Should I stop dreaming?

[Todd Tickles]

I'm a 34 year old guy who looks 27, and is insanely cute, and handsome, and intelligent, and funny, and disgustingly fun. I treat women with respect and have been dreaming of finding a girl to hang out with, who has the same fetish I do. I live in Colorado, and love to ski, hike, bike, camp, and tickle. It's insane to me that I can't find a good looking, sweet girl who is ticklish. My last girlfriend of two years was stunning looking, smart and NOT ticklish. Please tell me my princess is out there somewhere. I have an exiting, adventurous occupation, I'm 6'1'', swimmers body, thick jet black hair(short) deep set hazel eyes, great athelete, and a lover of all things ticklish.

Pweeease tell me you're out there somewhere, my sweet, ticklish princess.

T

 

[Krokus]

Lol...

there is someone for you....just find her...don't let the time pass waiting, go out and look.

 

[asutickler]

Krokus is right. There's someone out there for everyone... but there's no guarantee that you'll meet them. You've gotta go out and hunt. Seek, and ye shall find!


Oh, and on a related note... Well... Don't take this the wrong way, but a little modesty never killed anyone... Nor hindered their search for a mate, might I add! 😛

 

[Ticklegrrrl]

absolutely out there

Don't despair, someone is absolutely out there for you! Just hang in there. I just started dating someone who I've been friends with for 8 years, so sometimes you have chemistry with people that you don't suspect you will at all. Keep looking you never know where you might find someone sometimes they're right under your nose (hey, I'm a total non-romantic and I'm starting to actually believe this! it's true).



ticklegrrrl in love

 

[Todd Tickles]

ASU tickler,

I realize how cocky I sound, but I simply don't care anymore. Brutal honesty is how I'm going to find a great, sexy, ticklish girl. Especailly if she happens to live in Colorado, and is reading my post.If a girl is going to take a chance, and write back to me, she needs to know things like, I'm a college graduate, I'm smart, I'm funny, I'm great looking, I'm not some weird scrawny balding freak, who smokes crack, and lives in a shoebox. A good looking, sweetheart of a girl, who's ticklish, fun, and smart, and dated "normal" guys all her life, needs to know that I come from a great family, and I'm a HOTTY. Not to mention, I'm hyper ticklish myself! Is there any girls who want to meet a guy like me? Please say "hi"

😕

 

[Krokus]

Hm...

well Todd....I don't think any women will be interested in someone who loves to kiss their own a$$....just my opinion....no offense, lol.

 

[Phineas]

I realize how cocky I sound, but I simply don't care anymore.

...then I hope you enjoy the single life, because you'll probably be living it for a looong time.

Brutal honesty is how I'm going to find a great, sexy, ticklish girl.

no, it's not. And I'm sure I'm not the only married person here who will attest to this.

 

[asutickler]

Why am I suddenly reminded of that recurring sketch on SNL with the two "party guys" constantly bobbing their heads to "Baby Don't Hurt Me?" 😀

 

[ShiningIce]

Honesty?????? ROFLMAO

 

[Todd Tickles]

........anyway.............

Yes Honesty.

I'm totally sexy, beautiful, and confident. Not to mention caring, totally thoughtful, and a great boyfriend. I treat people with respect, and don't post things on message boards that are spiteful, or rude. I didn't ask people for your negative opinions. It's not like I walk around in real life with this sort of cocky attitude for god's sake, this is a website! No girls want to read the garbage thats spewed all over the board, from mostly ugly, fat bald guys who have a thing for smelling a girls feet or whatever. Don't act all jealouos, and hateful, just because my opinion of myself is a good one. If you want to sit here and waste your time slammig me, I couldn't care less, but don't expect to hurt my feelings, or change my attitude, with your petty insults. I have dated amazing women all my life because I'm a great guy, who is very attractive, I just haven't met any women that have a tickle fetish yet. If no ladies want to respond to my post, I totally understand, I sound way to cocky for you and that's fine, just don't come in here and act all high and mighty, like I didn't realize I was going out on a limb by letting people know that IM A TICKLISH HOTTIE WHO LOVES TO TICKLE! i KNOW HOW IT SOUNDS, and I don't need any psudo psycologists, telling me that no girl will like such a arrogant guy. GEE REALLY!!!!! I know there are some open minded ticklish women out there who are willing to take a chance. Where are you?

