Strange request

[solescratcher99]

I was wondering if one of you guys could come up with something with this girl getting tickled senseless? She's actually a huge anime fan, so I don't know if that helps or not. BTW, feel free to use nudity. lol.

 

[The Last Laugh]

Drawing takes time and effort. It seems to me the artists here would have little reason to do a drawing of a random non-celeb person as a personal favor to you, I'm sorry to say. However, some artists do offer custom work for a fee. You might want to get in touch with them. One of them might be able to help you.

In any case, an artist would probably need some better shots than those provided here, especially the first one. It's kind of hard to see what she looks like, exactly. A few pictures from different angles might help.

 

[solescratcher99]

Yes, I was actually wanting to get one of the first girl because she's a huge anime fan and thought it could be a cool gift for her. The other two I just threw in on a whim. lol. In hindsight it probably is asking too much since this stuff does take time. Is there a link to an artist who does pictures like this?

 

[The Last Laugh]

Is there a link to an artist who does pictures like this?

I'm afraid I'm not aware of the artists who offer this service. But maybe you could post a message specifically asking for such people? As long as you can pay for the job, I'm pretty sure you should be able to find someone willing to do it.

I'm curious, you say she's a big anime fan, but what does she think of tickling as a fetish? I mean, would she be pleased by a drawing of herself being tickle tortured, possibly even nude?

 

[solescratcher99]

I'm afraid I'm not aware of the artists who offer this service. But maybe you could post a message specifically asking for such people? As long as you can pay for the job, I'm pretty sure you should be able to find someone willing to do it.

I'm curious, you say she's a big anime fan, but what does she think of tickling as a fetish? I mean, would she be pleased by a drawing of herself being tickle tortured, possibly even nude?

I don't know if she'd be pleased "for sure" but she wouldn't be disgusted. I've known her for a long time and she's pretty much a freak like I am. 😱 And she LOVES having her feet tickled. (I'm not sure about the other places though. lol.)

She'd probably like it or she might find it funny. We were actually going to do a tickle shoot but she has to do some moving right now.

(Forgive me, but this is something that's been bugging me a little lately, so I have to "write out" my thoughts.)

Now that I've answered your question, I have to say the question did make me think a little bit. As I understand the question, it assumed it was improper to fantasize or see someone in a sexual manner who doesn't wish to be seen that way. If we did things by this standard alone, then all of the pictures here of celebrities would have to come down if those celebrities personally perceived them as unflattering.

Hypothetically, if she was disgusted by something like this (which I highly doubt), then its well within her rights to be disgusted. However, you can't impose social standards on what or whom people are allowed to fantasize about. That would be oppression in the worst possible sense of the word: oppression of the mind. I mean, that would be the most horrible kind of fascism because you're dictating how people can think!

Yes, if she didn't think highly of this she would have the right to be disgusted and I'd also understand why she would be. I wouldn't think highly of some guy getting off on artwork of me (because I'm not gay), BUT he has a right to do that if he wishes and I wouldn't chastise him for doing so. In fact, it would be wrong for me too scold him or insult him for doing so because everyone has a right to their own mind (sexual and otherwise). Likewise, I have the right to either ignore it or, if he's pestering me about it, tell him I'm not gay and ask him to not bring this up around me again.

 

[The Last Laugh]

As I understand the question, it assumed it was improper to fantasize or see someone in a sexual manner who doesn't wish to be seen that way.

Is that really what the question assumed? It's not what I had in mind when I asked it.

If we did things by this standard alone, then all of the pictures here of celebrities would have to come down if those celebrities personally perceived them as unflattering.

Granted. But this isn't the same situation. You're talking about a drawing of a person you know personally, and were thinking of offering it to her as a gift.

In any case, that's not really what I meant. I was just asking how well she was likely to take it, since you didn't specify if she enjoyed or even knew about tickling fetishism. You didn't say what kind of relationship you have with her. I mean, how close/intimate are you? Would she mind you showing her a nude picture you had made of her, for instance? After all, for most people it would be a seriously awkward situation. You didn't even say if she knew you posted her picture on a fetish forum. There's nothing wrong at all about you having fantasies about her, but that doesn't matter much if you share it with her and she happens to have a problem with it. She's still going to be upset with you.

Now, it's entirely possible that everything's fine, and there's no harm done at all. She might even get a kick out of it. She does sound like a very relaxed, open-minded person. You even said you were going to do a tickling shoot, so I have to assume she's reasonably comfortable with the whole thing. But there was no way for us to know that, based on what you wrote prior to my previous post. So I believe mine was a legitimate question.

 

[solescratcher99]

Is that really what the question assumed? It's not what I had in mind when I asked it.

Okay, so you were actually asking

Would she mind you showing her a nude picture you had made of her, for instance? After all, for most people it would be a seriously awkward situation.

I doubt she would. Actually, I'd be surprised if she was.

I'm still wondering why you'd ask that question. Because it would be uncomfortable for most people? Well, just because something makes someone uncomfortable that doesn't mean its wrong, and just because someone is cool with something that doesn't mean its right. I'm not really into having a lofty sense of social propriety either.

 

[The Last Laugh]

Well, just because something makes someone uncomfortable that doesn't mean its wrong, and just because someone is cool with something that doesn't mean its right.

It seems you're still missing what I'm trying to say, so I'm just going to drop the subject altogether. Good luck finding a artist for your drawing.

 

[solescratcher99]

"You didn't say what kind of relationship you have with her. I mean, how close/intimate are you? Would she mind you showing her a nude picture you had made of her, for instance? After all, for most people it would be a seriously awkward situation. You didn't even say if she knew you posted her picture on a fetish forum."

How often do you answer those questions in your posts of women you shoot? Just from memory, I'd say you don't do this very often.

"It seems you're still missing what I'm trying to say, so I'm just going to drop the subject altogether. Good luck finding a artist for your drawing."

Okay, but I'd like to say for future reference that I'm not obligated to explain anything to you. You're not the overarching authority on how people "should" relate to each other and I certainly don't need someone asking me questions which passively imply I'm doing something malicious. I'm an adult with good intentions and I certainly don't need to be interrogated about my well intentioned gestures. Besides, the kind of relationship I have with another woman is none of your business. Unless I notify you otherwise, please keep your frivolous concerns to yourself.

Thank you