question for the ladies

[bigpoppadiesel]

me and my friend had this argument and hence i figured id ask the few girls on this site. what would u prefer in a boyfriend, a guy that body builds or a guy that knows how to fight. thanks

 

[AcornaMordor]

o.o these are our only options? Pft.. I'd dump both of you...

 

[naveltkltr1350]

im a guy..and those are some pretty terrible options u ladies have to choose from..lmao

 

[andymac1]

I know I'm a guy but, why would a lady want unintelligence and/or shallowness in their guy? LOL

 

[naveltkltr1350]

hell yeah andy..i might bodybuild..and i know i can fight..but those..are probably the least of my qualities..for my best qualities..just ask AR..she has a freaking page of them written down..and she still claims shes missing some..lmao..i disagree..anyways not all bodybuilders are unintelligent or shallow..well..at least i am told i am not..lol

 

[andymac1]

naveltklr1350, I meant it as in...unintelligent...needing to fight. Shallow...thinking body building is what you have to do to impress a gal. No disrespect intended, I know not all b/builders are like that.

 

[vampireshadow]

i could kick your Ass navel 🙂 LOL!

 

[nessonite1]

Yeah I agree those are some pretty rotten options.

I think I can speak for most every girl of any substance that something like body builder vs street fighter wouldnt be the deciding facotr in anything and I'll agree with Acorna...I wouldnt go for either type.

 

[naveltkltr1350]

i wanna see a street fighter fight a bodybuilder..that would be funny

 

[naveltkltr1350]

whoa! i totally missed the posts from vs and andymac..hey. ok..andymac..its cool..im just messin around..and BBR..only thing u would beat me at is street ball..i admit it and probably horror movie trivia..lmao! peace out bro

 

[naveltkltr1350]

i could kick your Ass navel 🙂 LOL!

so u won a fight against 8 ppl..who used to be your friend and turned on you..i didnt think so..lmao! its all good brother..there is no reason to fight anymore..unless being harmed(or having someone harm a friend) is inevitable

 

[Camel26]

In response to the topic of this thread:

I wouldn't take either
1) I hate bodybuilders--male, or female. I think it's a grotesque waste--I say if you want to lift or work out to be in good shape, do it, but leave it at being in good shape. If a man's pecs are bigger than my boobs, hell no!!! Not my thing...plus, I like my men, and my women, to have some squish to them...I'm curvy and squishy...I expect the same/am attracted to the same!!!

 

[Camel26]

2) Fighting = Stupid unless someone hurt your friends/family/significant other or shot your dog. Any man/woman who fights to win over a significant other I wouldn't waste my time with!!! Impress me with your wit, make me laugh, cuddle, and just be able to converse...that's all I could ask for!!!! (that and a nice set of stocks wouldn't hurt!!! 😛)

 

[MistressValerie1]

In response to the topic of this thread:

1) I hate bodybuilders--male, or female. I think it's a grotesque waste--I say if you want to lift or work out to be in good shape, do it, but leave it at being in good shape. If a man's pecs are bigger than my boobs, hell no!!! Not my thing...plus, I like my men, and my women, to have some squish to them...I'm curvy and squishy...I expect the same/am attracted to the same!!!

My thoughts exactly; although I'm not curvy/squishy myself, I LOVE men and women who have some "squish" to them 🙂 🙂 🙂 (I also love "Yaquesque" guys as Nessie does; I'm married to one, in fact 😀 )

Love and squishiness,

 

[nessonite1]

Agreed there, Camel! I really am not into overdone muscle work. Sometimes a really muscular girl can look good when NOT working out or oiled up for a body building comp. but usually they just look like steroidal freaks.
Other than that I'm really not picky about body types. I can really dig a guy with no body fat whatsoever (yaqiesque) and I can equally dig a huggable teddy bear. My friend, Dr Convulso, isn't tiny but he makes me positively weak in the knees!! *swoons at the thought*
Sorry...no more conversation from me! I started thinkin about the good doctor and my mind is gone! Toodles!

 

[Camel26]

Oooh...why Dr. Convulso, you suave character you...making Nessie swoon...where can I see a pic so I can swoon, too???? *wipes away drool from mouth after imagining Dr. Convulso*

 

[MistressValerie1]

o.o these are our only options? Pft.. I'd dump both of you...