 

[Iggy pop]

I don't think there was anything wrong with this guy's post with the exception it may have belonged in the Personals section. I didn't think he sounded that arrogant. Well, maybe his last post did, but his first post is something you would see in the personals all the time.

The only suggestion I have is that you may want to look in the real world. This is not the best place to meet women since this board is probably 97% male. I'm not saying it is not worth a shot, but it is just not a very good one.

PS

I'm not bald or fat

 

[Raul]

Todd, you spelled pseudo wrong.

Raul

 

[Todd Tickles]

I did? How do you spell it then? 😛

 

[Deleted member 2452]

Re: ........anyway.............

Yes Honesty.

I'm totally sexy, beautiful, and confident. Not to mention caring, totally thoughtful, and a great boyfriend. I treat people with respect, and don't post things on message boards that are spiteful, or rude. I didn't ask people for your negative opinions. It's not like I walk around in real life with this sort of cocky attitude for god's sake, this is a website! No girls want to read the garbage thats spewed all over the board, from mostly ugly, fat bald guys who have a thing for smelling a girls feet or whatever. Don't act all jealouos, and hateful, just because my opinion of myself is a good one. If you want to sit here and waste your time slammig me, I couldn't care less, but don't expect to hurt my feelings, or change my attitude, with your petty insults. I have dated amazing women all my life because I'm a great guy, who is very attractive, I just haven't met any women that have a tickle fetish yet. If no ladies want to respond to my post, I totally understand, I sound way to cocky for you and that's fine, just don't come in here and act all high and mighty, like I didn't realize I was going out on a limb by letting people know that IM A TICKLISH HOTTIE WHO LOVES TO TICKLE! i KNOW HOW IT SOUNDS, and I don't need any psudo psycologists, telling me that no girl will like such a arrogant guy. GEE REALLY!!!!! I know there are some open minded ticklish women out there who are willing to take a chance. Where are you?

you'll have to excuse me, but i must coment. btw, i hope you find the lady you are questing for.
if you're so confident, why are you asking this question to begin with?
and you say you are beautifull?!?! um, thats a term usually reserved for women, it worries me that as man would use it to describe himself. and maybe that's the problem, maybe you come off as being too in love with yourself, and that's a big turn off for women.
well i don't mean to sound negative, so i'll stop now. good luck again
steve

 

[Novus]

Just remember this old saying

Those who exalt themselves shall be humbled in life and in death.
Those who humble themselves shall be exalted.

Humble yourself now or you will be humbled when you grow old and become one of those <I>"ugly, fat, bald guys who has a thing for smelling a girl's feet or whatever." </I>

 

[TickledToDeath]

I am sure she is out there for you bro!

Be patient...be persistant in your search while not seeming or appraring desperate.

There are women out there who are looking for someone like YOU!

You may find her here in TMF land.
You may find her in other tickle venues(personals,yahoo clubs etc).
You may find her on the slopes!
Women who are funloving and way better than average, "Playful" and those with a wacky sense of humor are very good possibilities that they will love tickling not knowing that there is a "Community" of us out here!

When you least expect it, she will be there!

It happened to me my friend, right here in the TMF (chat room).


Dream on and DON'T give up!!! EVER!!!


TTD😀 😉 😎

 

[MegaDanX15]

I agree with Iggy, this probably isn't the best place to meet women. While people come across really friendly over the boards, and by all means they are, a lot of that comes from the security the message board offers. You're not talking one on one with someone, no ones going to judge you, and many people take comfort in that; but lets be honest, the TMF isn't a dating service.

As for the "mightier than thou" attitude, Todd, call me crazy, I don't think it scores many women. It's pretty easy to say you're good looking. Look, I can do it too:
"Hey ladies! I'm a HOTTIE thats HYPER TICKLISH and is looking for the right ticklish princess! Jump on me! I'm sexy! Did I mention how sexy I am?"

But then again, Todd, if ya got it, flaunt it.

