Question for everyone

[TravlZeus2002]

Let's say you have found the perfect woman/man. She/he is your ideal in every way, personality, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, EVERY WAY. You can either have a relationship that is only about getting together for tickling and nothing else or you can have a "normal" relationship but, with no tickling at all. Which would it be?

 

[Limeoutsider]

I voted for no, because, as I see it, right now, I dont tickle so it would be no major loss

 

[AffectionateDan]

The very wording of the question negates it, for me. The perfect mate LOVES tickling as much (or more) than I do. Ya gotta be true to who you are. And it's not like you can choose who's perfect for you. They just ARE. Or not. There's no middle ground. Oh sure, you can agree to compromise on things, but is that really perfection?

 

[milagros317]

I'll take the tickling, and forgo the ordinary stuff. 😀

 

[PBL]

Mu. If I was ever in that situation I would seriously be wondering how in the hell I got there.

 

[TicklishSinner]

I would have to chose a "normal" realtioinship, as much as I love tickling, I could give it up for being just all around happy

 

[Flatfoot]

The very wording of the question negates it, for me. The perfect mate LOVES tickling as much (or more) than I do. Ya gotta be true to who you are. And it's not like you can choose who's perfect for you. They just ARE. Or not. There's no middle ground. Oh sure, you can agree to compromise on things, but is that really perfection?

I couldn't agree with you more. It's gotta be all or nothing. You shouldn't compromise when it comes to happiness.

 

[WraithTickler]

I'd have to forego tickling. It's a small thing in comparison to a relationship that meets all those other needs. It's a mostly phyiscal pleasure which over time would probably full short on fulfillment. I have a tickling fetish, but haven't been able to act on it really, so missing it now would be no big loss. Even if I did have some amazing tickling experiences, I wouldn't jeopardize that much potential happiness- especially mentally, spiritually, and emotionally, for something so emphemeral.

 

[Faramir]

I chose no tickling, as it didn't have anything to do with my past marriages. I tickled their feet while they slept anyway...

 

[starfires]

Clarification

The very wording of the question negates it, for me. The perfect mate LOVES tickling as much (or more) than I do

Not literally true: a person can love tickling, but be unable/unwilling to engage in it with *you*, while willing/able to maintain an otherwise normal relationship with you, or vice versa. The one scenario I can think of that creates this restriction is unlikely, but possible.

The question I have is, does "\"normal\" relationship" entail exclusivity, specifically where one wouldn't be allowed to engage in tickling with others?

 

[KoocheeKoo]

That's my nightmare fear....that I'll someday meet my soulmate...my destiny; and she won't be ticklish anywhere 🙁

I've only met one girl/ lady in my life who wasn't ticklish at all (a neighbor girl named Mona about 25-30 years ago)....and hope she's the only one 😀