Sex and Tickling

[lantongblack]

Dear all let me introduce myself 1st, i've been lurking here for a few years,and i wan take this chance to thank all of u who make this forum wonderful. It has been a very pleasant stay...

There's only 1 slight problem i m having...see, i have been masturbating since i was like, 12... at that time, i was looking at magazine's model's feet, or some recorded movie with foot and tickling scenes... then, finally, TMF and TT's vidclips...

Last week i went thailand with my frens, we all hired prostitude...and the problem i hav is...i cant ejaculate...it seems impossible as i was able to masturbate up to 2-3 times a day successfully... this is my 1st time having sex and sad to say, i DONT enjoy it...i CANT enjoy it to be accurate..i dunno wats wrong...

could it be that 1st time sex is never good? or issit i musturbated too much? or i m into tickling and feet only...without the tickling n feet scenes i'm unable to enjoy sex? (well,the prostitude's feet aint attractive and ofcoz she wont allow me to tie her up n tickle her or she might complain 2 her frens which will tell my frens that i hav tickling fetish,i cant let my frens know)

dear all veteran, please help the confused little one(me) on this and share some opinion, ok? thank u all vr much

 

[Papabear1]

While this does not happen to me all the time I can sympathize with you. If I am having trouble during regular sex tickling or sometimes even thinking about it will push things right again. It is possible that subconciously (sp) you did not find the prostitute even attractive or the fact that her feet were not attractive to you just turned you off. Remember that sex is about 95% mind and 5% penis, females are even more mind than physical. Don't beat yourself up over it. First of all unless you physically hurt yourself masturbating that is not it. You can not just run out of juice so to speak we always make more. If it is really getting to you talk to a doctor, not a phsyciatrist (sp) an MD and see if there is a medical thing going on but if you can still ejaculate while masturbating then you are fine. Just relax and next time pick someone with better looking feet. Good luck.

 

[cosquillero1]

Dear all let me introduce myself 1st, i've been lurking here for a few years,and i wan take this chance to thank all of u who make this forum wonderful. It has been a very pleasant stay...

There's only 1 slight problem i m having...see, i have been masturbating since i was like, 12... at that time, i was looking at magazine's model's feet, or some recorded movie with foot and tickling scenes... then, finally, TMF and TT's vidclips...

Last week i went thailand with my frens, we all hired prostitude...and the problem i hav is...i cant ejaculate...it seems impossible as i was able to masturbate up to 2-3 times a day successfully... this is my 1st time having sex and sad to say, i DONT enjoy it...i CANT enjoy it to be accurate..i dunno wats wrong...

could it be that 1st time sex is never good? or issit i musturbated too much? or i m into tickling and feet only...without the tickling n feet scenes i'm unable to enjoy sex? (well,the prostitude's feet aint attractive and ofcoz she wont allow me to tie her up n tickle her or she might complain 2 her frens which will tell my frens that i hav tickling fetish,i cant let my frens know)

dear all veteran, please help the confused little one(me) on this and share some opinion, ok? thank u all vr much

How old you are ?. I don't know exactly what's your trouble. The most of the women with whom i have had sex, i've tickled them without to tie them, only tickling as part of sex games and i've never had troubles with them. Only one girl with whom i had sex, i didn't tickle her, because she isn't ticklish, but i was very in love with her, so that i felt very attracted by her. But if you need to tie a girl for to tickle her and then to have sex with her, then you'll need to get a gf willing to please you, or try to analyse how important is to tie a girl for you. If you discover that you need to tie a girl to tickle her, then possibly you're bdsm fetishist more than tickle fetishist and in this case you'll have to get a girl who shares this fetish with you. Good luck.

 

[skull108]

Remember that sex is about 95% mind and 5% penis.

rly?? i tought it whas 95% penis and 5% mind

 

[James Brown]

rly?? i tought it whas 95% penis and 5% mind

Your mind is your most important sexual organ! Always remember that my friend...

 

[MistressValerie1]

Having sex for the first time is often difficult but it's usually nothing to worry about. Being nervous or drinking too much alcohol can also interfere with sex. If you're going to hire someone again, for best results, make sure that she has attractive feet :super_hap

 

[FeatherFeet]

lol my first time i had sex was with a woman who knew perfectly well my tickle fetish. the problem was i was nervous and so i'd spend a few miuntes tickling her, and be totally hard and then try to go in her, then it would just disintigrate, so id tickle her again, get all hard again and go bk, and it'd shrivel up again. we had to work in a really akward position so i could tickle her at the same time i was in her. it did the trick though.

since then, ive gotten better at using my imagination (the fact that that girl wasn't the true one didn't help much either) but i think its more about attraction to the person itself too.

although to be honest, im really not that into sex. (id rather tickle play then go masturbate myself honestly) as weird as that sound sfor a guy. oh well, just me.

 

[eagphilly]

I agree with the above advice that a lot of it is a mental and emotional state of mind. My advice is to relax and let what turns you on....turn you on. Whomever your first partner is, make her aware of what turns you on (tickling, feet, fill in the blank 😉 ), that way when she's trying to get you going she knows what you want. A girl who really likes you wants to see you completely satisfied. I say this out of experience: share your fetish!
What good is intercourse if your not getting what you want? Both sides need to feel a deep attraction to make it feel like sex, not just be it by definition and position. A lot of women in the world don't think tickling is a freaky thing.

It's all how you make it to be, if you make it look like a big deal, then it might scare her. If you say, "this is what turns me on, and I have the trust in you to share it with you", odds are she won't freak out. A girl that really doesn't like tickling isn't fit for you, sex will always feel this way if you dont find someone you can't get aroused with -_-
Ok that was long...but I speak through experience!! Share and don't be afraid! Next thing you...sex won't be a hard thing at all ^_^
Good luck :3

 

[duck171]

Great advice from both of the writers above. Take it to heart, and try it.

 

[lantongblack]

Thank u so much all my fellow friends... deeply apprciate it...i thought i m an oddball or smth...never thought foot n tickling fetish could b in my way for normal sex life...but..like u say, let wat turns me on..turns me on... 😉 any1 hav other interesting tricks up his sleeves on how 2 get a girl into tickling so i could really play all nite? :super_hap