wife or girlfriend was NOT into tickling or did not like being tickled then i prob wouldn't stick a right with her. inless (and thats a big inless) She agreed to try ideas to make her more ticklish and to make more her like being tickled then yeah maybe then i would stay in the relationship.

 

[maverick83]

With all due respect, unless she is comfortable with the idea of "learning to love it", trying to "teach" her to love it would do little more than show a complete lack of respect. Personally, I consider trying to change a person to be ultimately detrimental to a relationship. Just my opinion.

 

[tummynavelboy]

With all due respect, unless she is comfortable with the idea of "learning to love it", trying to "teach" her to love it would do little more than show a complete lack of respect. Personally, I consider trying to change a person to be ultimately detrimental to a relationship. Just my opinion.

i agree with you. ok will maybe when i said ''teach'' thoses weren't the right words to use. But whoever your Dating or married to jp40 if she is ok with the idea and comfortable with it in trying to think of ways or ideas for her to like being tickled thats Fine. But just like Mav said if you are trying to ''force someone or teach that person'' into doing something thier not comfortable in doing or that thier unsure of or that thier completely against in every shape and form then its not ok to Go ahead with it. Best of luck with your problem or maybe it wasn't a problem at all and you just wanted to ask that question to get others feedback. Either way i wish you the best 🙂

 

[Tkpro]

I'll tell you flat out from my personal trial and error. If the woman doesn't like to be tickled, end the relationship and find someone who does. This very same issue was a big reason for a breakup with 3 of my serious relationships. I kept thinking that if the woman loved me enough I could "break her in" over time. But it never changes! Just like your love of it doesn't change, her hatred doesn't change. So finally I found my current wife, who likes to be tickled. It's the only way to go if you want to be happy and it is important to you.

 

[BigJim1]

Having an open relationship would probably be invaluable in such an instance. Personally I don't think any relationship of mine would progress as far as marriage if the lady involved wasn't into it at all and refused to try. It's not that I'm close-minded about other people, just that this "fetish" is a very integral part of my sexuality.