Reed Amber does Q&A on tickling

[hellofatperson]

Reed Amber has indulged in her tickling fetish again and this time, she’s done a full post and Q&A on it. Amazing stuff, great for our community and getting exposure as something that isn’t just for creeps (like how the “Tickled” documentary unfortunately did).

Here’s the post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CO8lZtpsElG/?igshid=z5m2lvzot3nh

The Q&A is on her story.

She also mentioned that that BBC interview will be out in July.

 

[milagros317]

Great Istagram post! Thanks for sharing it here. 😀

 

[Dark Crane]

Great one! I'd never seen so many videos in which a girl talks about tickling ...


Here's her Instagram post:


"I HAVE A TICKLING FETISH �� Not a kink but a full blown fetish and I'm doing everything I can to own the shit out of it! ����

A kink is an uncommon turn-on which many of us have, but a fetish is an object, action or body part you get most of your sexual gratification from. Some people can't orgasm without it. Fetishes are hard-coded in you, it develops during adolescents and becomes a lifetime sexual obsession. In most cases the thing of desire is not sexual in its self eg. feet, latex, armpit hair, nylons, heels, lingerie, spanking etc but we somehow process it as sexual ��

Fetishes can be complicated and can leave people feeling so down about themselves. If their needs aren't being met it can be problematic for relationships and some of us genuinely feel hopeless, unsatisfied and depressed because of it ��

How I felt better about my fetish:
�� Spoke to my therapist
�� Research the psychology behind it
�� Found my online community
�� Created a Fetlife account
�� Engaged in online forums
�� Learnt the lingo - 'lee & 'ler (ticklee & tickler)
�� Paid for porn and artists who specialise in it
�� Put it on my dating profiles
�� Meet like minded people
�� Told close friends/partners (it's still so hard)
�� Go on BBC Tricky podcast talking about it (out July) ��

Tickling is something I've repressed and kept buried for so long, from most of my partners, friends and sexual experiences. In pushing myself at every opportunity to teach myself to be okay with it, I have managed to get to a place where I am proud and excited about it! In doing so I have never felt more whole and complete in my entire life ���� I'm done with my own shame and embarrassment and I hope that in being more open about it with others, more will too!

I have yet to find many women who also have a fetish like me. I cant tell if its just men are more susceptible to fetishes or that they are just more open with it? Where my fetish females at!? ♀️

I will be doing a IGTV on my tickle fetish soon as I can explain things was easier and better in video because there is so much to say! Feel free to ask me any questions about it!

Do you have a fetish? If so what!? Comment and be free of your shame! ��"

 

[Dark Crane]

Always remembering that I use this site do download stories: storysaver.net/

First post with videos:

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[Dark Crane]

Second post with videos:

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[Dark Crane]

Third post with videos:

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[Dark Crane]

What's in each video:

General:

01: She says she's nervous and she'll talk about her fetish
02: She'll be brave
03: She'll talk about it
04: IG Post
05: What's a fetish and why tickling
06: She says she'll answer questions
07: She said "bring it on"

Questions:

08: "How long have you had the fetish?"
09: "Have you only ever had an orgasm when tickling was involved?"
10: "First memories about you tickling fetish? How did you discover it?"
11: "Do you prefer being a 'lee or 'ler? And bondage or no bondage? BTW love your honesty!"
12: "It makes me hurt, does it not hurt you like it's a scary feeling?"
13: "Is it a sort of pain kink?"
14: "How did you realize it was a fetish?"
15: "Not sure I understand. I mean are you super ticklish or is it very little?"
16: "Would tickling alone make you cum?"
17: "Do you tickle yourself and does that fulfill it?"
18: "What's your most ticklish spot and have you ever been tied and tickled?"
19: "Were you often tickled in your youth? Is it in any way notable in your memories?"
20: "How do refrain from reflex kicking when you're being tickled? I couldn't stop myself personally."
21: "What do you think you really like about tickling? What do you sexualize 'bout it?"
22: "Have you fantasised about tickling outside a relationship? How did you cope?"
23: "Is it mainly a pshysical or psychological thing?"
24: "Do you think about tickling to help you get off with a partner when there's no tickling involved?"
25: "Ever been tickled until you safe worded out?"

Last question and ending:

26: "Do you think having your own fetish enables you to be more open minded to others?"
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She talks about the last question in videos 26 - 30 ...

 

[Cave In]

I dunno who she is, but it was really interesting hearing her explain how she came to understand her fetish and her thoughts and feelings on it.

Also she seems to have bookmarked her Insta stories relating to this so if you can't download the links above, but you have instagram then you can watch them on her page still.

 

[munchausen]

I just want to recognize the amount of work that Dark Crane put in above. Thanks, bud!

 

[Dark Crane]

I just want to recognize the amount of work that Dark Crane put in above. Thanks, bud!

You're welcome, my friend!

It's always great to contribute with you on TMF ...

 

[hellofatperson]

Reed Amber’s fetish episode is out now. She is dubbing this her “coming out” about her tickling fetish. Big props to her.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/p09nt03c

 

[cph4141]

big up. mad how confident she got after the nervous first post

 

[Plumb]

Almost certainly on here, or at least has been in the past. In which case: Hi, Reed!