Same here -- I despise bullies, swaggering "tough" guys, and anyone else who trivialises violence. My own hubby was a featherweight boxer for years, but he was a highly trained athlete, not some rough guy looking for trouble. Outside of the ring, he was never violent; his control and self-discipline is what attracted me to him so strongly 🙂

Love and peace,

 

[naveltkltr1350]

fighting has become pointless..it really doesnt mean anything to anyone anymore..ive been in several fights myself..all in defense of myself or others..but to fight again..for me would be unlikely..i weightlift..but i dont try to sculp arms that wanna make me walk like a stiff..i just do it to keep toned up..i am already too strong with my legs.(i maxed out leg pressing 1,400lbs..my dad told me i needed to stop..which i did cause i dont wanna hurt myself)...its hard to find pants that fit my legs..i beleieve on leg was measured at 30inches diameter..thats too big..im trying to lose some muscle but keep them toned as well..thank god that the baggy style is still in on the leg part of pants..

 

[nessonite1]

LOL Camel I'll ask him and maybe he'll say I can share his picture with you. 😛 He's my limey hunny! 😀

 

[Kalamos]

Oh, a rather unexpected question. 😀

I liked Acorna's reply. But I like her defiant streak. 🙂
[Hey, just my opinion, k? Don't be mad at me. 😉 ]

So... it is a matter of species survival. What is more fit to survive and procreate? The pumped, or the vicious?
The lion with the longest mane, or the one which sharpest fangs? 😀

As most ladies here said, few of them even care about body mass.
Speaking of survival chance, power beats brawn [of any kind] anytime.

And then we got feelings and pheromones. 😀


Since most male specimen showed off their muscles, hey, why not, I'll show mine too. 😀

I am no builder. Did some pumping when I was younger. Just enough to pack a respectable punch [so you all know I basically am a clave-toting tribal caveman].

I attended male-only schools [or with few females at all] for a long while. So squabbles and fights were relatively frequent among the hormone-driven brats.


I am typing now. So you can easily infer I made it through unscathed. 😉

[Almost... but my only "battle scar" was my own fault anyway. 😀 ]


Reg's!

 

[Raichyll1]

Hmm... Well, I'm not really attracted to people for their looks, but I can say that I've always found a body builder phsyique a little bit off putting. It wouldn't keep me from liking someone, but if you were to hold up two pics and ask me which I liked the look of less that would be the one I select.

None of the people I've ever dated look even remotely similar to each other, beyond the fact that some were male and others were female. I was with them because of who they were, not what they looked like.

 

[Camel26]

Raichyll...that sums up my entire romantic life in those last two sentences...I'm with my Ler because her personality attracts me to her...I love talking to her, and cuddling with her, and tickling her, and being tickled by her...and I just happened to luck out on the fact that she's beautiful...gender doesn't matter to me--it's who you are, whether or not we can hold a conversation, are we intellectually compatible, do you make me laugh, and will you tickle me/let me tickle you? 😛 You are an awesome lady, Raichyll...and I LOVE how you spell your name!!!! THAT IS SO COOL!!!! 🙂

 

[bigpoppadiesel]

aight aight i see that my post has been misintrepreted. im not saying that ur like a HUGE bodybuilder with veins popping out i mean ur more in shape more like a fitness guy from mens health. and the guy that fights wouldnt be a hard ass that walks around trying to fight everyone. this person also has more characteristics than just those. basically what im saying is if you found your sole mate and you HAD to pick one of those 2 characteristics would you rather they have an amazing body or be able to protect you. p.s- its nice to see that it doesnt actually matter to most women.

 

[nessonite1]

Ohh I see...Well if the person I loved suddenly decided to take up either body building or fighting and asked my opinion I'd have to advise them to take up body building.
Thanks for clearing up your question...I thought it was a bizarre thing to ask but it makes more sense now 😛
Body building seems like a more healthy, productive persuit.

 

[Kalamos]

If I had to take up exercise again, I'd say some kind of fighting sport.

Maybe body building is healthier, but I found pumping dead boring.

Besides, a sport helps release tension and pent up energies, while pumping up might make me antagonistic and nervous.

Hey, I mean ME. I don't know how it works for others out there. 😀