Romance

[HOLLYWOOD]

The hollywood brother wants to start a thread to see what tickler's and ticklee's do for each other to keep the romance alive. There seems to be tons of tickling and flirting which helps people find a soulmate, but the Hollywood Brother wants to know what people do to keep it fresh and to keep the fires of love buring at hot intense temperature. To paraphrase Stevie Nicks, she once talked about how building a fire is easy but the hard part is keeping the flame. The hollywood brother belives that to be true. So with this in mind what do all of you out there do to make your loved one happy and what do you do to keep romance alive?

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

it hard to believe that i am the only one who takes a lady on romantic moonlight walks and cooks for her. there got to be some people out there that still believe in love and romance. the hollywood brother wants to know where are you?

 

[cosquillero1]

The Cosquillero Insaciable tells that both partners must to be honest, lovely and take care of the simplests details, avoid the routine among another things.

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

good answer my brother. testify.. now what aobut all the other 20,000 sick screaming tickle maniacs out there

 

[cosquillero1]

Thanks you for your words. But, what you think?, What's your answer about of this topic?.

 

[Raichyll1]

Interesting question. Unfortunately, I don't have any answers that are specific to tickling couples. The only long standing tickle relationship I have is with someone who is more of a friend than a boyfriend. I do think that for a relationship to thrive both people must find their bliss, as well as have a partner who encourages them to follow it--be whole in and of themselves before they fill in the holes with someone else.

 

[Camel26]

For my Ler, as I am madly in love with her, and love making her smile (and it's been a rough few weeks for her due to personal stuff), I make sure to remember the simple things--her favorite juice, or chocolate, or rose...and if I see anything that makes me think of her, and I have an extra dollar on me, I go get it for her on my way home from work...and pick flowers off of wherever I happen to be and bring them to her...make time to just cuddle...make anniversaries (monthly ones, as it hasn't been a year yet) special in some way, whether it's dinner, or a movie, or just something to get out of the apartment, take time to talk/listen (especially listen), and then, of course, there's always the good old handy dandy method of going out and spending $150 on sex toys!!! That's what I do...and so far, sooooooooo good!!! That's my story!!! How's that, HB??? Love and sex, for us, don't always involve tickling...which is why when it does happen, it's so special!!! I LOVE MY LER!!!

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

some goodanswers are coming out now. some of the things the hollywood brother has done include bringing a box of very expensive fancy choclates on a first date, walking on the wildwood boardwalk looking at the moon around 3:00 in the morning. Also when i am in a relationship i try to make it a point to say i love you more than once in a blue moon. other tactics by the hollywood brother include suprises like a nice night out, concert tickets, flowers, and things like that. One time recently the hollywood brother started talking to a very nice lady online through this site and one of the first conversations this beautiful lady mentioned she liked something. so the hollywood brother went out next day and got it. The thinking was if the hollywood brother ever got a date with this person, he would have something to give her. Right now it been almost a month since this person been on this site so i have not gone out with her yet, but the item still sits in my car trunk for her.

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

now as far as the sex toy thing, the hollywood brother do have to admit that he has also done what camel26 has done on a few occasions.

 

[Raichyll1]

Every person is different when it comes to things like this; sometimes you just have to go with what works for the two of you, whatever is special to you as a couple. For example: I once dated one of my bandmates, and when we first started dating we were sitting around the studio one night listening to music. We had a blast playing things for each other that the other had never heard before, and this was what we were doing when he suddenly said: "I feel like we should go to the movies."

This was so out of the blue that I just looked at him and asked. "Why?"

His answer was, "Well, we're going out and that's what you're supposed to do."

I said, "Is there a movie you want to see?"

He said, "Well..., no, but..."

I asked, "Are you having fun doing what we're doing?"

He said, "Yeah!"

I replied, "I'm having fun too, so why should we go do something neither of us want so to do just because it's what everyone else thinks we should be doing?"

You never know what might be romantic to someone until you take the time to get to know them, take the time to really listen to each other. Sometimes sharing your time, thoughts, and feelings is more romantic than how much money you spend, or what kind of gifts you think up with. Being in the same space and doing something together that you both love can be extremely romantic without costing anything more than a willingness to be who you truly are with each other.