Question for the ladies...

[BigNorm]

ok, here's my dilema. i met this woman that i have a crush on, but i'm not sure if she has a foot/tickle fetish. she wheres flip flops alot, and little hints she drops too. like she mentions when she's had a pedicure, and she sorta does miscief stuff to maybe get tickled i think. like she gooses my ribs sometimes and teases me.

i'm afraid to expose that i have a foot and tickle fetish if she doesn't like feet, cause i get easily really embarrased talking about tickling to someone if their not on the same page about tickling as i am. so how can i find out if she is a tickle/foot enthusist without coming off all wierd? cause lemme tell you how great it is to meet someone who's as into tickling as much as you without having to get them to like it. i mean it's just exciting that way.

lemme just stop myself since i'm stuttering and not making sense.

but anyway, with me being a shy kinda guy, i don't wanna screw this one up, since i'm not that experienced with women and tend to get nervous.

 

[nessonite1]

I think I would wait, Normie. It's usually wise to wait to disclose something like that until you know the person well enough that you are sure she will react favorably. Other people probably feel differently but I'd wait until a serious relationship developed before talking about it openly. Of course the best way to see if she is open to it would be to just be yourself and don't go overboard trying to hide your interest. 😛

 

[David Tyler]

Nessonite, I think you're telling him to be a little TOO cautious.

My suggestion? When she gooses you... tickle her back. The first time you can get away with a lot more. If you're in a private or semi private setting, tickle her hard but playfully. Stop before it goes much past a few seconds. You'll be able to tell then if the ice is broken enough to delve in just a little. Make the comment that 'That was fun' and see how she responds.

You'll always need to be a little cautious. Just make it a point to pay attention to her face when you make little comments like that. If she smiles and it looks genuine ( you should be able to tell a forced smile.. they don't last as long as the real ones ), you can kind of guess that she's either interested in you or enjoyed the little horseplay. Maybe both.

Always, always.. I can't stress this enough.. always remember, though, that you need to be a gentleman. Just don't let it scare you into being inactive.

 

[nessonite1]

Too cautious? perhaps...Normie never specified whether he was actually seeing her of not...just that he had a crush on her...I dont want to get him sued or anything. 😛

 

[BigNorm]

yeah, we'rew not going out, but i think she likes me, so i'm definitely gonna ask. and thanks for the help.

 

[AcornaMordor]

I agree with David on one point mainly because I can't remember the others - when she gooses you, tickle back. If this turns into an all-out tickle fight, then you've gone a bit too far. Just give as she gives. Goose - Goose. Ribs - Ribs. If she gooses you more than once in retaliation, then we have potential for a tickle fight. Even if she's Not an enthusiest, she sounds like she digs you, guy. ( <-- mindless college psychobabble)

 

[TickledToDeath]

Next time she mentions that she has had a pedicure, ask if you could see.
IF or when she takes her shoes of and shows you, gently grab a foot to get a good look and run a finger from heel to toes while commenting how nice the pedicure came out(how nice her feet look). IF she specifically mentions when she has had a pedicure, I doubt she "hates" feet.

The rest, just trade poke for poke to the ribs. Let HER take things to another level and shadow her actions.

TTD

 

[BigNorm]

yippie! well i'm very happy!

today i was able to tickle her feet when it looked like she was tempting me and she loved it. she tickled back and we both fell on the floor when i asked if she'd go out with me. to my relief she said "I'd thought you'd never ask." comes to find out she loves tickling as much as i, and i mention the forums here and she said she'd join in a week when she gets her computer problems fixed. i'm glad it turned out for the best, haven't been so nervous and gittery in a while.

but omg, i've never seen such perfect feet in real life. as soon as i buy a new battery for my camera, i'll see if i can take pictures of her soles and feet. i mean talk about baby soft.

i want to thank everyone here for helping me so much. this is truly a tickle family.

*runs off giddy with glee* 😀

 

[ticklefiend30001]

Congrats my friend, its good to hear another guy getting lucky and finding a girl who will not only indulge his likings, but also reciprocates. May you tickle happily ever after.

But I have just noticed that all that you mentioned above happened in about 24 hours. Your either very lucky that this happened all so quick, or living in a fantasy, I hope it is the first for your sake.

 

[BigNorm]

no, this has been going on for weeks, but just today i decided to tickle back and ask the question. Her name is Alisha and she has size 9 1/2 feet, i'll take some pics in a couple weeks when i can get my camera battery.

 

[Camel26]

Yay!!! I love you Norm and I'm so happy for you and your new lady!!! May your days be full of love, joy, and tickle-induced laughter!!!!!!!!

Go get em, tiger!!!

9 and 1/2 feet...that is AWESOME...lotsa foot to tickle!!!!!!

 

[TickledToDeath]

Way to go NORM! Congrats! Ahhhhhh open-ness is a GOOD thing!
A bold step that paid off BIG time!
Friggin EXcellent!

TTD

 

[nessonite1]

*audiend hoots and howls* You go girl! er...dude!

 

[BigNorm]

*blushes* thanks. talk about a big morale and ego booster.

tomorrow we're planning on going bowling, so that should be fun.

*gives everyone a big hug* i love you too, camel.

Sidenote: WOOT! 500TH POST!

 

[David Tyler]

Excellent, Norm.

One of the things that I've noticed is that everyone's natural shyness added to the stigma of being found out as a tickler scares people into inaction.

You have to at least put it out there a little to find your answers. This is true of anything. You play guitar and think you have what it takes to do the band thing? You aren't going to do that from your bedroom. You have to put it out there a little and see what response you get. Same thing with Tickling. There isn't a girl I've been involved with that did include some tickling even before we got involved. In fact, in many cases, it led to being involved.

Too many tickle fetishists see our mutual kink as problem. Me? I see it as a very useful tool. Not only do I achieve satisfaction to some degree, it's also the perfect ice breaker with someone you're interested in. Once you tickle someone.. make that physical contact... you're no longer just an image in that other person's mind. You become real and you become someone, hopefully, that they consider fun.

Norm, again... cudo's to you. Enjoy.. that's what these fetishes are for - to enhance your life not to detract from it.

 

[BigNorm]

thanks, we had a fun time bowling, even if i "Granny bowl" lol