some weird stuff

[ViperGTS]

Something very strange happened to me today....I am in a bowling league at the local bowling alley. I know most of the people in the league. Today, the team I played against had only two players, since two didn't show up. There was a guy and a girl. The girl is someone I really like....if ya know what I mean....I think she knows this too.....and she is Jewish. She was all dressed up today for Hannuka, and had on those really becoming stretchy pants. When she took off her dress shoes to put on her bowling shoes, I noticed that she had on hose underneath the stretchy pants. I immediately was stunned, not because of the nylons, but because I didn't feel the urge to tickle her. I felt as though....well, I don't know what I felt. I talked with her the whole time (we're good friends) but I never spent that much time with her before. After bowling, on the way home, I could think about nothing but her. It never once crossed my mind to find a way to tickle her, but what I felt and still feel towards her is something I've never felt before. Will someone please explain this to me?

Absolutely stunned,
dudeguytheman

 

[Slappy McGee]

there are lots of things about members of the opposite sex that can attract us to them, and sex or tickling is only one of them. I have had this happen quite often, and consider it a sign that I really like someone when I think more about talking to them and being with them than sex/tickling etc..... and the people I usually want to date rather than just find attractive I tend to have less fantasies about than other women I barely know who might just be "hot".... perhaps you know somewhere inside that if you just treat this girl like a sex object it would mess things up...... trust yourself, go slow, and it will take care of itself....

good luck.

 

[TickledToDeath]

dude

Dare I say it but you just may like her for HER and NOT her ticklish feet?
Noooooooooooooo, could it BE?



TTD

 

[ViperGTS]

No need to be a wise-ass, TTD, I'm still relatively young and haven't been through this before....but you do have a point. And Slappy, I think...no, I know....that you're right. I believe I knew it all along, but I had to hear it from someone else, otherwise I wouldn't have let myself believe it. I'm kinda shy, so I hope I don't screw up royally when I try to "talk to her"....thanx. 🙂

satisfied (for now),
dudeguytheman

 

[TickledToDeath]

yo dudeguy...

I did not mean it in a deragatory manner! I have a sarcastic sense of humor and I thought everyone here in the TMF knew that!
I am always a wise ass!😀 but I mean well all the time with my intentions.
Sorry if you took it wrong bro. I guess YOU are not used to my sense of humor yet.

I meant it in a good way that you actually liked her without and or before tickling came in to play.

TTD

 

[ViperGTS]

allright,....just don't let it happen again.😀 just kidding. But like I said, you do have a point. Thanx again.

My mind is still on her,
dudeguytheman

 

[TickledToDeath]

Good. NOW GO GET THOSE FINGERS on her FEET and start tickling!!! 😉 Where your mind goes the fingers follow.

Actually, IF she has yet to find out about your love of tickling, ease into it buddy.

Next time she changes into the bowling shoes, give a foot a quick stroke. Tell her it is sign language for bowling. "A STRIKE"!
Add some humor into it at first and see what reaction you get.

IF you are already friends, you are not risking anything.


TTD

 

[ViperGTS]

Holy crap! That is an awesome idea. I never thought of it. I wonder if she'll actually go for the whole "Bowling gesture" thing, though. Whatever. But still, although I'd love to get her into a compromised position (I think you know what I mean), I just don't feel the lust for it like I normally would. I'll try the single stroke down the arch thing, but I can't say if it will go much further than that. I think I'll stick to just getting her to go out with me first, then we''l play erotic tickle games (much) later.

dudeguytheman

 

[Slappy McGee]

hey chief, don't worry about it...... you seem like a cool guy..... and you seem to really like this girl.... I am a firm believer that if you are yourself, then you will easily weed out poeple who are or are not compatible with you...... so just be you and if it supposed to be, it will..... but if it doesn't happen , don't take it personally.... there are lots of hits and misses in life, but god the hits are fun.... 🙂 good luck amigo...

Slappy McGee