"soulmate" question for members

[BigBrownEyes]

I'd like to ask a few questions to those of you who would be kind enough to indulge me. Has anyone here met their soulmate? Or, if the term soulmate is too dramatic, has anyone here met the right person? Is your soulmate a ticklephile, or someone not like us?


For those of you who haven't met the right one yet, is it a goal of most people to meet their soulmate? Or, is the most important thing for most people just to survive this crazy world, your job, bills, ect.

I'm not talking about meeting someone here at the TMF. I just mean meeting them through the course of your life.

I'm really interested in anyone's viewpoint on this subject. Thanx,

BBE.

 

[giggleygirl25]

at this point in time in my life...i think the most important thing is survival...if i happen to meet my "soulmate" then so be it...if not wellll i'll be the crazy lady with all the dogs when i get up in years🙂

 

[BigBrownEyes]

Thank you, GG, for your response. I'm definitely interested in other people's viewpoint on this subject. Especially people from a forum that I like to visit. I hope the subject isn't "too serious", or doesn't cut too deep for most.

This subject of finding your "soulmate" is something that people in the real world don't really talk about, although it's often the focus of movies. I just wonder if it's something that anyone ever thinks about, or if it's just a foolish/unimportant idea.

The reason I bring the whole topic up is that I see people stressed about their lousy marriages and jobs every day, and I wonder if they feel like they settled, or if they didn't care in the first place.

Everyone thinks the key to happiness is "winning the lottery." I disagree. Look what money did for Elvis.

Ok, let's get back to the usual nonsense.

 

[mykal]

I believe that there is at least one, or possibly more than one, woman in this world that could fit under the title of "soulmate". However, I also believe that I will only find her when I am ready to. Heck, a part of me feels that I may have already found her, only the first time that we were together, the timing simply wasn't right.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

I don't actually use that term. But, yep. I've met him. I married him too! 😀

Ann

 

[Moses25]

Soles 'R' Us...

I'd rather have a solemate than a soulmate, if you catch my meaning.

They could both be the same person you say?

That's too much expectation for my poor CNS to handle...

Good thread.

Cheers.😀

 

[BigBrownEyes]

No doubt, Moses. Meeting the right person and finding out they happen to be a ticklephile, is practically a pipedream. The odds are probably about one million to one, if they're even that good.

I was just curious if others put much importance on just meeting the right person. Maybe the odds on the whole thing just stink, period.

 

[WraithTickler]

I think finding is a bit of meeting one's soul mate, but I think growing to know and learn about another person is a big part of it. Things like love do not just happen- it's an evolution of a deep and personally intimate relationship. Perhaps with the right time and conditions one could meet many people who could be potential soul mates, but the end of evolution applies to meeting that special one and sharing yourself with them.