SoftTicklerM/f and TicYourToe are dead

[TicYourToe]

Yes, i was both SoftTicklerM/f and TicYourToe in the TMF chatroom! And today i decided to end the life of both. The reason for this is very personal. I can't take how i was treated by the ladies in the chat. I met very lovely ladies in PCs and i loved it to be more familiar with them. And they pretended to love it too.... Read my stories and you'll know how tenderly, respectful and charming i am. But neither do i want to have an erotic chat, knowing, that the lady is tied up ad tickled in another PC window at the same time, nor do i want to wait like a call boy to be PCed by a lady who is in the room, ignoring me. In addition these huge number of guests, who suddenly leave a PC without a word, make appointments and don't come and so on. I don't want to accuse anyone, it's my personal view at the things. But i am too proud for this.
Have a good time and take care.
Bye forever

SoftTicklerM/f and TicYourToe

 

[Slappy McGee]

well...

I'm awfully sorry that you feel jaded, and I can see where you are coming from, but it sounds to me like you had such heightened expectations for the chatroom, that you were setting yourself up for unhappiness to begin with.

Perhaps if you looked at it a little more lightheartedly, you might be able to try again and have fun in there after a while, and take the whole thing a little less personally. There are some awfully nice folks, and I have never had a bad time in there, but then again, I am not looking to meet someone to play with, on or offline.

It is just a chatroom, it is not a singles bar.

Hope your day improves, just take a few deep breaths.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Sad to hear you feel the way you do and sorry to hear you feel you were treated unkindly but I just want to say that you should not make a rash prejudgment against the collective for the wrong doings of a few.

TTD

Be well be safe.
Come back again when you have had a chance to relax and see things more clearly.

 

[bickee]

I wasn't going to waste my breath (types) on such a ridiculous thread but I can't help myself. This is a chat room. I am free to talk to whomever I like. If I don't like it, I leave. "Bye forever"???? Sounds like someone's looking for attention. And I am finished indulging.

 

[red indian]

Thats my girl!

Well done bick! glad you found a match to light your flame thrower at last!

 

[Neutron]

LOL

LOL Get a grip dude. It's only the internet.

 

[Dave2112]

Ok, we've had our say. Let's be careful lighting that flame-thrower, it can get you burned. Tic, if you're still reading these, I suggest you follow the pre-mentioned advice and take a few breaths to relax.

Things like that happen in chatrooms, not just ours, but most. People have short attention spans, escpecially in a medium geared toward that sort of thing. I've had people flit in and out on me a million times, and that's not even in any sort of "cybering". Sometimes you can be on with someone, and they get another IM, and that person gets another IM, and so on.

You can't view a chatroom as a place to "hook-up". If it happens, and it does occasionally, great! But you'd be selling yourself short to expect that.

Many people you may talk to could also be somewhat new to either chatting or our chatroom in particular and don't navigate well. Give people a chance. Besides, if someone cuts you off, there are plenty of others to talk to who won't. I've talked to you before and have always found you an enjoyable person. I'd hate to lose a member over something like this.

If you'd like to talk on a more personal level, I can give you some insights on some things that happened to me when I was new to chatrooms in general. My e-mail is in my profile, feel free to contact me.

Everyone else, please understand that Tic most likely posted that in the heat of being upset and try to give a little room for reason. I can understand where someone involved might be upset, and rightfully so, but it's not going to help by flaming or encouraging others to do so.

...and that's all I have to say about that. Peace!😎 😀

 

[qjakal]

Stoicism?

Hi Tic...we've never chatted in any part of the TMF, (that I know of at least), but if I were you, I'd rethink that decision! It's tough to find a group like this that is(in general) one of the friendliest and most accepting places around! Besides, you're German...stoic and all that! Jump back in there and swim again! You'll heal, and be stronger for it! Q

 

[talons]

Yea dude, don't go off the deep end. Take a few steps back to reevaluate before you make any drastic decisions. Life is too short to let things such as this bother you so much. Take it easy and hope you find whatever it is you are looking for😀

 

[TicYourToe]

thanks for your motivation

thanks for your help to give me a new orientation .... it's really appreciated. Maybe I'll visit the chat with a new nick (i.e. flame thrower ;-) ) to attend the daily soap in the mainroom ... there are really nice girls and guys among you and i'd like it to talk with you. Nevertheless my opinion about the PC situation hasn't changed. I know some real exciting girls, who share my point of view; but i didn't meet them in this chat. My analysis was very easy: too less good times, too much bad times. So lets have fun together in the main room in the future. And .... I think it's all said now from my side. I didn't want to trigger a general discussion about the chat. I only wanted to let you know, why I won't be in the PC scene anymore, where I've spent nearly more time than in irl in the last 3 to 4 months.

so take care and have fun

TicYourToe and SoftTicklerM/f

 

[Dave2112]

Tic, nice to have you back. My offer to chat still stands. We all go through frustrating periods. It's what makes us human, or mostly human in the case of some of us🙄 .

The Internet is a relatively new form of communication, and some of the etiquette quidelines are new as well. I hope you find better luck, and I trust that you will look back on this and laugh one day, as I did quite some time ago.😎

 

[QBWeaver]

Hi Tic,

Please don't let the actions of a few color your interest for the rest. There are truly wonderful people online but just as in real life there are some folks who are not nice. Fortunately those people are few and far between but they often do affect us overall. I know. I've been there myself.

All I can do is give you my viewpoint as a woman. When I'm in a chatroom I get im'd like crazy. I'll often be juggling between 5-8 im's. I try to be nice to everyone but I just can't type that fast and I truly can't enjoy any one conversation let alone all 8. I've told some of the guys that I just can't chat right then. Usually it's ok but many times I've been accused of being a guy or I get some rude comment from them. That certainly doesn't make me that excited about the next time I want to go into the chat room. I will usually try to schedule some time later to meet again with them but this is real life we're all dealing with and stuff happens. I'm not always able to get on line at the exact time I agreed to but I usually follow it up with an email asking to reschedule or I keep my eyes open for them online for chats later. That usually works fine.

You might want to ask, in the chat room, if you can IM a specific person. If they say yes then you can im them and maybe schedule a private chatroom elsewhere so you both won't get interrupted too much. But unless she's blocked everyone she'll still probably get some im's along the way. At least you've pretty much got her attention.

I've found that I'm more prone to want to chat with someone who asks first instead of someone iming me out of the blue. So try that. It might work for you.

Time is precious. Be aware of your time and hers. Enjoy little snippets of time with her and eventually that time will grow. And please don't take it personally if she leaves unannounced. Maybe her computer crashed. Maybe someone came in the room that shouldn't see what she's typing like a child. Or maybe she's trying to escape someone else who's bothering her while she's trying to enjoy a conversation with you.

And I'll offer, as Dave did, to chat with ya. Drop me a line or watch for me online.