Dan

P.S. I'm neither bald nor fat either.😀

 

[4Pawz]

Todd, I agree with the majority in that yes, that there is someone for everyone, but also true that you must search for her. As a female in my profession, you see a lot of good looking guys with great personalities, who make a great living; but many of them are very arrogant. True, women, at least this one, like confident men, but there is a line between arrogance and confidence. I am not saying you are arrogant, because I do not know you, just giving a hint.
The other is, I would not search for looks, search for personality. A great personality is what attracts me to a guy. You can be the most "beautiful" guy ever, but if you don't have personality, your seekers will turn elsewhere, same for the opposite.

Guess what I am saying is, keep up the search, be open, and don't be afraid to be patient and wait for the right girl. Every person deserves to have someone to love and to be loved, yours is out there. Good luck🙂

Pawz

 

[Zebra]

Todd...Good luck in finding her!

The MAJORITY of the responses to your post are JUST what I have come to expect from these people. No real support...no true community, just a "Sure, sure, whatever...You're Screwed" answer.

Here's a quote from Phineas...
"then I hope you enjoy the single life, because you'll probably be living it for a looong time."


I used to come here and want to participate...to join in with people who had the same interest as I did...Tickling. This response from Phineas is EXACTLY why I don't like these boards. Why do I still come here? Because it's still the best site on the web.

Todd...She is out there! Keep looking, and yes, honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.

(Actually, from previous posts, I'm surprised that Phineas says that he attests to having to lie to get his wife...)

 

[Phineas]

Well Zebra, seeing as how you're A) missing the entire point of this thread, B) at a complete loss as to why people object to posts like Todds, and C) hell-bent on singling me out for personal attacks, it's only fair that I set you straight.

A) I and the others who are posting to this thread are basically telling Todd that if he approaches women with the same attitude he is displaying toward us in this thread, all but the most dim-bulbed among them is going to find his (perceived) arrogance a major turn-off. I didn't find a wonderful wife by swaggering around proclaiming my hotness to all who would listen, and as I, like many others here, achieved the goal Todd is hoping to (that of marrying a fine woman), I (and others, I'd imagine) would hope that our advice should be heeded.

B) You'll notice, unless you're extremely thick, that the only posts here that get criticized as heavily as they do are the ones that deserve it. Has anyone said word one to Tummyfan about posting a different variation on "gee, I like tummies! who's with me?" every day for the past two weeks? No, because he's allowed to voice his opinion just like everyone else. On the other hand, when people post asking about, say, the general consensus of kidnapping hired help or stalking women at work, we're going to come down on them hard because these are BAD IDEAS. If you ask for our feedback on them, you WILL get trashed. Sharing of opinions, and everything. You don't want to hear them, don't ask for them. You think we're too nasty, don't come back anymore. Certainly don't hide in the corners and whine about how nasty we are, because we (I, at least) am not going to sit back and go, "gee, you're right, maybe I *shouldn't* have told that guy he was a whackjob for thinking it's okay to grope women on the subway, even though he wanted to know what I thought."

C) I challenge you, seeing as how you're so well-acquainted with my posting history, to find a single instance of where I've ever lied or been dishonest about anything to anyone. If I *was* keen on dishonesty, I wouldn't be posting things like what I said to Todd. Speaking of which, I did not have to "lie" to get a wife. My wife and I have an open, honest, trusting relationship and we can tell each other anything and everything... as it should be. What I did NOT do, however, was fall all over myself to impress upon her how smart/witty/wonderful/hot/amazing I was in order to knock her socks off. I was myself, which is pretty laid back. Turned out she was perceptive enough to see that, through my lifestyle, outlook, and achievements, that I was the sort of man she wanted to marry. It didn't take an amazing diamond ring proclaiming my wealth or a Gucci wardrobe. And if I had gone to such lengths, it probably would not have lasted until the second date.

System.exit(0);

 

[Zebra]

"I (and others, I'd imagine) would hope that our advice should be heeded. "


Read his original post again. He's not even asking for your advice. Where in his original post did he ask for advice? He's wondering if she's out there. If he wants to look for a woman that will accept HIM...for who he IS, then wish him good luck and go on! Why do you insist on trying to say "This is the wrong way...do it this way" to him? He wants someone to love that has specific characteristics, and he wants to be loved for HIS specific traits as well. If that includes (using the terms already used here to describe him) cockiness, confidence, exatling himself, then let him find that woman. She IS out there.

