Same Ticklish Spots - Sign of your soulmate?

[Cheshire Cat]

I've always been a firm believer in the concept of the soulmate (or "solemate", if you prefer 😀). The one person that you are meant to be with for the rest of your life. I do believe the girl I'm with now is indeed my soulmate and that I will be spending the rest of my life with. Quite recently I discovered a fact that somehow (for me at least) reinforced that idea. We both have the same really ticklish spot, under our thighs near where it meets the butt. Its an interesting idea I know. Also, we are ticklish and not ticklish in near exact locations on each others bodies. Anyone else here think this could be a sign? At least among "our kind"? (damn that sounds wierd....LOL) Any couples out there have similar situations?

 

[Cheshire Cat]

Um....

Okay.....guess not..

 

[ForgottenTcklr]

Well Chesire,

You can run with it if you'd like.

I simply try not to let myself get superstitious with love ideals. But...

"Whatever floats your boat!"

 

[giggledude]

It's a dangerous concept for survivors. (Raises hand.) At the time, I had fairly good reason to believe in the concept, as noone on earth ever sees there being any point in me and someone did for no apparent reason, which was certainly strong evidence in favour of the theory. But if I'd bought into it entirely, now I'd be basically just marking time with the rest of a life already as good as over.

What's always been interesting about your threads, CC, (and this is much more of an observation than any sort of comment about what's observed) is that you've seemed to come right out of the pages of *Emma*, combining the superiour mind of Emma and the easily-moved heart of her protegee Harriet. This thread seems not quite in tune with what had appeared to be your general character - you'd come across as something of a serial monogamist (very Harriet) rather than the soulmate type. I shall have to adjust my ideas, but that's usually an agreeable exercise; it's nice that one's ideas can still be adjusted.

 

[Cheshire Cat]

Gah???

I am sorry man, but I have no clue what the hell you just said! LOL. I got the Emma reference, but as for everything else your wording was quite peculiar....

One thing I can say about my manner of posting is that its the same way I am in real life. I've always been known as that guy who starts up the really interesting conversation, but never comes to any conclusion himself, or start an argument, hear out the various sides, than completely shift gears and argue from the other standpoint!....people have told me I"m a "conversation inspiration" if anything (the main reason why my pothead friends love blazing up with me 😀)

As for the "serial monogomist" idea, I have always been a hopeless romantic no matter who I was with, always hoping that this one was "the one" so to speak....if you knew me in person you'd also see how effeminite I really am and how I actually think like a woman! LOL (never had much masculine influence growing up)

 

[Darkknight]

Interesting idea with soulmates.

I always knew mine (soulmate) would be ticklish since I was a kid.
I'm not ticklish (probably am but don't really know it) and my soulmate from long ago was ticklish everywhere but her feet (my fav spot). I'm banking on the theory there are more than one soulmates to a person and well.. she's gonna be ticklish too.

But as in your theory Cheshire...
Whatever works for you my friend. 🙂

DK

 

[giggledude]

CC, I may have been more vague than usual out of fear that you'd take the analogy as an insult. Glad you didn't; it wasn't intended as such.

On reflection, I think what struck me was that your Harriet speed didn't quite seem to match a "soulmate" type of person, or, to put it another way, that you might think soulmates were made, not born. At least, most of the other people I know who are as quick as you to fall in love don't tend to believe in the soulmate idea, that they were destined to be with this one person and noone else. The people I know who believe in soulmates are usually much more like Emma about getting into relationships. The fear, I suppose, is that they'll get into a relationship with the wrong person and then meet the soulmate. And then of course the real Emma imagines she has a soulmate and half talks herself into being in love with him before she realizes that it's someone else entirely (though I don't think Mr Knightley is really Emma's soulmate, especially as he doesn't really start being interested in Emma until after he finds Jane Fairfax to be more reserved than she used to be), whereas Harriet, who jumps from Robert Martin to Mr Elton to Mr Knightley on any encouragement at all, turns out to have had the soulmate in Robert Martin all along. So it's a fine muddle, and maybe that explains it.

Actually I just had a flash of memory - do you know who Michael Szymanski is? I want to try to look up something, but I'll get back to this.

 

[TicklingIsLife]

Personally I would want somebody with different ticklish spots, if they are the same as you, its like tickling yourself.🙂