Sam, Mark, Bill and Tom are sitting around, playing poker, drinking beer and asking each other hypothetical questions.
Sam: Hey Mark, if I was holding a gun to your head and told you to have sex with Bill or I'd shoot you, would you do it?
Mark: Ahh... No. No, I really don't think so Sam.
Sam: O.K. What if Tom was holding the gun and he told you to have sex with Bill or he'd shoot you, would you do it?
Tom: (blink, blink) Ahh Sam, I don't think who's holding the gun is the real issue here.
Bill: Who's holding the gun to my head in these questions?
Sam: Hey Mark, if I was holding a gun to your head and told you to have sex with Bill or I'd shoot you, would you do it?
Mark: Ahh... No. No, I really don't think so Sam.
Sam: O.K. What if Tom was holding the gun and he told you to have sex with Bill or he'd shoot you, would you do it?
Tom: (blink, blink) Ahh Sam, I don't think who's holding the gun is the real issue here.
Bill: Who's holding the gun to my head in these questions?