This was not a personal attack, Phineas...I named you as one poster, but the majority of the posts on this are "You're so wrong for doing it this way" toward Todd.

Read the reply by TickledToDeath...That's the support I would think this we in this community can give to each other, rather than the
"...then I hope you enjoy the single life, because you'll probably be living it for a looong time" type response.

 

[Phineas]

Read his original post again. He's not even asking for your advice. Where in his original post did he ask for advice?

...the fact that he's posting HERE looking for a mate tells me he's having a hard time finding one through more conventional channels. Given that women are generally willing to explore the likes of their mates, and given the attitude shown in this thread, I would be willing to wager that the relationships went sour not solely due to a tickling issue. But that's just what I see based on the evidence presented. You'll notice I didn't get snarky with Todd until he'd already gotten high-and-mighty with other respondants who were suggesting he tone down the ego.

Why do you insist on trying to say "This is the wrong way...do it this way" to him?

...again. He's looking for a woman here on the TMF, most likely because he hasn't found one through other channels. This indicates difficulty in "solving" his particular problem. I would expect that insight from those who *have* reached the end of the race would be worthwhile. Especially when such a glaringly obvious flaw (arrogance) is manifesting itself.

He wants someone to love that has specific characteristics, and he wants to be loved for HIS specific traits as well. If that includes (using the terms already used here to describe him) cockiness, confidence, exatling himself, then let him find that woman. She IS out there.

...and warning him that the road may be very long and hard given his current way of traversing it is fair, I'd imagine.

This was not a personal attack, Phineas...I named you as one poster, but the majority of the posts on this are "You're so wrong for doing it this way" toward Todd.

...I'm sorry, but I consider mentioning me by name two or three times as a prime example of what's wrong with the entire forum and insinuating things about my marraige to be a rather clear case of personal attack. Your mileage may vary, obviously.

Read the reply by TickledToDeath...That's the support I would think this we in this community can give to each other, rather than the
"...then I hope you enjoy the single life, because you'll probably be living it for a looong time" type response.
[/B]

you reap what you sow, I'm afraid.

I won't be addressing this again.

 

[ForgottenTcklr]

Todd,

I can emphasize with you 110%. I have always felt the same way. It's not that we are anything special, or at least that's not our intent to prove. We simply feel that we should have someone to share our lives with. I often wonder what it is I am doing wrong that makes it so I don't have someone with me. I mean, I have always felt that I was fairly good looking, intelligent, level headed, and talented. And really (besides this post) I don't have an ego, anf I try my hardest to be a nice kind person. I really don't think of myself as anything great. Everyone is equal in my books, and my desire to serve God tells me to put others above me. But I am confident. So I don't know why I seem to stay single?

It's a great question Todd, and I wish I had the answer!!!

 

[Todd Tickles]

WoW!

I never expected so much contraversy. It's hilarious too, because ANYONE who knows me would never in a milion years say I'm cocky, or arrogant. It's just that when I'm on a message board like this, hoping someone is looking for a guy like me, I figure, if they are going to take a chance and write back to me, they are going to want to know everything about me. I just wanted to let the seeker know that if she dares take a chance, and writes me back, she doesn't have to worry about the usual things people worry about when responding to a random guy on a message board. I'm attractive, big deal, it's not like I'm walking around in real life telling that to everyone, or even thinking it for that matter.

If I was searching for a girl on the TMF, and came across a post from one, I'd LOVE it if she mentioned in her post that she was undoubtably good looking, I wouldn't think she's cocky, just making a quicker path toward getting to know her. Also, this is very rare for me, I don't usually go out looking for girls on the internet, but this site is to great to pass up putting a post on. In any case, I'm still here and waiting for a great looking, sweetheart of a girl to come forward and take a chance, and at least let me know that you're interested, even though you may be shy. 😀

 

[P50]

<B><I>Raul wrote:</B> Todd, you spelled pseudo wrong.</I>

If it were really wrong, then someone might need to do something.