So, does anyone ever actually receive any kind of reply?

[Machival]

I find it difficult to believe that there are absolutely no ticklish women in the NYC area browsing this site and looking to be tickled, but I'm hoping it's mostly just that women haven't been taking the initiative in making posts here. So I have a question: Does anyone looking for female ticklees in the NYC area ever actually receive a reply, or is this all just wailing into the void?

I've seen maybe a couple posts both here and on CraigsList from female ticklees in search of a tickler, but in the end they've turned out to either not reply at all or be some kind of spamming operation. It's depressing, really.

Anyway, I live in Queens and am in a committed relationship, but she's not really all that ticklish and would be pleased were I to find someone to tickle. I'm 25, moderately attractive, about 6'3, pics available on request. We can host and have plenty of bondage equipment (ropes, spreader bars, cuffs, etc), and my s/o would be glad to join in on the tickling if you were up for it.

Please PM me if interested. Women only. (Sorry, I know there are a ton of guys in the city looking to be tickled, but I'm just not into that. Couples are welcome, depending on circumstances.)

(For anyone else: How many of you have actually ever successfully connected with anyone using this messageboard? If so, has it been a pleasant experience? I'm curious about the rate of success per attempt, and if I should continue to even bother beyond this if I don't receive any kind of reply.)

 

[Knot Amewzed]

Free tickling advice!

(For anyone else: How many of you have actually ever successfully connected with anyone using this messageboard? If so, has it been a pleasant experience? I'm curious about the rate of success per attempt, and if I should continue to even bother beyond this if I don't receive any kind of reply.)

Make befriending the person a priority with tickling being your second objective!

I have had a lot of success just being myself (a clown). Try to post within discussions. Get to know the people first. Warm up to them. I will have to be honest with you, you won't find much success asking to meet ticklees for sessions in the personals. I have met a few through the personals without talking much, but I have a lot more success in myspace.

Not many people ever take my advice, but I never go a week without tickling someone different. Go figure.

 

[baldadonis]

Its very hard to get replies from women when you post in the personal's section if they don't know you at all. Posting in the discussion forums, not just about tickling is a good way to make yourself known, while getting the opportunity to learn about others in how they respond. There are definitely female lees in NYC, but I think most are not comfortable meeting a total stranger based just off a personals description.

 

[maniactickler]

Believe it! its even worse in Mass. 🙁

 

[WayTooD]

If your a guy - No
If your female - Way too many.

 

[tiklir]

Some Luck

I have had luck with this message board yes, but not instant. I have had responses that eventually over time lead to tickling. Women require a relationship of some sort to enter into this. Trust is paramount to them as it should be. No woman in my experience has immediately said tickle me! Any responses require patience and relationship building. That being said, good luck.

 

[Knot Amewzed]

I have had luck with this message board yes, but not instant. I have had responses that eventually over time lead to tickling. Women require a relationship of some sort to enter into this. Trust is paramount to them as it should be. No woman in my experience has immediately said tickle me! Any responses require patience and relationship building. That being said, good luck.

Very true, but once a girl did say that she wanted me to tickle her without building a rapport. We exchanged pics, met up and then gave her a 2 hour session on our first meet. Sometimes you just get lucky. It's a numbers game. Eventually you run into someone. Just don't be too aggressive.

Sincerely,
The Kinder More Gentler Knot.

 

[MeleeDuck_9]

Make befriending the person a priority with tickling being your second objective!

Not many people ever take my advice, but I never go a week without tickling someone different. Go figure.

TEACH ME!!!

I'm always afraid that I'm too much of a acquired taste,hence me being a lurker primarily.Not many gal in the 18 to 21 range like sarcastic cynics with a love of firearms,cartoons,and Frank Sinatra. I'm in the same love life as Deadpool and Greg House,except they have mounds of money.

 

[kdakmmt]

try being in alaska when looking for ticklephiles, you have better luck finding gold in your backyard

 

[Machival]

Thanks for all the responses, everyone.

Yeah, I guess it does make sense to try to make friends first. Though it seems kind of weird in that if you start out as friends on a tickling fetish forum, there's this dangling implication -- however unintentional -- that the whole thing is an attempt to get together for tickling. Just seems like it'd be a little awkward is all.

 

[SteelJaw]

Believe it or not, yes there are people in the NE area, a lot of them acctully, most of the girls iv dated are ticklish, and like to play at it. I have acctully met someone on here. And all though she was very immature and it didnt work out, it dose create hope for this system. Id say keep trying, and best of luck.

 

[Adam]

Yes, I've received a small handful of nice replies over the years and some have even kept in touch. None of them have lead to meetings as of yet, but you have to understand that a young lady putting herself out there is usually very shy. She knows she's putting herself in a vulnerable position in a male-dominated community. That's easy to understand. I do my best to be kind and reassuring. Never pushy, either. That's one of the worst things you can do. Patience is a virtue, grasshopper. 😉 Granted, a meeting may never happen, but I'm secure in knowing the way I approach contact is correct. If a meeting is ever to happen, I'm sure it will be worth the wait. That's my two cents for everyone reading this.