Slow & Sensual

[hazelf1]

I always advocate slow and sensual but once the tickling and striping build up it turns into a tickle frenzy the slow and sensual rapidly becomes the frantic and rough, with gentle sensual going out the window,The excitment takes over. How is it with you:

 

[likeasong1]

I would think that starting off slow and sensual would make the victim itch more than anything, but then again, maybe that's when it's being done wrong.

I like to start with playful tickliing, and then go full frantic and rough.

 

[Adam Tickles]

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Some times slow and sensual can be a real turn on and build the ticklishness. Once with my ex girlfriend we where sitting on the sofa watching tv together but she had her feet right across me and almost in my face. i hadnt told her i had a fetish but took the opportunity to pretend to massage her feet, i began to slowly and teasingly drag my fingers up and down her soles, i did this several times and kept getting told off for it, it turned up into a full on make out slash her trying to tickle me back session as her 'revenge on me 😉 ' lol and lets say later it improved as well


so sometimes slow and sensual works 🙂
:blinklol😎stickout🙂

 

[likeasong1]

Sweet, I'll have to try that out next time.

 

[MrTicklefeet1]

Finally! Yes, slow and sensual rules. Slowly excite the skin, it's great fun. I love to get that rolling laughter going, doesn't have to get loud and frantic. Well, maybe sometimes. 😉

 

[tickledallover]

Slow and Sensual

Slow and sensual all the way for me. None of this frantic torturous stuff.

 

[mustang]

I like slow and sensual tickling, because that usually causes the toes to move around in sexy ways. I like to modulate the tickling just to the point where the 'lee attempts to pull back, them I rub the tickle out until she regains her composure and then start the cycle all over again. I don't like frantic responses to the tickling. That is so distracting. To me foot tickling is an erotic art. I like to tickle in a way that makes the experience last a long time and until I am about to shoot in my pants.

 

[ticklefan22]

Definitely slow and sensual. It's most erotic to me when it's kind of playful, and if it got too "rough" I don't think I would enjoy it.

 

[shad.moss]

To me, tickling slowly is sxier than tickle torture.
If I had a girlfriend, I would tickle her feet very slowly

 

[mustang]

hazelf, I usually like slow and sensual tickling of feet but what you described sounds so hot that it may change my mind.

 

[hazelf1]

hazelf, I usually like slow and sensual tickling of feet but what you described sounds so hot that it may change my mind.

I always try to work around the lee and with the lee, so if the lee is new its a exploration trip to find the point (the exact point) where the lee is at maximum satisfaction.

This could be near orgasmic, it could be near breaking point, or in a bout of insane laughter.

If iam tickling i'am happy if stripping, bondage, sex, or any other fetish is involved then iam even more happy.

All this is of no use if the lee isn't happy to a similar or same degree, after all its no good tickling pits if she is needing her feet tickling.

Once iam familiar to the lees needs its then a case of seeing what mood she is in and getting the tickling right to suit and it very often goes from slow and sennsual to the other extreme.

Sometimes its a disaster even when we may have tickled several times before it doesn't all ways end in a perfect situation not by a long way.

Look at the comments passed in the stripping the lee thread its a sort of build up to the slow and sensual and then goes on from there.

Conversation and mind games can help to lead into a good situation.

 

[love feet]

thats the best way!.

 

[Duke Diablo]

Now you're speaking my language, hazelf. Slow and sensual is my favourite way to do tickling. Especially when done with mind-games.

See, what I think is that, if their mind is in the right frame, a single stroke of a feather can be worse than a thousand brushes. If the tickler has built up the suspense, accented on how helpless they are, and made their mind a wrack, even the lightest, tickly touch can be very torturous.

A build-up I really like is when the ticklee is bound helplessly, with a blindfold over her eyes. She can't see, and all the other senses are getting heightened. So, I would slowly walk up to her, taking my time so she can savour the sensation of helplessness - of not knowing where I am, of where my fingers are, and when the tickling is going to begin.

