Mr.Teehehe
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Love and respect should always exist together. When you love somebody you make only good things to him or her. When you respect somebody you acknowledge the right of this person to decide about what is actually good for them. Respect in a relationship means that each person values who the other is and understands - and would never challenge - the other person’s boundaries.Combining both feeling together you help your partner to fulfill his/her choice (in case it doesn’t contradict to any of your own principles). But it is terrible if first exist without the second. –Loving partner becomes a maniac helper.Sometimes we missing in our relationship listening in non-judgmental manner, attempting to understand and affirm other’s emotions. Boundaries of self-respect more connected not with feelings but with set of values and beliefs in one’s life. If one partner’s self-respect is higher than the other’s it could easily lead to controlling and dominating behaviour of that one person. When someone loves you, you feel valued, respected and free to be yourself. You shouldn’t be made to feel intimidated or controlled. Someone who loves you should help you to feel good about yourself. This is the main key to a healthy relationship.
^ So true all of that is
And having read that i'm trying to re-group and work on my girl and our Relationship together. Even though she told ''Yeah'' that she agree's on our Relationship that we need to improve things and make it better because i came right out and told her that we need to work on and better our Relationship. Since our little fight a few nights ago on Thursday (which i still feel was all more on her side of things) then mine. With what i said to her.
We have yet to really try to improve and better our Relationship since she barely talks to me now as it is she only talks to me maybe once a day or once a night.
But now days Respect and Love with her towards me? don't seem and sound to be their. And that's sad since my love and Respect is always thier for her and has been. Even with the fight of words that we had a few days ago now. She wants to wash everything under the bridge like it's water under the bridge and she wants to sweep it under the rug like nothing never happend and treat it all like nothing never happend and turn her head away from it. And that's NOT the true mature Adult manner and way to handle anything in life.
I wanna scream at the top of my lungs
^ So true all of that is
And having read that i'm trying to re-group and work on my girl and our Relationship together. Even though she told ''Yeah'' that she agree's on our Relationship that we need to improve things and make it better because i came right out and told her that we need to work on and better our Relationship. Since our little fight a few nights ago on Thursday (which i still feel was all more on her side of things) then mine. With what i said to her.
We have yet to really try to improve and better our Relationship since she barely talks to me now as it is she only talks to me maybe once a day or once a night.
But now days Respect and Love with her towards me? don't seem and sound to be their. And that's sad since my love and Respect is always thier for her and has been. Even with the fight of words that we had a few days ago now. She wants to wash everything under the bridge like it's water under the bridge and she wants to sweep it under the rug like nothing never happend and treat it all like nothing never happend and turn her head away from it. And that's NOT the true mature Adult manner and way to handle anything in life.
I wanna scream at the top of my lungs
