so this girl I've been hanging out with...

[tickletourturer]

So this girl that I hang around isn't my GF per se. We just hangout one of those things. Once in a while when I walk by her I give her a few pokes on her sides and she jumps and shouts "stop it" one time I briefly tickled under her arm while it was raised up and she kinda laughed and told me and I quote "stop it, its not funny" so I was wondering...do u think I should just tickle attack her one day and risk my friendship with her. Or should I fight my urge to and not do it! thoughts?

 

[Carnivore]

So... you have a female friend who doesn't want you to tickle her. You could respect your friend, or you could objectify her for the purposes of gratifying your sexual fetish. Sounds like a tough choice, man. How about this: don't tickle her, just maintain elaborate tickle fantasies about her. That way you can have private happy time, and you will still have a friend. I think that's the best compromise you could ask for.

 

[tickletourturer]

guess it will have to do haha

 

[Barefoot_Sis]

So this girl that I hang around isn't my GF per se. We just hangout one of those things. Once in a while when I walk by her I give her a few pokes on her sides and she jumps and shouts "stop it" one time I briefly tickled under her arm while it was raised up and she kinda laughed and told me and I quote "stop it, its not funny" so I was wondering...do u think I should just tickle attack her one day and risk my friendship with her. Or should I fight my urge to and not do it! thoughts?

Take the risk. She doesn't know this forum exists, so at the worst, she will just think you were being immature and retarded for a few minutes.

 

[tickletourturer]

Take the risk. She doesn't know this forum exists, so at the worst, she will just think you were being immature and retarded for a few minutes.

haha I like your answer better

 

[Rox_My_Sox1]

Here's a better answer than take a risk or do nothing; ADVANCE THE RELATIONSHIP INTO A POSSIBLE ROMANCE FIRST. Ask her if she'd like to go out to eat, or even go out on a date. After awhile, she might become receptive to your advances and indicate that she'd love a physical relationship with ya. Then and only then should you try and tickle her. If she says no to either a date or physical "play" then respect it. Part of being in love is knowing when to let go after all.

 

[tickletourturer]

Here's a better answer than take a risk or do nothing; ADVANCE THE RELATIONSHIP INTO A POSSIBLE ROMANCE FIRST. Ask her if she'd like to go out to eat, or even go out on a date. After awhile, she might become receptive to your advances and indicate that she'd love a physical relationship with ya. Then and only then should you try and tickle her. If she says no to either a date or physical "play" then respect it. Part of being in love is knowing when to let go after all.

thats very true. I mean We trying to become more than friends so maybe sometime down the road it will work!