Then, I would whisper in her ear: "I am going to tickle you, for a very long time." And just as those words would leave my lips, I would accent it with a light touch of my index finger on her belly, making slow, small circles on that very spot. Just enough to tickle only very lightly, and to carry a point.

The whispers and the caress would continue: "It will take a while... a long while... but you are going to break. Oh, yes... touch after touch after touch, I will bring you to that beautifully awful place between heaven and hell. That place in your mind where each and every touch will drive you crazy... in all the best and worst ways. Each and every little stroke will feel so torturous - you'll be sure you won't be able to stand one more - but also so good - you will yearn for... crave the next one. And it's going to go on and on... no breaks. No mercy. At least not for a long... long time."

And with that, I'd stand up, stopping the touch and letting my precious ticklee think about my words for a while. I would further taunt her lack of sight by doing so - she wouldn't know where I was - was I at a safe distance, or was I looming somewhere, just millimetres away from her skin? Why the delay? What would be in my mind? And the images of what would happen when I would start tickling - oh, how vivid and numerous they would be.

I would accent this anticipation by light touches upon her ticklish spots... a quick swipe of finger along the sole, a breath of air on the tummy, a quick kiss to the thigh or neck...

Slowly, but surely, I would be homing in the light, infrequent touches to the one place where I would decide to start. I would herald the place to her with my touches, letting her think about what happens when I actually get to that place. And then, when the spot would be picked, and the touches would zone in on it, I would whisper: "Are you ready?"

And with that, the slow, sensual tickling would begin.

Sorry for being so long - but you got me started. :stickout My point is, slow and sensual is my favourite, especially when topped with a good mind-game before the tickling start. I want my ticklee to feel the tickling, but also to feel those good, pleasant impulses coursing through their body. I want to bring them to the edge of orgasm and keep them there for a very long time before finally offering them that final, beautiful release - all, if possible, using only tickling (sex would come later). When I am a tickler, I prefer working my best to please my ticklee.

And, of course, after-care is very, very important, too.

 

[hazelf1]

Thanks for your comment Duke, iam certain that we are preaching from the same hymn sheet.

After care is a shower warm towels and a massage and suprise suprise the lee somtimes is ready for a tender love making situation which often is going to be earth shatteringly sensual.

Don't ever worry about giving a long reply to any of my posts or going on, i often do go on in more ways than one.

I like any comments good or bad we all learn from it and help each other its the control and submission i like as well as the tickling and bondage not to mention the humiliation aspect, sorry iam going on well its my favorite subject.

 

[paracarl44]

Slow and sensual for me, because it leads to lovemaking.

 

[tkl]

Definitely slow and sensual. I've never found tickling that involves poking and grabbing to be very exciting. I like the slow build up of laughing and struggling and gentle caressing with fingertips and nails. Then the transition to erotic sensual arousal and a bit of orgasm denial for buildup of excitement and tension leads to quite a wonderfully intense release for my partner at the end.

 

[bold1]

Self-control in a ler is essential when doing a tickle torture session. I have an incredible tickle fetish and when I am the ler I can often get so excited that I jump into sex before I really want to.-- As a lee (which I prefer) recently I have been asking to be put through extended teasing sessions. I am very visual and when I am tied spread eagle and my ler is dressed in sexy costumes or lingerie, with high gloss pantyhose always a special touch-- I get so turned on and desperately want to be tickled. But when she just walks around and taunts me and tells me incredible detailed tickle stories of how-- the character who she is dressed liked was endless gang tickled or tickle tortured – my arousal goes through the roof and I pull and strain to get free so I can take her. As my level of excitement grows she will taunt me with soft tickling for brief periods of time and come up with other cruel ways of torturing me such as putting in a tickle video and making me watch it. Or run her pantyhose across me--- Sometimes I get so excited I become dizzy and lose all track of time it is addicting-- and she can make me do anything. She told me her goal was to make me cum just by her visual teasing and other methods (without touching my private). That alone made me groan with pleasure.