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Socially awkward like Sex on the First Date...

Jawa

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Me to a tea right there.

Last International Talk Like a Pirate day ( 9/19/08) , I had the priviledge of meeting some cute intelligent peer at the University I go to.
She's a sophomore, name withheld, Psychology major, and into movies with developed antagonists (likes the complexity behind 'Villains'. we had a discussion about this also)

So; Long story made short, I treated her to a foot massage, found she was ticklish... and she twitched and squirmed a bit, giggling/laughing all the while... not apalled by this or anything ( I always expect that...) And she told me that she had an On again/Off again thing with her boyfriend.

THIS is the CLENCHER, Ladies and Gentlemen:
I saw her today at a student lounge... with her boyfriend... He only came my way once, asked me what kind of Camera-Bag I had (... NO, I'm not into filming Candids, nor will I ever be... as I type this anyway...) , No reason, then he returned to his little group and shot the breeze a bit.
She didn't see me at all.

So, I called her sometime later, and asked where she was with her boyfriend, and she said 'On again' and in my mind I was all SHIT, So I apologised for my... eagerness to pamper her on I.Talk like a pirate day... and proceeded to say I had a hunch because I saw her with her BF.
She mentions she didn't see me.
I mentioned I kinda float around (I was also focused on this stupid game I play. maybe you heard of it; it's called Puzzle-Pirates)
We carried on on the phone as usual, talking about good movies with killers (NOTE: you lot need to find a movie called Mr. Brooks. No TK, but very interesting... treats 'Murder' Like an addicition, like Drinking or smoking...)

... SO I guess I can't help but thinking that she thinks I'm some sort of... psychic FREAK... or CREEP... or something.

at the very most, I call myself 'Socially awkward'.

I dunno. What do you lot think of me? What you do know is I draw, and I'm way behind on comissions. I worry too much, and I do my social-Networking here or on Deviant-Art.
 
FREAK... or CREEP

at the very most, I call myself 'Socially awkward'.

I dunno. What do you lot think of me? What you do know is I draw, and I'm way behind on comissions. I worry too much, and I do my social-Networking here or on Deviant-Art.
this says it all here man. and I'm only saying it because I found out the hard way. Get out. Never be indoors unless there's nothing available to you. Put aside your pride, start up good conversations with girls. The internets only take us so far. And most girls frankly find it creepy guys "socialize" themselves here. you'd be surprized if you googled the phrases "how to start conversations" or "places to meet people". You've probably been jipped by life in that you just didn't have the skill or the outgoingness to befriend more than a select group of friends, and honestly, once you recognize you are "socially awkward" you have to go through training yourself out of it to improve your quality of life.

If anyone thinks I'm wrong or offensive, so be it, but thats how life is. it's only as good as you make it.
 
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I honestly don't get what your problem is. All I'm getting from it is "I touched her feet but she has a boyfriend and now I'm afraid help!". Can someone help me out here? I tried reading it 3 times already, but I just can't grasp the issue.
 
Points well taken...

this says it all here man. and I'm only saying it because I found out the hard way. Get out. Never be indoors unless there's nothing available to you. Put aside your pride, start up good conversations with girls. The internets only take us so far. And most girls frankly find it creepy guys "socialize" themselves here. you'd be surprized if you googled the phrases "how to start conversations" or "places to meet people". You've probably been jipped by life in that you just didn't have the skill or the outgoingness to befriend more than a select group of friends, and honestly, once you recognize you are "socially awkward" you have to go through training yourself out of it to improve your quality of life.

If anyone thinks I'm wrong or offensive, so be it, but thats how life is. it's only as good as you make it.

No offence taken mate. It just SEEMS like every SINGLE time I do go offline, to...well... flirt... I guess... All the cute girls can't date because of one of 3 reasons:
- Religion (utter bull)

- Parents (Maybe bull; I don't pry though...)

- Boyfriend (EVERY single CUTE GIRL... maybe I'm shallow as well... LAWL.)

I do have friends IRL... but you are right; I spend to much Effing time here... on the Internet, not in the company of like-minded individuals like ourselves.

And:

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I honestly don't get what your problem is. All I'm getting from it is "I touched her feet but she has a boyfriend and now I'm afraid help!". Can someone help me out here? I tried reading it 3 times already, but I just can't grasp the issue.

Yes... you're absolutely right. Maybe it is a small thing... maybe not. It depends on how her BF handles someone he doesn't know playing with his girl friend's feet.
Then again, she might not have told him. or she might have.

Like I said, I worry too much.
 
believe me man, it's just gonna be a problem when you meet a few girls you met initially online. just get out there. if your area is a shit resource for girls/people you want/need to meet, drive somewhere. i used to look for girls 20 miles radius away from me. know how old that gets after a while? now i'm saying "i'm gonna graduate college soon, i should go whereever the **** i want to meet them"
 
SO I guess I can't help but thinking that she thinks I'm some sort of... psychic FREAK... or CREEP... or something.

at the very most, I call myself 'Socially awkward'.

Jevil,
Calm down.. You have a foot fetish.. Just like the rest of the people in this community.. This sounds like the first time you explored your fetish and are now haveing regreats.. Don't worrie about this girl.. Maybe she will mention your fetish to one of her girlfriends.. Who likes you and loves tickle massage.
 
lol don't you remember man? girls don't have friends. I meet a girl, become her friend, and she shuts me down and tells me i'm a great guy. I go "hey, have any friends? " "nope, sorry". the kid's just gotta hunt. It took me a bit of (oh hell, it took me a long time) some time and effort to find a girl who loves tickling, but i'm in the process of talking to one and she wants to meet me. don't be afraid of foreign feelings man, we're on this planet to meet as many people as we can.
 
I wouldn't have called her. If you tickle a girl one day and see her with her boyfriend the next she's not interested.

Follow these other guys' advice and just get out there.
 
so, did you tell her about your fetish? b/c then i could see how that would make things a little weird...
 
be her friend while her boyfriend is around, when he's "off again" make yourself available for a "more than just a friend" relationship with her. i wouldn't give up on her if you like her and it seems she doesn't mind having her feet tickled.
 
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